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PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 4:39:28 PM #1:	So, My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me essentially out of the blue. Needless to say, Im heartbroken and devastated. Ill do anything to get him back. I wasnt the best girlfriend in the past couple months, but there was no communication that he was unhappy. He left me for some girl he met at work. Claims he loves her, after a few weeks. She says she loves him. Its been less than a month, weve hooked up 3 times, hes sent me countless texts about all the things that are wrong with their relationship. She doesnt like anything he likes, they dont click, the sex is bad, shes gross, unladylike, the list goes on and on. But he says he doesnt love me anymore, that the sex was empty. But also says things like this isnt easy for me. Sends me song lyrics. And says that your memory haunts me Now he says that we cant talk anymore. That he needs to let this play out. He keeps telling me to date someone else. If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do? <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889200575] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>So, My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me essentially out of the blue. Needless to say, Im heartbroken and devastated. Ill do anything to get him back. I wasnt the best girlfriend in the past couple months, but there was no communication that he was unhappy. He left me for some girl he met at work. Claims he loves her, after a few weeks. She says she loves him. Its been less than a month, weve hooked up 3 times, hes sent me countless texts about all the things that are wrong with their relationship. She doesnt like anything he likes, they dont click, the sex is bad, shes gross, unladylike, the list goes on and on. But he says he doesnt love me anymore, that the sex was empty. But also says things like this isnt easy for me. Sends me song lyrics. And says that your memory haunts me Now he says that we cant talk anymore. That he needs to let this play out. He keeps telling me to date someone else. If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 10/26/17 4:43:55 PM #2:	PenguinsBabe posted... He left me for some girl he met at work. Claims he loves her, after a few weeks. She says she loves him. Gonna be brutally honest here - is it possible that they've been seeing each other longer than whatever amount of time he told you they've been seeing each other? Its been less than a month, weve hooked up 3 times, hes sent me countless texts about all the things that are wrong with their relationship. She doesnt like anything he likes, they dont click, the sex is bad, shes gross, unladylike, the list goes on and on. But he says he doesnt love me anymore, that the sex was empty. But also says things like this isnt easy for me. Sends me song lyrics. And says that your memory haunts me Now he says that we cant talk anymore. That he needs to let this play out. He keeps telling me to date someone else. If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do? You stay the hell away from him, that's what you do. Consider his behaviour for a second. Take your personal feelings towards him out of the equation for a second. First of all he dumped you on a whim, best case scenario. Worst case scenario he'd been carrying on an affair with her while still together with you. Second of all he's hooked up with you while with her, multiple times. Guy has no problem cheating. Furthermore he's telling you all the dirty on his current relationship. So he has no sense of loyalty to speak of. Basically he's following whatever impulse his dick is telling him to follow. And now he's telling you to keep your distance but to wait around for him. Like a cat on the end of a string. He's already made it clear that he doesn't want you and doesn't love you but for whatever reason he wants you to stick around if his situation changes. And what, you're just going to do that? Consider all this together. This man will never respect you, because he already disrespected you. He doesn't respect her. He doesn't know what the fuck he wants or what he's doing. He'll continue to fuck around and break hearts. This guy is bad news. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:889200905] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>He left me for some girl he met at work. Claims he loves her, after a few weeks. She says she loves him.</quote> Gonna be brutally honest here - is it possible that they've been seeing each other longer than whatever amount of time he told you they've been seeing each other? <quote>Its been less than a month, weve hooked up 3 times, hes sent me countless texts about all the things that are wrong with their relationship. She doesnt like anything he likes, they dont click, the sex is bad, shes gross, unladylike, the list goes on and on. But he says he doesnt love me anymore, that the sex was empty. But also says things like this isnt easy for me. Sends me song lyrics. And says that your memory haunts me Now he says that we cant talk anymore. That he needs to let this play out. He keeps telling me to date someone else. If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do?</quote> You stay the hell away from him, that's what you do. Consider his behaviour for a second. Take your personal feelings towards him out of the equation for a second. First of all he dumped you on a whim, best case scenario. Worst case scenario he'd been carrying on an affair with her while still together with you. Second of all he's hooked up with you while with her, multiple times. Guy has no problem cheating. Furthermore he's telling you all the dirty on his current relationship. So he has no sense of loyalty to speak of. Basically he's following whatever impulse his dick is telling him to follow. And now he's telling you to keep your distance but to wait around for him. Like a cat on the end of a string. He's already made it clear that he doesn't want you and doesn't love you but for whatever reason he wants you to stick around if his situation changes. And what, you're just going to do that? Consider all this together. This man will never respect you, because he already disrespected you. He doesn't respect her. He doesn't know what the fuck he wants or what he's doing. He'll continue to fuck around and break hearts. This guy is bad news.