Poll of the Day > My 5th crush situation just is a spit in the face tbh.

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DistantMemory
10/09/17 2:22:34 AM
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PiOverlord posted...
DistantMemory posted...
PiOverlord posted...
DistantMemory posted...
mooreandrew58 posted...
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Go_Totodile posted...
https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75849631

Oh for fuck's sake. Let's give PiOverlord the benefit of the doubt and not assume he's talking about the same girl here.

https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75849631/887906483

Fuck.


I don't get it... something wrong with asking the same question in two places? or am I missing something?


I can't speak for Toto, but what I was reacting to was how PiOverlord said he was planning on asking the girl out despite the awkward circumstances.

I actually found out that she would be fired for dating a resident today (or well, yesterday since midnight has passed).

I was never going to actually ask her out, it was mainly me being stupid. I am just letting my emotions lead my thoughts in all sorts of places.


I know this is going to sound jokey, but I'm being serious when I say that you should instead let your thoughts lead your emotions. Preferably onto some Kleenex. Then move on with your life.

I know this is the only real solution to my problem unfortunately. As much as I wish things could be different, that's life. It will be tough though, especially since I will be around her often.


Just do it once(more?) and then be done with it. Don't allow yourself to hypnox to her a second time. You don't want relying on her for arousal to become a habit.
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gustavethesteel
10/09/17 2:22:36 AM
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Just start asking out random girls that you find attractive. Even if a lot turn you down, it gets easier every time, plus you don't hinder yourself by building up these fantasies and over thinking stuff. This way you might actually find a girl to be happy with rather than spend your time agonizing over hypothetical relationships that will never happen.
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DistantMemory
10/09/17 2:28:19 AM
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gustavethesteel posted...
Just start asking out random girls that you find attractive. Even if a lot turn you down, it gets easier every time, plus you don't hinder yourself by building up these fantasies and over thinking stuff. This way you might actually find a girl to be happy with rather than spend your time agonizing over hypothetical relationships that will never happen.


Problem with that is what TC's attracted to may be beyond his reach.

I say he should aim low and build himself up instead. Start with women that are below your level and gradually work your way up so that you're more comfortable going for those who are at or above your level.
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gustavethesteel
10/09/17 2:35:51 AM
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DistantMemory posted...
gustavethesteel posted...
Just start asking out random girls that you find attractive. Even if a lot turn you down, it gets easier every time, plus you don't hinder yourself by building up these fantasies and over thinking stuff. This way you might actually find a girl to be happy with rather than spend your time agonizing over hypothetical relationships that will never happen.


Problem with that is what TC's attracted to may be beyond his reach.

I say he should aim low and build himself up instead. Start with women that are below your level and gradually work your way up so that you're more comfortable going for those who are at or above your level.


I should clarify. By attractive, I meant purely physical. Seems he develops these crushes on girls he knows and spend time with. With any random girl he sees and thinks she is in anyway cute/hot/sexy he stands a better chance of not getting to much into his own head about it.

You do make a very good point though.
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