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FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 12:46:37 PM #1:	You're watching another person get fucked. Why isn't that cheating (i do not believe it's cheating but I can't think of a counterargument to this) <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889623219] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>You're watching another person get fucked. Why isn't that cheating (i do not believe it's cheating but I can't think of a counterargument to this)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TroutPaste 11/02/17 12:47:46 PM #2:	Why isn't it? I don't think it is Can't you explain? --- Cleveland sports fan Games: Xenoblade Chronicles, Ghost Recon Wildlands, Resident Evil 7, Sonic Mania, Mass Effect, Hand of Fate, Persona 3 FES, Pikmin <cite>TroutPaste posted [p:889623289] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Why isn't it? I don't think it is Can't you explain?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thrashmetal14 11/02/17 12:48:44 PM #3:	Watching a video is pretty different than physically doing the act <cite>thrashmetal14 posted [p:889623345] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Watching a video is pretty different than physically doing the act</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KlownArt 11/02/17 12:49:04 PM #4:	Because you aren't interacting with anyone. --- https://www.youtube.com/c/grabshiny Check out my Youtube Channel of the Let's Play variety. <cite>KlownArt posted [p:889623364] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Because you aren't interacting with anyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Just_a_loser 11/02/17 12:49:10 PM #5:	....How would it be cheating? Watching isn't cheating. Touching/contributing is cheating. Flirting also isn't cheating, but it comes closer. --- Your face looks like I need a beer. <cite>Just_a_loser posted [p:889623371] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>....How would it be cheating? Watching isn't cheating. Touching/contributing is cheating. Flirting also isn't cheating, but it comes closer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 11/02/17 12:49:59 PM #6:	My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. For some people that's as little as checking out a hot girl in a bar, and for others that could be as much as not giving the heads up when you're going home with someone else. When you start to pick this stuff apart the actual social rules are fairly arbitrary and only matter to each couple. I think for the most part most people are not concerned about watching porn because it doesn't constitute any betrayal - i.e. it was implicitly understood to be an ok thing in the relationship beforehand. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:889623425] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. For some people that's as little as checking out a hot girl in a bar, and for others that could be as much as not giving the heads up when you're going home with someone else. When you start to pick this stuff apart the actual social rules are fairly arbitrary and only matter to each couple. I think for the most part most people are not concerned about watching porn because it doesn't constitute any betrayal - i.e. it was implicitly understood to be an ok thing in the relationship beforehand.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hollow_shrine 11/02/17 12:50:49 PM #7:	For some people, it is. Shit's complicated, personal, and differs from relationship to relationship. The jury is still out on this one. --- Geraldo Riviera's facial hair is a hate crme 15 Transwomen of color have been murdered since 1/1/2017 <cite>hollow_shrine posted [p:889623483] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>For some people, it is. Shit's complicated, personal, and differs from relationship to relationship. The jury is still out on this one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution998 11/02/17 12:51:21 PM #8:	is Cybering cheating? --- The word 'politics' is derived from the word 'poli' meaning many, and the word 'ticks' meaning blood sucking parasites. <cite>Caution998 posted [p:889623522] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>is Cybering cheating?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 11/02/17 12:52:40 PM #9:	pinky0926 posted... My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. I think that's a bit too broad for my tastes. --- He would make his mark, if not on this tree, then on that wall; if not with teeth and claws, then with penknife and razor. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:889623604] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. </quote> I think that's a bit too broad for my tastes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gafemaqs 11/02/17 12:52:41 PM #10:	Just_a_loser posted... Watching That sounds dangerously like cucking --- Sonic 06 is better than you've been told. #LeaveTheFurriesAlone <cite>gafemaqs posted [p:889623606] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Just_a_loser posted...</cite> <quote>Watching</quote> That sounds dangerously like cucking</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 11/02/17 12:53:55 PM #11:	Balrog0 posted... pinky0926 posted... My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. I think that's a bit too broad for my tastes. It's pretty straight forward, though. You set the rules that matter to you and your S.O, that's all there is to it. And it's good to figure that out because you might think flirting with some girl in a bar and getting her number is just playful banter, but she might feel that's definitely not cool. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:889623690] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Balrog0 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>My take on this is that the only definition of cheating that matters is doing anything in a sexual/romantic way that you feel the need to hide from your partner because they would disapprove and/or feel hurt and betrayed. </quote> I think that's a bit too broad for my tastes.</quote> It's pretty straight forward, though. You set the rules that matter to you and your S.O, that's all there is to it. And it's good to figure that out because you might think flirting with some girl in a bar and getting her number is just playful banter, but she might feel that's definitely not cool.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DamageDealerz 11/02/17 12:54:03 PM #12:	Caution998 posted... is Cybering cheating? No <cite>DamageDealerz posted [p:889623695] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution998 posted...</cite> <quote>is Cybering cheating?</quote> No</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
