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Funbazooka 11/19/17 1:09:03 AM #152: |
Sayoria posted...
Y2J0sHBK_GB posted...This topic is no different than making a topic asking why don't gay dudes get together with girls Sexual orientation isn't arrogance. It's just a fact of life. --- I'll defend any man's Funbazooka! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funbazooka 11/19/17 1:10:29 AM #153: |
I mean, is it time to go over the birds and the bees again?
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Deadpool_18 11/19/17 1:10:56 AM #154: |
Sayoria posted...
I mean think about it. Thats the thing. I dont have to. Post this in one of those circle jerk support forums. There are too many sexless neckbeards here to give you an accurate reading. --- We're whalers on the moon, we carry a harpoon, but there ain't no whales, so we tell tall tales, and sing our whaling tune. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eevee-Trainer 11/19/17 1:23:39 AM #155: |
Y2J0sHBK_GB posted...
My point is this, though I get what you are saying: the topic totally dismisses the human psyche. You like what you like, despite the countless discussions on this board, for instance, if you aren't into black people then that's your preference. If you aren't into fat people, that's your preference. Why should trans be any different? Preferences exist and we all have them. Why run from that? There are well over six billion people in the world which means somebody for everybody. Why shouldn't we aim for what we are into. I'm not at all into the idea of fucking a mtf no matter how good they transition... I'm not a bigot, I'm just not into it. We all act that way and we should. This much I can understand and respect. Not to say I like it or agree, but I can at least understand it. --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SeanRexBach 11/19/17 1:25:14 AM #156: |
pretty rad you can have dick sword fights stab her in the fucking eye bitch
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KILBOTz 11/19/17 1:26:35 AM #157: |
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Y2J0sHBK_GB 11/19/17 1:33:46 AM #158: |
Eevee-Trainer posted...
Y2J0sHBK_GB posted...My point is this, though I get what you are saying: the topic totally dismisses the human psyche. You like what you like, despite the countless discussions on this board, for instance, if you aren't into black people then that's your preference. If you aren't into fat people, that's your preference. Why should trans be any different? Preferences exist and we all have them. Why run from that? There are well over six billion people in the world which means somebody for everybody. Why shouldn't we aim for what we are into. I'm not at all into the idea of fucking a mtf no matter how good they transition... I'm not a bigot, I'm just not into it. We all act that way and we should. Thank you. It's certainly nice to see civility on the internet --- Go Pack Go! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tmk 11/19/17 1:42:38 AM #159: |
Funbazooka posted...
I mean, is it time to go over the birds and the bees again? "Now you see son, women are considerably larger than you and a different species, and if you put your stinger in anything, you'll die on the spot. Goodnight champ!" --- I am snazzier, hot, hot rant. Warily slight as. Croak rush, OK? Weirder, almighty make out. ::) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Itennu 11/19/17 6:46:49 AM #160: |
Tmk posted...
Funbazooka posted...I mean, is it time to go over the birds and the bees again? >assuming the bees are the males did you just assume bird and bee gender? --- ~ i t e n n u ~ ~ don't ask, just touch me ~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Omnislasher 11/19/17 7:12:50 AM #161: |
We know what pleases a man and all the places to focus on.
yes. so does a good woman, and they are many. We can't get pregnant, and that seems to be something many are trying to avoid these days. yes, but it's also quite easily avoided with women with the most minimal effort and knowledge. More likely to be loyal I'd think, given how many of us feel desperate at times and too many resort to "take what I can get." this is just a sad and terrible thing on so many levels i won't address it now. damn. No tampons or feminine hygiene products in the house or expected you to buy for us while you are at the store. yeah sure but this isn't actually a problem unless you're a real troglodyte. if i pick up her tampons it's no more an inconvenience than picking up a frozen pizza or some cored pineapple..who fucking cares look, i'm an ally and not trying to put down your argument. only read the OP. but you should expect to find someone who is interested in you for exactly who you are and not because of how you stack up to some perceived notion of born females you're great and you deserve something great by virtue simply of being you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 11/19/17 7:23:03 AM #162: |
I would think the main challenges with dating a trans person would be the social stigma and the very high likelihood of mental health issues.
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Sayoria 11/19/17 8:30:53 AM #163: |
Omnislasher posted...
We know what pleases a man and all the places to focus on. Oh, I know. My thing is, there's the benefits. So many guys slam the idea, but we can get so close. My thing is, we aren't bad. --- Japanese Crack: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x5pzggr ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thanosibe 11/19/17 12:12:21 PM #164: |
s0nicfan posted...
thanosibe posted...I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 12:15:20 PM #165: |
thanosibe posted...
s0nicfan posted...thanosibe posted...I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? I mean, it's moreover about actually being accepted as your identity. If you sit down and probe people who refuse to consider ever dating a transwoman, you end up finding that the vast majority of them just don't consider transwomen women. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zodd3224 11/19/17 12:16:25 PM #166: |
thanosibe posted...
s0nicfan posted...thanosibe posted...I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? There is no stigma against being heterosexual... There is however a stigma against dating trans people. This thread is further proof. TC is trying to make people think about why exactly they would be against a trans partner. It effects her life, so obviously she cares. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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s0nicfan 11/19/17 12:18:02 PM #168: |
Zodd3224 posted...
