Current Events > Is it lame to write a girl a song?

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I cant sing for shit but I can craft a sweet sounding instrumental and write poetry based around it.

Make fun of me below.

do what feels right

Not if you stand outside her window with a guitar singing the song you wrote.
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it's only lame if you go through with it and it's bad
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It's super cheesy, but it depends on how good you are and if she would appreciate it. Pretty subjective...
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only if it doesn't end with "I wanna be yo man"
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Only wrong if you can't sing, otherwise you're showing of your skills, which is a good thing.

Simply writing a song for someone is not lame, it's the context and lyrics of the song that will make you lame. Think twice (or 3-4 times) before choosing to sing your crush a song.
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It's lame to tell her you wrote the song for her
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sonichu posted...

I cant sing for shit

lame
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Only if you can't sing and play guitar or possibly piano to it.

Just making a song and and telling someone you made it for them is lame.

The lyrics have to not be cringey or horrible. Avoid direct references to people followed my really mushy I love you shit (I.e. no , "oh, dear Samantha but I love you so much. I knew it would be forever from the first time we would touch) shit.

Song must be presented in person with a somewhat valid reason to be playing music. (i.e you're bored together so you get your instrument out, play a couple songs to blow time and end on that one)
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Yeah
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sonichu posted...

I cant sing for shit but I can craft a sweet sounding instrumental and write poetry based around it.

Make fun of me below.

She will probably say youre sweet while trying to hold back the laughter and thinking youre a beta soyboy who must have tofu chunks instead of testicles

Only if you actually know her, and the song says something personal about her, that she will enjoy to hear.
A song should be a statement of how much you love that person, and love isn't something that you just say outright like - I love you and you're amazing and whatnot - You have to show that love through how much you know her on a deeper level, and a song can capture that perfectly. I write poetry for my fiancee, and that poetry touches themes that we know and talk about, and captures the essence of how I feel about her. That's what romantic art should do, and that's the only way that it will be appreciated.
Also, if you're not in a romantic relationship with her already, it could just be really weird.
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I did it when I was like 16 for my gf. I would never do it now since I'm late 20s though.
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