Current Events > Why is it so hard to deal with emotions related to liking a girl?!?

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I like this girl, and whenever I'm alone, I can't help but get all emotional. It is a constant mix of sadness, anger, anxiety, hope, and dread.

My stomach is dropping, my chest feels so heavy, and my throat feels like it is closing. No matter what I do, these feelings won't stop nagging me.

While I definitely had strong feelings for past crushes, this is like 100 times more annoying. I am hoping that this is just a final outburst from teenage hormones, and once I turn 20, this will all go away.

Why can't I just be content with spending my next 50-70 years alone?!?
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Is this a girl you had a fling with and broke it off, or have you never been intimate with her?
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it stops when you get older

MrPeppers posted...

Is this a girl you had a fling with and broke it off, or have you never been intimate with her?

Never been intimate. I never have been intimate with a girl. Maybe it is my ever-growing fear of being lonely for the rest of my life that is doing this to me.
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PiOverlord posted...

MrPeppers posted...

Is this a girl you had a fling with and broke it off, or have you never been intimate with her?

Never been intimate. I never have been intimate with a girl. Maybe it is my ever-growing fear of being lonely for the rest of my life that is doing this to me.

Like someone else said, it stops when you get older. I was a complete turbo virgin and then it got better with each passing year starting after sophomore year of college
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MrPeppers posted...

PiOverlord posted...

MrPeppers posted...

Is this a girl you had a fling with and broke it off, or have you never been intimate with her?

Never been intimate. I never have been intimate with a girl. Maybe it is my ever-growing fear of being lonely for the rest of my life that is doing this to me.

Like someone else said, it stops when you get older. I was a complete turbo virgin and then it got better with each passing year starting after sophomore year of college

Well, since I am a sophomore in college, I hope this is the last of these annoyances.

I'll find ways to pass the time alone I guess.
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I know how you feel
I hadn't liked a guy in real life for three years and I ended up liking two in the past few months
It was very painful and sad
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Kanaya413 posted...

I know how you feel
I hadn't liked a guy in real life for three years and I ended up liking two in the past few months
It was very painful and sad

Yeah, before this 5th crush, the last girl I liked was more than 2 years ago, and I don't count her for a few reasons, so the last girl that I truly had feelings for was a little over 3 years ago.

I am such a fool. Before girl #5 took over my mind, I was telling myself that I kind of miss the gooey feelings related to liking a girl.
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