TC is trying to make people think about why exactly they would be against a trans partner. While also themselves being against a trans partner. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Grindcorp9000 11/19/17 12:20:48 PM #171: |
I don't want to get HIV.
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thanosibe 11/19/17 12:27:52 PM #172: |
COVxy posted...
thanosibe posted...Dating or not dating a transgendered person has zero to do with accepting them as people. I don't have to date a guy first to be sure I'm accepting of him. Treating any person with respect and dignity is more telling of being accepting than what gender a person dates. I have nothing against transgendered people, even though I've only known two. And one in hindsight when I realized when I was older, at a younger age I knew nothing about them.s0nicfan posted...thanosibe posted...I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? There's not some social checklist of demographic of people a person needs to got through to weed out the unlikely dating canidates. Just go for what you like and know that everyone else does to. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tmk 11/19/17 12:33:32 PM #173: |
Itennu posted...
>assuming the bees are the males Did you just assume my assumption? Literally did. --- I am snazzier, hot, hot rant. Warily slight as. Croak rush, OK? Weirder, almighty make out. ::) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 12:33:45 PM #174: |
thanosibe posted...
Dating or not dating a transgendered person has zero to do with accepting them as people. I don't have to date a guy first to be sure I'm accepting of him. Treating any person with respect and dignity is more telling of being accepting than what gender a person dates. I have nothing against transgendered people, even though I've only known two. And one in hindsight when I realized when I was older, at a younger age I knew nothing about them. It's not about dating or not dating, it's about considering it a possibility. If you are a heterosexual male and you accept transwomen as women, then the possibility of dating a transwoman is open. Most simply still consider them men or some 3rd category, labeling their nonacceptance as 'preference'. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zodd3224 11/19/17 12:40:24 PM #175: |
s0nicfan posted...
Zodd3224 posted...TC is trying to make people think about why exactly they would be against a trans partner. She's making a case as to why dating a trans woman may be appealing to people who may not have considered it. That doesnt mean she also has to be attracted to trans men. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thelovefist 11/19/17 12:42:13 PM #176: |
JustMyOpinion posted...
This topic is one step away from "if you wouldn't date a trans person you're a bigot". Crap topic. Many people ITT believe this horseshit --- N/A ... Copied to Clipboard!
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s0nicfan 11/19/17 12:44:27 PM #177: |
Zodd3224 posted...
s0nicfan posted...Zodd3224 posted...TC is trying to make people think about why exactly they would be against a trans partner. That's fine, as long as the implication isn't that "not interested" is a bad option. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zodd3224 11/19/17 12:46:19 PM #178: |
thelovefist posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...This topic is one step away from "if you wouldn't date a trans person you're a bigot". Crap topic. I dont. You dont pick and choose who you are and arent attracted to. You cant force yourself to be attracted to trans people if you arent. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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YourDrunkFather 11/19/17 12:48:06 PM #179: |
Because many people (myself included) cannot look past the fact that you are still, biologically a man. Its a massive turn off.
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ZMythos 11/19/17 1:30:40 PM #180: |
YourDrunkFather posted...
Because many people (myself included) cannot look past the fact that you are still, biologically a man. Its a massive turn off. Fragmented grammar aside, this seems to be the most used reason in this topic and any related topic. Trans people go through a lot to make their physical appearance match their internal identity. For you to say they're still not "biologically women" is extremely degrading. --- Rainbow Dashing: "it's just star wars" AutumnEspirit: *kissu* ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bryon25 11/19/17 1:35:17 PM #181: |
I would date you sayoria
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YourDrunkFather 11/19/17 1:49:23 PM #183: |
ZMythos posted...
YourDrunkFather posted...Because many people (myself included) cannot look past the fact that you are still, biologically a man. Its a massive turn off. Its also the truth. I don't know what you want from people when from people when it's just how they feel. --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JosefuJustice11 11/19/17 2:03:00 PM #184: |
Zodd3224 posted...
thanosibe posted...s0nicfan posted...thanosibe posted...I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? I know right? It really comes down to people being arrogant about not wanting to date a transwoman, so some take it as far as trying to instill that thought process in others, when all she's wanting is to be accepted without being attacked constantly. --- I felt like I was watching a dream I'd never wake up from...hmp. Before I knew it, the dream was all over. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mr_Hakubi 11/19/17 2:07:08 PM #185: |
Just social stigma. Most trannies still look like men.
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s0nicfan 11/19/17 3:17:27 PM #186: |
JosefuJustice11 posted...
I know right? It really comes down to people being arrogant about not wanting to date a transwoman, so some take it as far as trying to instill that thought process in others, when all she's wanting is to be accepted without being attacked constantly. Having personal preferences about what you do and do not find attractive is now "Arrogance" --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReD_ToMaTo 11/19/17 3:23:46 PM #187: |
Nothing's wrong with it, but personally, I'm not into dudes.
