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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 1:36:22 PM
#1:


In your opinion?


Was talking to a friend of mine who is angry at his girlfriend because she got angry at him because he made out with a lesbian couple at a party.

He says it's not cheating because they were lesbians. She says it still is. Do you agree with him or his girlfriend?

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And the inverse, would you feel like your girlfriend was cheating if she made out with a gay couple?

What does CE Think?
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Zombified_Toast
12/19/17 1:38:05 PM
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How is this even a question?
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hollow_shrine
12/19/17 1:38:33 PM
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Of course. And if this is him trying to make excuses, break up with him. Yesterday.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 1:38:38 PM
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Zombified_Toast posted...
How is this even a question?

Because different people have different perspectives
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Evolician
12/19/17 1:39:46 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Zombified_Toast posted...
How is this even a question?

Because different people have different perspectives

Different people are telling you this isn't even a question.
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 1:39:57 PM
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Your friend seems to be a moron.
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Solar_Crimson
12/19/17 1:40:10 PM
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 1:40:55 PM
#8:


Evolician posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Zombified_Toast posted...
How is this even a question?

Because different people have different perspectives

Different people are telling you this isn't even a question.

No they're asking how is it a question
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Deadpool_18
12/19/17 1:40:56 PM
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Fucking duh. These kinds of questions are really telling about the person asking them.
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philsov
12/19/17 1:41:11 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
angry at his girlfriend because she got angry at him


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What ultimately defines cheating comes down to every couple. In this case -- the girl said it's cheating. therefore it's cheating. QED.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 1:42:34 PM
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philsov posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
angry at his girlfriend because she got angry at him


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Hey I think this is pretty common to be honest

You telling me you've never been annoyed or angry at someone because they are mad at you for something you think is trivial?
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hollow_shrine
12/19/17 1:53:45 PM
#12:


UnfairRepresent posted...
You telling me you've never been annoyed or angry at someone because they are mad at you for something you think is trivial?

This is a bit disingenuous
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 1:57:53 PM
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hollow_shrine posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
You telling me you've never been annoyed or angry at someone because they are mad at you for something you think is trivial?

This is a bit disingenuous

How so?
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Balrog0
12/19/17 1:58:26 PM
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why would I assume it wasn't?
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DifferentialEquation
12/19/17 1:59:33 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
because she got angry at him because he made out with a lesbian couple at a party.


If it was just one then it would be cheating. However, since it was a couple it doesn't count as cheating.
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hollow_shrine
12/19/17 2:02:00 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
hollow_shrine posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
You telling me you've never been annoyed or angry at someone because they are mad at you for something you think is trivial?

This is a bit disingenuous

How so?

Because that quote falsely equates being mad at someone for differing sets of priorities to the emotional minefields of betrayal and infidelity in a relationships. Questions of cheating will never be just a difference in priorities.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:03:46 PM
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hollow_shrine posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
hollow_shrine posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
You telling me you've never been annoyed or angry at someone because they are mad at you for something you think is trivial?

This is a bit disingenuous

How so?

Because that quote falsely equates being mad at someone for differing sets of priorities to the emotional minefields of betrayal and infidelity in a relationships. Questions of cheating will never be just a difference in priorities.

So if your girlfriend got angry at you because you ate some toast and she said that was cheating, you would not be angry or annoyed at her because you think it's just trival?

Come on dude, of all stances to have here going "It's silly that he was angry/annoyed that his girl was angry at him!" is the stupidest.
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:05:19 PM
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Unfair in peak contrarian arguing form today.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:06:18 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...
Unfair in peak contrarian arguing form today.

I don't think you know what contrarian means.
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:06:55 PM
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I think you just compared making out with lesbians to eating toast so
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:12:10 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...
I think you just compared making out with lesbians to eating toast so

Which kinda proves my point.

For starters not only did I not do that, but even if you lie and pretend I did, that's not what being contarian means.

Contrarian means going against the majority opinion. For example being an atheist in America is being a contarian. Because most people are believers, namely Christians.

Or being a Trump supporter is a contrarian, because the majority of people do not support him.

Most common examples are things like when people say "97% of scientists say climate change is effected by men."

That 3% saying it is not, are contarians because they are contrary to consensus.

