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Ben111 10/10/17 3:40:13 PM #1: |
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PMarth2002 10/10/17 3:42:20 PM #3: |
Depends on the people involved. I'd guess on average women are more suited towards raising kids, but there's nothing wrong with a guy doing it instead.
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RCtheWSBC 10/10/17 3:46:44 PM #4: |
Zangulus posted...
Its neither good nor bad definitely based on the sex. --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DirtBasedSoap 10/10/17 3:49:39 PM #5: |
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Smarkil 10/10/17 3:50:00 PM #6: |
Zangulus posted...
Its neither good nor bad definitely based on the sex. What if the sex isn't very good? --- "We're not even close" - Romans building Rome at the end of Day 1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zeus 10/10/17 3:50:05 PM #7: |
Depends on the people involved. If you have a strong woman with a weak man, it might make sense to have the man rear the children instead of taking menial work. And, in general, it makes more sense for a parent to be a primary caregiver than an extended relative or outsider.
Ben111 posted... On the other hand my sister says it is a bad idea because women are more maternal and should be with the children instead. What do you think? Given the definition of maternal, that seems like a silly remark. --- (\/)(\/)|-| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Peterass 10/10/17 3:52:26 PM #8: |
It's my dream to be a stay at home dad..without the kids
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Kyuubi4269 10/10/17 3:53:22 PM #9: |
Women are inherently more maternal, however many men have much stronger paternal instincts than their partner's maternal ones.
I think house husbands are a great idea when the dad wants to stay with their kids over their career. It's damaging to insist on taking your kids to daycare when a parent can stay with them and raise them one-to-one. --- RIP_Supa posted... I've seen some stuff ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kyuubi4269 10/10/17 3:54:41 PM #10: |
Zeus posted...
If you have a strong woman with a weak man, it might make sense to have the man rear the children instead of taking menial work. You don't leave the shit parent to raise the kids, child rearing is serious business. --- RIP_Supa posted... I've seen some stuff ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 10/10/17 3:54:52 PM #11: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
Zangulus posted...Its neither good nor bad definitely based on the sex. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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myghostisdead 10/10/17 3:55:21 PM #12: |
It depends on the person. I just read yesterday that more and more stay at home dads are returning or wanting to return to the work force because they realized that it isn't as easy as they thought.
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Jen0125 10/10/17 3:56:42 PM #13: |
myghostisdead posted...
It depends on the person. I just read yesterday that more and more stay at home dads are returning or wanting to return to the work force because they realized that it isn't as easy as they thought. yeah no shit raising kids is hard work and mostly filled without reward for a long time --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kyuubi4269 10/10/17 3:59:46 PM #14: |
Jen0125 posted...
raising kids is hard work and mostly filled without reward for a long time Because raising your kids isn't rewarding. --- RIP_Supa posted... I've seen some stuff ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkknight109 10/10/17 4:45:52 PM #15: |
Jen0125 posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...Zangulus posted...Its neither good nor bad definitely based on the sex. This. Figure out amongst the two of you who wants to stay home with the kids and who wants to be the breadwinner. Depending on your respective qualifications, your ability to keep house, and your general love for kids (which, really, should be a prerequisite to having them in the first place), you can sort out what arrangement makes the most sense. I'd love to be a stay-at-home Dad and I'd happily do it if I was independently wealthy; not sure I'd like being dependent on someone else for money, but that's the way things usually work, I guess... --- Kill 1 man: You are a murderer. Kill 10 men: You are a monster. Kill 100 men: You are a hero. Kill 10,000 men, you are a conqueror! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 10/10/17 4:52:03 PM #16: |
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Jen0125 posted...raising kids is hard work and mostly filled without reward for a long time A lot of millenials have that outlook bc they hate children ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 10/10/17 4:54:34 PM #17: |
Kyuubi4269 posted...
a lot of times it isn't. kids are very selfish and not always appreciative. it's not always a rewarding job. there are a lot of studies done with people who regret having children but are afraid to talk about it because there's a misconception that people should always be grateful or positive about child rearing. the reality of child rearing is a lot harsher. OhhhJa posted... A lot of millenials have that outlook bc they hate children a lot of people who have children in general have that outlook. no one with kids has the idea that it's 100% rewarding. that's something people who don't have kids like to pretend. last i checked neither you or kyuubi have children. neither do i and that's because i realize it's a lot of bullshit and a little sugar and i'm not really down with that. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zeus 10/10/17 4:55:37 PM #18: |
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Zeus posted...If you have a strong woman with a weak man, it might make sense to have the man rear the children instead of taking menial work. If you leave the shit parent to make the money, the family can't afford to live on one salary. More importantly, the stronger person might be shit at parenting. A lot of highly successful persons don't have a proverbial nurturing bone in their body. myghostisdead posted... It depends on the person. I just read yesterday that more and more stay at home dads are returning or wanting to return to the work force because they realized that it isn't as easy as they thought. Sounds like bullshit propaganda. --- (\/)(\/)|-| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DistantMemory 10/10/17 4:59:49 PM #19: |
Jen0125 posted...
a lot of times it isn't. kids are very selfish and not always appreciative. it's not always a rewarding job. there are a lot of studies done with people who regret having children but are afraid to talk about it because there's a misconception that people should always be grateful or positive about child rearing. the reality of child rearing is a lot harsher. Do you have a child, Jen? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkknight109 10/10/17 5:01:18 PM #20: |
OhhhJa posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...Jen0125 posted...raising kids is hard work and mostly filled without reward for a long time You actually have this backwards. Millennials - particularly Millennial Dads - are actually closer to their children than previous generations. Various studies have tried to pinpoint the reason for this and they determined it was likely some combination of: -Growing up under Boomer parents, who tended to put careers first and also had the highest divorce rates in the history of Western society -Shifting of gender norms is largely leaving the old family tropes in the dustbin. Previously, child-rearing - like keeping house - was seen (derisively) as "a woman's job" that men had no part in (both because it was beneath them and because they were seen to be awful at it, lacking in "a mother's touch"). That is no longer the case and Millennial Men are stepping in to be more active parents than their fathers were. -Increased communication via smart phones, internet, etc., allows even those parents who travel away from their families on a regular basis to maintain close contact with their kids. --- Kill 1 man: You are a murderer. Kill 10 men: You are a monster. Kill 100 men: You are a hero. Kill 10,000 men, you are a conqueror! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 10/10/17 5:05:49 PM #21: |
DistantMemory posted...
i don't because i don't have a sugar coated view of child rearing. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZiggiStardust 10/10/17 5:07:58 PM #22: |
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Jen0125 10/10/17 5:09:40 PM #23: |
ZiggiStardust posted...
sure, it's a great idea... if you're an effeminate beta male, ok? this is very sad. there's nothing inherently effeminate or emasculating about a man wanting to be a stay at home father. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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