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COVxy 11/19/17 3:25:50 PM #188: |
s0nicfan posted...
Having personal preferences about what you do and do not find attractive is now "Arrogance" Refusing to date black people because their kind are thugs is different than not typically finding black people attractive but would date one if it worked. In the same way not dating transwomen because they are really men is different than not dating transwomen because you typically don't find them attractive but would date one if it worked. One stance comes from nonacceptance, or bigotry (though you hate this word), and the other actually seems like a legitimate preference. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 11/19/17 3:54:31 PM #189: |
COVxy posted...
s0nicfan posted...Having personal preferences about what you do and do not find attractive is now "Arrogance" What a terrible comparison --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 4:02:04 PM #190: |
Callixtus posted...
What a terrible comparison No it's not, you are simply refusing to see the analogy. You can call it preference all you like, but if the reasoning for that preference is bigotry then you can and should be called out for it. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sayoria 11/19/17 4:11:45 PM #191: |
Bryon25 posted...
I would date you sayoria <3 .....Whoa. Bryon! It's been a while. How've you been? :) --- Japanese Crack: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x5pzggr ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 11/19/17 4:12:49 PM #192: |
COVxy posted...
Callixtus posted...What a terrible comparison It's not bigotry to see that an analogy between blackness which is just a normal human skin color that readily occurs in nature and has unfairly been singled out in history, and a post-op transwoman, which is a marvel of modern science that defies biological reality is necessarily false. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 4:30:41 PM #193: |
All you're really saying is "I believe one form of bigotry is justified while the other is not."
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thanosibe 11/19/17 4:44:22 PM #194: |
COVxy posted...
thanosibe posted...In considering a life partner; finding someone socially, sexually, emotionally, compatible with you, yes, there are going to be deal breakers and there are somethings that are not going to work for people. In that scenario if a person thinks a trangendered gal isn't "real" does not make that person unaccepting of transgendered people in general.Dating or not dating a transgendered person has zero to do with accepting them as people. I don't have to date a guy first to be sure I'm accepting of him. Treating any person with respect and dignity is more telling of being accepting than what gender a person dates. I have nothing against transgendered people, even though I've only known two. And one in hindsight when I realized when I was older, at a younger age I knew nothing about them. You can't push people into relationships. No one should. Heterosexual, homosexual, transgendered or otherwise. Each person has no social obligation to be in or considered a canadiate they don't feel is compatible with them. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dark_SilverX 11/19/17 4:47:49 PM #195: |
scorpion41 posted...
Romulox28 posted...the man hands All of this --- cuckle doodle dooo!!! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 11/19/17 5:12:52 PM #196: |
COVxy posted...
All you're really saying is "I believe one form of bigotry is justified while the other is not." What is your definition of bigotry? --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 5:21:30 PM #197: |
Callixtus posted...
What is your definition of bigotry? Intolerance/nonacceptance. No, you don't accept someone because you don't actively beat them with a bat, or because you more or less ignore them. People do some pretty impressive acrobatics with their reasoning when it comes to this. "I accept them, they can do whatever they'd like, but I don't consider them a woman." Like, what? That makes no sense. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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s0nicfan 11/19/17 5:22:57 PM #198: |
COVxy posted...
Callixtus posted...What is your definition of bigotry? So hypothetically, if I wear colored contacts and tell everyone my eye color is the contact one and someone says my eye color is my actual one, is that a form of bigotry? --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Offworlder1 11/19/17 5:24:54 PM #199: |
I want a real woman not some dude who changed into a woman, I want the real deal: born a woman and stayed a woman.
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Callixtus 11/19/17 5:47:39 PM #200: |
COVxy posted...
Callixtus posted...What is your definition of bigotry? So it's bigoted to categorically find all women that weigh over 500 lbs sexually unattractive? --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 11/19/17 5:59:26 PM #201: |
Callixtus posted...
So it's bigoted to categorically find all women that weigh over 500 lbs sexually unattractive? Quite the non sequitur. Being unattracted to someone because of their qualities is different, as denoted in my other post. If you were unattracted to transwomen because they resembled men, then that's not at all what I'm referring to. But anyone who's put a lick of thought into it can come to the conclusion that there is a possibility that there would be a transwoman who would have none of those manly qualities, and therefore the possibility of dating a transwoman is open. A universal refusal to consider dating any transwoman is usually driven by nonacceptance of her gender. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 11/19/17 6:04:18 PM #202: |
COVxy posted...
Callixtus posted...So it's bigoted to categorically find all women that weigh over 500 lbs sexually unattractive? The quality that many heterosexuals dislike about transwomen is the fact that they have gone through unnatural surgery, and they would always take a naturally born woman over one claiming to be one who has had to physically alter themselves. Those that haven't gone through the surgery have penises. It has nothing to do with whether they look feminine or not. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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