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 10/26/17 4:46:15 PM #3:	you are both bad for each other --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:889201074] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>you are both bad for each other</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Colorahdo 10/26/17 4:46:41 PM #4:	The partner of your dreams half dumped you to have a fling with some girl? Jesus move on --- But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them - bring them here and kill them in front of me ~Jesus Christ <cite>Colorahdo posted [p:889201108] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>The partner of your dreams half dumped you to have a fling with some girl? Jesus move on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
White Eagle 10/26/17 4:47:45 PM #5:	This guy is bad news. --- Detroit Red Wings http://media.zenfs.com/en/blogs/sptusnhlexperts/108545331.jpg <cite>White Eagle posted [p:889201184] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><quote>This guy is bad news.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PSXer_D5_MkIII 10/26/17 4:48:18 PM #6:	Hook up with Hoth instead <cite>PSXer_D5_MkIII posted [p:889201215] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>Hook up with Hoth instead</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 10/26/17 4:50:04 PM #7:	this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:889201326] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiggy101011 10/26/17 4:52:15 PM #8:	Colorahdo posted... The partner of your dreams half dumped you to have a fling with some girl? Jesus move on Pretty much this. Sounds like he cheated on you with the wrong girl, so he will just cheat on you until he finds the right girl. --- Gamertag: F1RE v2 PSN ID: F1REx Man got me a 9 and she sexy. <cite>Jiggy101011 posted [p:889201465] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>Colorahdo posted...</cite> <quote>The partner of your dreams half dumped you to have a fling with some girl? Jesus move on</quote> Pretty much this. Sounds like he cheated on you with the wrong girl, so he will just cheat on you until he finds the right girl.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 10/26/17 4:59:13 PM #9:	PenguinsBabe posted... If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do? It might make him jealous, but his feelings are irrelevant as he's garbage. So... date someone else, when you're up to it. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:889201983] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>If I date someone else, will it make him jealous? What the hell do I do?</quote> It might make him jealous, but his feelings are irrelevant as he's garbage. So... date someone else, when you're up to it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArtVandelay 10/26/17 5:03:06 PM #11:	drunkmuggle posted... this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ? --- Vandelay Industries Importing & Exporting <cite>ArtVandelay posted [p:889202238] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote>this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other</quote> lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 10/26/17 5:04:03 PM #12:	ArtVandelay posted... drunkmuggle posted... this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ? Serious --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:889202308] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>ArtVandelay posted...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote> this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other</quote> lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ?</quote> Serious</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArtVandelay 10/26/17 5:05:17 PM #15:	oh wow. that's hilarious --- Vandelay Industries Importing & Exporting <cite>ArtVandelay posted [p:889202408] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>oh wow. that's hilarious</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Buzz Killjoy 10/26/17 5:05:44 PM #16:	Imagine believing any of this garbage. --- *Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?* <cite>Buzz Killjoy posted [p:889202432] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>Imagine believing any of this garbage. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 5:11:40 PM #18:	Yes unfortunately this is all serious No I know for a fact when it started. When they started talking, etc To be fair, I was his first serious adult relationship. I told him its fair that he wants to explore and see other people. He has considered dating both of us, like as in casually, and seeing where things go, but she wont have it. Im fine with it. <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889202855] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>Yes unfortunately this is all serious No I know for a fact when it started. When they started talking, etc To be fair, I was his first serious adult relationship. I told him its fair that he wants to explore and see other people. He has considered dating both of us, like as in casually, and seeing where things go, but she wont have it. Im fine with it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 10/26/17 5:12:41 PM #19:	PenguinsBabe posted... He keeps telling me to date someone else PenguinsBabe posted... What the hell do I do? PenguinsBabe posted... date someone else --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad (5-2): https://i.imgur.com/ZP6OKPY.png (Updated Weekly) <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:889202928] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>He keeps telling me to date someone else</quote> <cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>What the hell do I do?