Current Events > Straight guys, would you date a post op transwoman?

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I would, but I'm curious how many people feel the same. This assumes they pass for a woman and you wouldn't know they were trans if they didn't tell you
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I honestly don't think I would.
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Depends how their tits look.
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Date screw marry the works. Assuming I'm attracted to her and we have stuff in common.
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Sure. As long as she doesn't have a penis, I'm fine.

No. I'm only sexually attracted to cisgender women. Respect my orientation if you have a problem with that.
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No. It's bad enough that all a girl needs is a vagina to get my attention. The vagina should at least be authentic.
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I wouldn't want to waste both of our time, since I want kids.
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No, I want kids.
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No, not even if they perfectly passed for a woman. I want kids.
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The ones who said yes are basically saying they ll screw a buff hairy dude as long as he has a vagina between his legs, lmao suspect as hell how desperate can yall be

bobbysjoby posted...

The ones who said yes are basically saying they ll screw a buff hairy dude as long as he has a vagina between his legs, lmao suspect as hell how desperate can yall be

Genocet_10-325 posted...

This assumes they pass for a woman and you wouldn't know they were trans if they didn't tell you

I'd rather date pre-op tbqh.
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That's a fat negative.
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These polls always start with the padded votes but end the same way.
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no
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Of course. Other than pregnancy there isn't much difference.
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They wouldnt be straight if they would.
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No, I want a woman that is and has stayed a woman, I want to have the option of having my children.

The two women I am with now have also shown they want to be mothers so at somepoint I likely will have children with them.

A transexual cant have kids and while adoption is an option having your own children is a big thing for some more then others.
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Not knowingly.
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SpiralDrift posted...

No. It's bad enough that all a girl needs is a vagina to get my attention. The vagina should at least be authentic.

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Nope, still a dude.
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Maybe date, but not long term. I definitely eventually want my own children.
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No, I have plenty of dating options.
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I want my own children someday, so dating only cis-woman has a better than 90% chance of her being fertile vs. a 0% chance with a trans-woman. Adoption would only be an option if I end up with one of the unlucky 10% and we exhausted all fertility treatments.
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

I wouldn't want to waste both of our time, since I want kids.

omega cookie posted...

No, I want kids.

s0nicfan posted...

No, not even if they perfectly passed for a woman. I want kids.

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Over the years, I've learned that personality matters to me more than someone's identity. So yes.

These polls are always so meaningless. While the average guy would say that they would or wouldn't do it, what would actually happen is still largely dependent on the situation. There are always potentialities that can over-ride these knee-jerk reactions.
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Sylph posted...

These polls are always so meaningless. While the average guy would say that they would or wouldn't do it, what would actually happen is still largely dependent on the situation. There are always potentialities that can over-ride these knee-jerk reactions.

No.
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Sylph posted...

These polls are always so meaningless. While the average guy would say that they would or wouldn't do it, what would actually happen is still largely dependent on the situation. There are always potentialities that can over-ride these knee-jerk reactions.

Such as? I'm curious, as an average guy, as to your insights into what would override my personal sexual preferences. Is this like prison gay? Because it sounds a lot like when a straight guy says he can "turn" a lesbian.
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Hell no.
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Of course. Hell, I'd date a pre-op.
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For those who said yes, what is the difference to yall between banging a post op and banging a feminine looking dude up the ass? Honest question

bobbysjoby posted...

The ones who said yes are basically saying they ll screw a buff hairy dude as long as he has a vagina between his legs, lmao suspect as hell how desperate can yall be

That's probably because they're attracted to women. Try as you desperately may, some men will still see transgendered gals as that. And if they're respectful about it, that's fine.

Both sides of this debate have incredible hangups that cloud their ability to be objective.
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bobbysjoby posted...

For those who said yes, what is the difference to yall between banging a post op and banging a feminine looking dude up the ass? Honest question

A postop transgender woman has a vagina. It's not the exact same as a cisgender woman's vagina, but it's close enough.

Also not into anal, so...

thanosibe posted...

Both sides of this debate have incredible hangups that cloud their ability to be objective.

Part of the problem is people keep describing sexual preference as a hang up. It's like if we told a gay person they were really just straight, but had some issues to work through. It's not hang up, because there's nothing wrong with the preference.
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I've hooked up with pre op trans women so this wouldn't be an issue for me

No.
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I have no problem with it, and could be friends, but I dont think Id feel comfortable dating or having a sexual relationship with a trans
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100% no.
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Fuck no

sure
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Hell no

Nope. Doesnt matter how convincing the person is.
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Sylph posted...

These polls are always so meaningless. While the average guy would say that they would or wouldn't do it, what would actually happen is still largely dependent on the situation. There are always potentialities that can over-ride these knee-jerk reactions.

Keep dreaming. Maybe is a gay guy meets a nice woman, his sexual preference will be changed too.
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Never. For multiple reasons.
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Probably
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100% no. to me they are still a man.

thats all fine and good if they think they arent tho. don't expect me to buy into it.