Contrarian isn't an insult. Nor is it someone saying something you think is silly. Nor is it a lazy way to handwave people who are smarter than you whom you can't argue against.

Saying MGS2 is better than MGS3 is a contrarian stance.
Saying Raidan has big sexy ballsacks is not contrarian.

Do you understand?
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masticatingman
12/19/17 2:12:36 PM
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I've danced with a lesbian who was my girlfriend's friend before (my girlfriend was there, by the way). I'd always ever only seen her out as a lesbian but I got a really bi vibe from her in that moment. I think if we had been alone I could've taken it farther.

But yeah, the problem with a person giving the "well, they were gay so it doesn't count" argument is that it acts like bisexual people aren't a thing. Nope. They exist.

What is being described in the OP isn't cheating but it's disrespectful to their partner. It's a break up-worthy offense for sure.
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:13:42 PM
#23:


UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...
I think you just compared making out with lesbians to eating toast so

Which kinda proves my point.

For starters not only did I not do that, but even if you lie and pretend I did, that's not what being contarian means.

Contrarian means going against the majority opinion. For example being an atheist in America is being a contarian. Because most people are believers, namely Christians.

Or being a Trump supporter is a contrarian, because the majority of people do not support him.

Most common examples are things like when people say "97% of scientists say climate change is effected by men."

That 3% saying it is not, are contarians because they are contrary to consensus.

Contrarian isn't an insult. Nor is it someone saying something you think is silly. Nor is it a lazy way to handwave people who are smarter than you whom you can't argue against.

Saying MGS2 is better than MGS3 is a contrarian stance.
Saying Raidan has big sexy ballsacks is not contrarian.

Do you understand?

I understand that you are making up a bunch of bullshit just so you can argue against the majority of people telling you that your topic is fucking stupid because the answer is obviously yes, making you a contrarian.

Edit: though on the other hand I'm well aware that one of your favorite things to argue about is when you are called out on your desire to argue about literally everything so I'm not sure why I'm bothering to engage in giving you what you want.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:21:27 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...

I understand that you are making up a bunch of bullshit

"This is the definition of this word you are using, here is an explanation for what it means."
"YOU@RE MAKIng UP BULLSHIT!"

*sigh*
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Balrog0
12/19/17 2:23:24 PM
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sigh
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Dustin1280
12/19/17 2:23:52 PM
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I would say making out with ANYONE besides your s/o is cheating...

There is a difference between flirting and making out....
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:27:40 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...

I understand that you are making up a bunch of bullshit

"This is the definition of this word you are using, here is an explanation for what it means."
"YOU@RE MAKIng UP BULLSHIT!"

*sigh*

Can you find anyone in this topic that agrees with your "it's just a matter of perspective dood, some people see making out with lesbians as trivially as eating toast!" crap other than maybe the 14% (seems like a minority to me) in the poll?

oh wait.. you're just arguing that so you have something to argue. Vintage Unfair.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:28:42 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...

Can you find anyone in this topic that agrees with your "it's just a matter of perspective dood,

Both this poll and people I know IRL have already done that. by the nature of having different perspectives.
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:29:15 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...

Can you find anyone in this topic that agrees with your "it's just a matter of perspective dood,

Both this poll and people I know IRL have already done that. by the nature of having different perspectives.

Yeah, and it's the minority opinion that you are only fighting for so you can argue.
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UnfairRepresent
12/19/17 2:30:08 PM
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ThePrinceFish posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...

Can you find anyone in this topic that agrees with your "it's just a matter of perspective dood,

Both this poll and people I know IRL have already done that. by the nature of having different perspectives.

Yeah, and it's the minority opinion that you are only fighting for so you can argue.

They are contrarians so therefore they don't exist?

No wonder you don't know what the word means
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ThePrinceFish
12/19/17 2:30:23 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
ThePrinceFish posted...

Can you find anyone in this topic that agrees with your "it's just a matter of perspective dood,

Both this poll and people I know IRL have already done that. by the nature of having different perspectives.

Yeah, and it's the minority opinion that you are only fighting for so you can argue.

They are contrarians so therefore they don't exist?

No wonder you don't know what the word means

Fucking lmao you are still doing it
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