L0Z 11/02/17 12:56:05 PM #13:	It'd be different if you actually knew the pornstar in real life and watched her video. If you don't know the girl in real life it's not likely you'll ever bang her <cite>L0Z posted [p:889623816] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>It'd be different if you actually knew the pornstar in real life and watched her video. If you don't know the girl in real life it's not likely you'll ever bang her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pseudo_Legacy 11/02/17 12:56:31 PM #14:	Really depends on the person I've read seen some people be okay is professionally shot porn but are against amateur stuff like gw/snap/cams because of the level of interaction in those --- i have terrible taste tbh --- <cite>Pseudo_Legacy posted [p:889623837] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Really depends on the person I've read seen some people be okay is professionally shot porn but are against amateur stuff like gw/snap/cams because of the level of interaction in those</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 11/02/17 12:58:02 PM #15:	What makes you say it isn't cheating ? Of course it is. Jesus, the decadent perversity nowadays... :( --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire, mais l'effet reste le meme. http://i.imgur.com/z1pkX.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:889623933] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>What makes you say it isn't cheating ? Of course it is. Jesus, the decadent perversity nowadays... :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 1:11:34 PM #16:	bump <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889624723] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 11/02/17 1:12:08 PM #17:	Because. --- The poster formerly known as Kakarot181: July 2, 2002 - March 14, 2012. Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:889624763] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Because.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xelltrix 11/02/17 1:16:50 PM #18:	In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way. --- Reading this post may induce one or more of the following: Nausea / Butt-Hurt / Lulz / UM? Syndrome / Angst / Diarrhea <cite>Xelltrix posted [p:889625046] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 1:18:46 PM #19:	Xelltrix posted... In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way. but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff? <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889625156] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Xelltrix posted...</cite> <quote>In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way.</quote> but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 11/02/17 1:21:20 PM #20:	FrenchCrunch posted... Xelltrix posted... In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way. but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff? Exactly ! Heavens, the depths of depravity :( --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire, mais l'effet reste le meme. http://i.imgur.com/z1pkX.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:889625324] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Xelltrix posted...</cite> <quote>In what manner is it cheating? lmao You're not interacting with them physically or emotionally in any way.</quote> but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff?</quote> Exactly ! Heavens, the depths of depravity :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xelltrix 11/02/17 1:34:01 PM #21:	FrenchCrunch posted... but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff? Being in person is the key difference; it still wouldn't be cheating but it would certainly be cause for concern. --- Reading this post may induce one or more of the following: Nausea / Butt-Hurt / Lulz / UM? Syndrome / Angst / Diarrhea <cite>Xelltrix posted [p:889626158] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote> but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff?</quote> Being in person is the key difference; it still wouldn't be cheating but it would certainly be cause for concern.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 1:35:57 PM #22:	Xelltrix posted... FrenchCrunch posted... but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff? Being in person is the key difference; it still wouldn't be cheating but it would certainly be cause for concern. why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating" <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889626285] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Xelltrix posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote> but youre watching people fuck. if you were in the room and getting off to two people fucking, how's it any diff?</quote> Being in person is the key difference; it still wouldn't be cheating but it would certainly be cause for concern.</quote> why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 11/02/17 1:38:02 PM #23:	Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:889626418] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5 11/02/17 1:40:38 PM #24:	No, it's not because you are not interacting with another. Howeever, interacting with a camgirl would be cheating. --- https://supermariomakerbookmark.nintendo.net/profile/bigllama?type=posted <cite>krazychao5 posted [p:889626587] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>No, it's not because you are not interacting with another. Howeever, interacting with a camgirl would be cheating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 11/02/17 1:41:01 PM #25:	You're not going to catch a STD from porn, unless you're really trying. ...or still renting sticky videotapes. