Current Events > I had a dream I was making out with my male coworker.

(+) Yeah! (+)

And I really don't know how to feel. I mean yah I'm bi, but this is the first time I've actually liked a guy and fantasized about it.

In the dream we were in a car talking about something, I can't remember. I don't know how it happened but I ended up kissing him. Then it progressed to full on make out, with him sitting on my lap and us grinding.

He's maybe 5'7 and under 150 pounds. A bit feminine I guess.

I don't know how to feel or what to think right now.
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go sex him up, you know assuming he is gay.
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Dustin1280 posted...

go sex him up, you know assuming he is gay.

IDK. Pretty sure he's got an SO already. And he's kinda young. (right around 18/19).
Doesn't help that I'm his manager and that's not cool.

Fuck.
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If you're bi, it happens. Doesn't mean anything except you thought about it subconsciously. But it doesn't mean you should pursue it exactly. Just means that you'd be open to it.

Being a grown man does change things btw. You might change your feelings/opinions on this kind of stuff progressing from a young guy to an actual mature man. If you're into twinks, there are plenty of options.
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masticatingman posted...

If you're bi, it happens. Doesn't mean anything except you thought about it subconsciously. But it doesn't mean you should pursue it exactly. Just means that you'd be open to it.

I haven't had this before though. Like I've been attracted to guys, but I've never fantasized. It's weirding me out a little.
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Do. Him.
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meestermj posted...

masticatingman posted...

If you're bi, it happens. Doesn't mean anything except you thought about it subconsciously. But it doesn't mean you should pursue it exactly. Just means that you'd be open to it.

I haven't had this before though. Like I've been attracted to guys, but I've never fantasized. It's weirding me out a little.

It shouldn't, it's pretty harmless tbh. Just wear condoms. You should give it a shot if you're into it. It won't change who you are as a person. You sound like you have your life together and you already admitted you're bi. If this guy works for you, I would suggest finding somebody else who is like him.
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