</quote> <cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>date someone else</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 5:12:55 PM #20:	drunkmuggle posted... you are both bad for each other We arent the best. But we arent as bad as he likes to make it seem. Poor communication was at fault here <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889202944] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote>you are both bad for each other</quote> We arent the best. But we arent as bad as he likes to make it seem. Poor communication was at fault here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 5:14:16 PM #21:	Muffinz0rz posted... PenguinsBabe posted... He keeps telling me to date someone else PenguinsBabe posted... What the hell do I do? PenguinsBabe posted... date someone else Easier said than done when youve been in love with someone for almost 4 years.. Since weve broken up I have been focusing on bettering myself. I have a new job that I actually LOVE and Im good at it. And Ive lost 10lbs. I dont need him, but I want him. And Im not interested in anyone else <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889203041] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>He keeps telling me to date someone else</quote> <cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>What the hell do I do?</quote> <cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote>date someone else</quote></quote> Easier said than done when youve been in love with someone for almost 4 years.. Since weve broken up I have been focusing on bettering myself. I have a new job that I actually LOVE and Im good at it. And Ive lost 10lbs. I dont need him, but I want him. And Im not interested in anyone else</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 10/26/17 5:14:21 PM #22:	drunkmuggle posted... ArtVandelay posted... drunkmuggle posted... this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ? Serious Oh --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:889203046] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ArtVandelay posted...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote> this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other</quote> lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ?</quote> Serious</quote> Oh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 5:24:24 PM #23:	pinky0926 posted... drunkmuggle posted... ArtVandelay posted... drunkmuggle posted... this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ? Serious Oh Look this is about more than losing a relationship. I feel like I lost the love of my life. I lost my best fking friend. For no reason. And Im completely lost. <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889203703] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ArtVandelay posted...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote> this is vermander's ex-gf and they are both just bad for each other</quote> lmao are you joking or serious @drunkmuggle ?</quote> Serious</quote> Oh</quote> Look this is about more than losing a relationship. I feel like I lost the love of my life. I lost my best fking friend. For no reason. And Im completely lost.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 10/26/17 5:29:56 PM #24:	Nothing good will come from hooking back up unless you are a masochist. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:889204042] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>Nothing good will come from hooking back up unless you are a masochist.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArtVandelay 10/26/17 5:30:28 PM #25:	Asherlee10 posted... ArtVandelay posted... oh wow. that's hilarious Are you in importing and exporting? see sig :) --- Vandelay Industries Importing & Exporting <cite>ArtVandelay posted [p:889204076] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ArtVandelay posted...</cite> <quote>oh wow. that's hilarious</quote> Are you in importing and exporting?</quote> see sig :)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PenguinsBabe 10/26/17 5:30:55 PM #26:	Tmaster148 posted... Nothing good will come from hooking back up unless you are a masochist. I kind of am. Ill admit, the head games are more fun than sitting in silence. But I truly want to fix things with him. Im tired of just hooking up. I guess I really do just have to let it play out... <cite>PenguinsBabe posted [p:889204117] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote>Nothing good will come from hooking back up unless you are a masochist.</quote> I kind of am. Ill admit, the head games are more fun than sitting in silence. But I truly want to fix things with him. Im tired of just hooking up. I guess I really do just have to let it play out...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mophead420 10/26/17 5:51:34 PM #27:	Here's your sign <cite>mophead420 posted [p:889205406] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote>Here's your sign </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 10/26/17 7:20:18 PM #28:	PenguinsBabe posted... drunkmuggle posted... you are both bad for each other We arent the best. But we arent as bad as he likes to make it seem. Poor communication was at fault here You guys physically harmed each other before --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:889210892] in Hooking up... [t:75922970]...</cite> <quote><cite>PenguinsBabe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote> you are both bad for each other</quote> We arent the best. But we arent as bad as he likes to make it seem. Poor communication was at fault here</quote> You guys physically harmed each other before</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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