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How do I build confidence? How do I trust in people? Those are pretty hard things to do when every girl you date betrays you...

Good, you deserve it
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Stop dating for a while.
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REMercsChamp posted...

Good, you deserve it

Thanks

Most girls cheat tbh. Especially if you count it early in the relationship.

Ive seen so many guys be naive about their girls, thinking they just hang out with their girlfriends, etc. Girls expect the guy to cheat and watch for signs - guys dont, usually.
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Dispite what they try to claim women cheat more than men.

try dating men?
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weekoldhotdog posted...

try dating men?

I wish I was gay. Seems better tbh. Unfortunately I cant get away from my natural disgust of dicks.

thrashmetal14 posted...

How do I trust in people?

It sounds like you were right not to trust people up to this point.
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Stop caring and bang their mom.

thrashmetal14 posted...

weekoldhotdog posted...

try dating men?

I wish I was gay. Seems better tbh. Unfortunately I cant get away from my natural disgust of dicks.

with so many men and women prefering dick these days, it's really hard for someone to justify staying on the side of the fence with the dying popularity.
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quit giving out hand jobs, that should solve your problem.
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masticatingman posted...

Most girls cheat tbh. Especially if you count it early in the relationship.

Ive seen so many guys be naive about their girls, thinking they just hang out with their girlfriends, etc. Girls expect the guy to cheat and watch for signs - guys dont, usually.

yeah this is bullshit
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weekoldhotdog posted...

thrashmetal14 posted...

weekoldhotdog posted...

try dating men?

I wish I was gay. Seems better tbh. Unfortunately I cant get away from my natural disgust of dicks.

with so many men and women prefering dick these days, it's really hard for someone to justify staying on the side of the fence with the dying popularity.

Something like 1 in 5 or more of millennial or younger women at least try a lesbian experience I think around college. But oddly a lot go back to the d or just straddle both sides. Ive seen it a lot where middle aged women go back and forth
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JRaasin posted...

masticatingman posted...

Most girls cheat tbh. Especially if you count it early in the relationship.

Ive seen so many guys be naive about their girls, thinking they just hang out with their girlfriends, etc. Girls expect the guy to cheat and watch for signs - guys dont, usually.

yeah this is bullshit

Explain
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JRaasin posted...

masticatingman posted...

Most girls cheat tbh. Especially if you count it early in the relationship.

Ive seen so many guys be naive about their girls, thinking they just hang out with their girlfriends, etc. Girls expect the guy to cheat and watch for signs - guys dont, usually.

yeah this is bullshit

It's not bs at all. I'm in the same boat as TC, as are plenty of guys I have known. You can say "git gud" all you want, but women pretty much have limitless options these days. No matter how plain or uninteresting they are. Even the good ones will slip up from time to time.

I'm pretty whatever about dating now. I've basically accepted that cheating is inevitable and will end every relationship I enter into. I know it keeps me from ever "doubling down" or getting real serious and that's a shame. I just try to have fun with them for the time we are together and we give each other space.
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Anteaterking posted...

thrashmetal14 posted...

How do I trust in people?

It sounds like you were right not to trust people up to this point.

Are there any decent people left?

Quit 'dating' exclusively and just hang with girls you like and are fun, bang them, and then do the same with other girls. Life is too short to be worrying about what someone else is doing all the time
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Ultima Dragon posted...

It's not bs at all. I'm in the same boat as TC, as are plenty of guys I have known. You can say "git gud" all you want, but women pretty much have limitless options these days. No matter how plain or uninteresting they are. Even the good ones will slip up from time to time.

I'm pretty whatever about dating now. I've basically accepted that cheating is inevitable and will end every relationship I enter into. I know it keeps me from ever "doubling down" or getting real serious and that's a shame. I just try to have fun with them for the time we are together and we give each other space.

What a sweeping, misogynist generalization. Do girls have an advantage in the dating scene today? Maybe, you could certainly argue that. But to imply that most girls are going to cheat and "even the good ones will slip up" is one of the most sexist things I've ever heard.
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JRaasin posted...

masticatingman posted...

Most girls cheat tbh. Especially if you count it early in the relationship.

Ive seen so many guys be naive about their girls, thinking they just hang out with their girlfriends, etc. Girls expect the guy to cheat and watch for signs - guys dont, usually.

yeah this is bullshit

A full 10% of women have someone else's kid and then lie about it. It's not really bullshit.

As families gather this festive season, here is a spicy fact that mothers might be loath to dish out at the holiday table: It's now widely accepted among those who work in genetics that roughly 10 per cent of us are not fathered by the man we believe to be dad.

https://canadiancrc.com/Newspaper_Articles/Globe_and_Mail_Moms_Little_secret_14DEC02.aspx
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And this is why I don't waste my time dating women. I'm sitting here eating a giant thing of tacos and nachos with the cheese and playing video games on a Friday night - try doing that if you're bogged down with the girlfriend bullshit
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thats why you have to start getting with nice women.
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Awesome posted...

thats why you have to start getting with nice women.

How can I tell when a woman seems nice for 2 years then cheats?

thrashmetal14 posted...

Awesome posted...

thats why you have to start getting with nice women.

How can I tell when a woman seems nice for 2 years then cheats?

she was never nice, one thing ive learned is that people are capable of being better than hollywood actors pretty easily.
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don't date sexually repressed women with low options. if she's got plenty choices but still chooses you, she's likely the loyal type.

if you have to build her self esteem up to get her, other thirsty dudes can make her feel special like that, too. quiet and shy doesn't always mean "nice." women learned that about men a looong time ago.
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