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:889626607] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>You're not going to catch a STD from porn, unless you're really trying. ...or still renting sticky videotapes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 1:56:17 PM #26:	bump <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889627533] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xelltrix 11/02/17 1:59:32 PM #27:	FrenchCrunch posted... why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating" Already explained how it isn't. You're not explaining how it is... --- Reading this post may induce one or more of the following: Nausea / Butt-Hurt / Lulz / UM? Syndrome / Angst / Diarrhea <cite>Xelltrix posted [p:889627701] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote> why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating"</quote> Already explained how it isn't. You're not explaining how it is...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 11/02/17 2:16:36 PM #28:	3khc posted... Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:889628657] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 2:23:11 PM #29:	Xelltrix posted... FrenchCrunch posted... why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating" Already explained how it isn't. You're not explaining how it is... Well, you only said that it wasnt. you didnt explain how <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889629063] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Xelltrix posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote> why wouldnt it be cheating? im looking for detailed answers. i dont think porn is cheating, but i cant come up with an answer to "how is watching someone else fuck not cheating"</quote> Already explained how it isn't. You're not explaining how it is...</quote> Well, you only said that it wasnt. you didnt explain how</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lonestar2000 11/02/17 2:24:53 PM #30:	@3khc posted... 3khc posted... Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae. Shut the fuck up you insecure dweeb. --- Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335 #ImpeachTrump <cite>Lonestar2000 posted [p:889629156] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>@3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae.</quote></quote> Shut the fuck up you insecure dweeb.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 11/02/17 2:25:38 PM #31:	What a trainwreck of a topic. <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:889629193] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>What a trainwreck of a topic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VideoboysaysCube 11/02/17 2:26:43 PM #32:	It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you. --- This sentence has five words. This sentence has eight words. Only one sentence in this signature is true. <cite>VideoboysaysCube posted [p:889629253] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 11/02/17 2:27:54 PM #33:	VideoboysaysCube posted... It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you. lolwat I mean, yeah if you're watching porn while your wife is trying to get you in bed with her then that's one thing, but in general just watching adult videos doesn't equate to your partner not being adequate. <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:889629317] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>VideoboysaysCube posted...</cite> <quote>It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you.</quote> lolwat I mean, yeah if you're watching porn while your wife is trying to get you in bed with her then that's one thing, but in general just watching adult videos doesn't equate to your partner not being adequate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 11/02/17 2:29:58 PM #34:	Lonestar2000 posted... @3khc posted... 3khc posted... Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae. Shut the fuck up you insecure dweeb. smh why can't you hold a civil conversation lonestar. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:889629447] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lonestar2000 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>@3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Porn is cheating. It's like if someone sent you nudes. Or if you cybersex with someone who isn't bae.</quote></quote> Shut the fuck up you insecure dweeb.</quote> smh why can't you hold a civil conversation lonestar.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 11/02/17 2:31:04 PM #35:	VideoboysaysCube posted... It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you. i disagree. i dont think im saying a single thing about my partner if im watching porn. im just getting off real quick <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:889629523] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote><cite>VideoboysaysCube posted...</cite> <quote>It may not be "cheating" per se. But it can have a negative emotional impact on your partner, because you're essentially saying, they're not good enough for you.</quote> i disagree. i dont think im saying a single thing about my partner if im watching porn. im just getting off real quick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 11/02/17 2:36:09 PM #36:	Actually watching physical sex happen in front of you is kinda fucked up but that's not cheating either...just odd if you really aren't gonna participate in a situation like that. I think if a woman doesn't like her guy watching porn it's because she equates "guy masturbating to some chick in a porno" to disrespect to her, since why is he jacking off to a porno instead of creaming his girl? Does her guy get more turned on by some random skank in a porno? I think it's a legitimate train of thought honestly, but no, it's not cheating. --- I'm like a microphone in that I'm a microprocessor, within a cranium. You must, um, yeah. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:889629840] in So why isn... [t:75946964]...</cite> <quote>Actually watching physical sex happen in front of you is kinda fucked up but that's not cheating either...just odd if you really aren't gonna participate in a situation like that. I think if a woman doesn't like her guy watching porn it's because she equates "guy masturbating to some chick in a porno" to disrespect to her, since why is he jacking off to a porno instead of creaming his girl? Does her guy get more turned on by some random skank in a porno? I think it's a legitimate train of thought honestly, but no, it's not cheating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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