Current Events > How would I go about finding an old girl friend from high school?

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I put her full name into google and She doesn't have a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram account. It's actually like she's completely disappeared.
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search for other people who were friends with her and ask them
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That must be what my old friends feel if they want to find me. I deactivated all my social media account and everything with my real name on it, except my email.
I also have a,whatssap/ line grouo for my old close friends, thats it.
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I will ask since no one else has yet: why are you trying to find her ?
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She may have gotten married and changed her last name.
Try looking up a few of mutual male friends from your school then see if she is on anyone's friends list.
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SusanGreenEyes posted...

She may have gotten married and changed her last name.

i'm guessing this is what happened
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Offworlder1 posted...

I will ask since no one else has yet: why are you trying to find her ?

Because we were really good friends (almost best friends) and the last time I saw her was when I graduated college the first time in 2012. I miss her.
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@Duncanwii

You never exchanged contact info(cell numbers) or kept in touch ?, seems like an odd friendship, I still have contact info for all my old high school friends I want to keep in touch with.

Seems strange to not have a way to contact a person you were close with.
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Offworlder1 posted...

@Duncanwii

You never exchanged contact info(cell numbers) or kept in touch ?, seems like an odd friendship, I still have contact info for all my old high school friends I want to keep in touch with.

Seems strange to not have a way to contact a person you were close with.

We exchanged numbers on the day of graduation but that phone has since died with no way to recover any numbers I had on it. :(
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Ah now that makes sense, yeah almost had that happen to me, I wrote down all my contacts numbers though before we had computer back ups incase my phone was fucked up.

Hmm seems like facebook might be your best bet.

I personally made sure it was hard to find me via social media, only people I want to chat with can find me. Hope she did not do the same as it could make finding her very difficult.
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SusanGreenEyes posted...

Try looking up a few of mutual male friends from your school then see if she is on anyone's friends list.

also when you do this, she may be using an alias so you have to look at the picture of each friend on their list instead of just searching by her name. it's quite time consuming and may be fruitless but it's worth a shot if you really wanna find her
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Offworlder1 posted...

Ah now that makes sense, yeah almost had that happen to me, I wrote down all my contacts numbers though before we had computer back ups incase my phone was fucked up.

Hmm seems like facebook might be your best bet.

I personally made sure it was hard to find me via social media, only people I want to chat with can find me. Hope she did not do the same as it could make finding her very difficult.

I feel really bad because thinking back she was giving really strong hints she liked me and I friend zoned her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. By college when I realized how much of an idiot I was being she was in a relationship. She was really attractive too.
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@Duncanwii

Be honest, are looking to reconnect because you miss her as a friend or want to bang her/date her ?
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Offworlder1 posted...

@Duncanwii

Be honest, are looking to reconnect because you miss her as a friend or want to bang her/date her ?

I have a fiancee, the hotness of said friend will not shatter the love the two of us share.
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Walk into the highschool, ask the principle for any documents that may have her parent's address or number, and go from there.
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@Duncanwii

Ah so your looking to have a threesome then, now that is a noble goal, and one interesting way to spice up your relationship.
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Offworlder1 posted...

@ Duncanwii

Ah so your looking to have a threesome then, now that is a noble goal, and one interesting way to spice up your relationship.

Don't @ someone in their own topic.
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@DesuDeku

Why so sensitive ?
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Offworlder1 posted...

@DesuDeku

Why so sensitive ?

Fuck, I forgot that was possible!
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DesuDeku posted...

Walk into the highschool, ask the principle for any documents that may have her parent's address or number, and go from there.

lol, he's gonna get arrested.
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Offworlder1 posted...

I will ask since no one else has yet: why are you trying to find her ?

He wants to hit it again obviously.
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Look up her parents or some other relative that you know of. Check that person's friends list. If you're familiar enough with that relative you can ask for her contact info. You can say that you're trying to invite her to your wedding.
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@Scaramanga

Indeed, no man goes through so much trouble to re connect with a woman unless they want sexy time. No shame in it but be honest about it, hell I have one female friend from high school I looked up for some fun.

Ironically she was lame in the sack but it was still worth it in the end as she is still fun to be around, just not adventurous for sex or creative. Kinda funny the wild girls in high school can be really vanilla in bed.
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