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wwinterj25
12/28/17 8:49:43 PM
#52:


helIy posted...
instead, you decided to be an asshole.


Your point?
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OmegaTomHank
12/28/17 8:50:36 PM
#53:


2 kewl 4 school
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helIy
12/28/17 8:51:44 PM
#54:




my point is that you literally chose to be an asshole for no fucking reason.

get fucked.
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ImmortalityV
12/28/17 8:53:04 PM
#55:


Condolences dude
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RCtheWSBC
12/28/17 8:53:33 PM
#56:


wwinter has always been an unabashed jerk. Incel life explains itself in the end.
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wwinterj25
12/28/17 8:54:29 PM
#57:


helIy posted...


That's hilarious.

helIy posted...
my point is that you literally chose to be an asshole for no fucking reason.


Not a very good point then.

helIy posted...
get fucked.


If only.

RCtheWSBC posted...
wwinter has always been an unabashed jerk. Incel life explains itself in the end.


Exactly.
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OmegaTomHank
12/28/17 8:57:04 PM
#58:


Bro I never get laid either I dont take it out on random people on the internet lmao
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wwinterj25
12/28/17 8:58:27 PM
#59:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Bro I never get laid either I dont take it out on random people on the internet lmao

Can't say I'm surprised.
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OmegaTomHank
12/28/17 9:04:35 PM
#60:


ur the one whining about it in every topic

pipe down
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ClarkDuke
12/28/17 9:06:19 PM
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MannerSaurus
12/28/17 9:07:41 PM
#62:


ImmortalityV posted...
Condolences dude


ClarkDuke posted...
My condolences, ok?


Thanks, guys. As hard as it is to make any kind of sense or connection to this world anymore, your guys' kind words and actions are not lost or wasted.
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SushiSquid
12/28/17 9:15:32 PM
#63:


Jen0125 posted...
Can't get modded for saying shut the fuck up, fuck off etc

Turns out you can! NKL and the note, "I don't believe you need an explanation here."

Worth it. I understand mental health issues, especially those caused or made worse by losing someone you love.
Anyone who comes here to mock is lower than dirt. You don't even need to understand loss to show human empathy.
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MannerSaurus
12/28/17 9:18:11 PM
#64:


SushiSquid posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Can't get modded for saying shut the fuck up, fuck off etc

Turns out you can! NKL and the note, "I don't believe you need an explanation here."


Do you think you could PM me the original post? I'm not all here and I don't entirely remember reading what was there. I'm not sure if that's from the major head injury or the grief.
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RCtheWSBC
12/28/17 9:18:57 PM
#65:


MannerSaurus posted...
Do you think you could PM me the original post?

He admonished the same post you did for belittling your relationship.
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SushiSquid
12/28/17 9:19:52 PM
#66:


Admonished. Yeah, that's a kinder word for it. My post had more fucks in it, though.
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wwinterj25
12/28/17 9:21:33 PM
#67:


OmegaTomHank posted...
ur the one whining about it in every topic

pipe down

Hardly.
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keyblader1985
12/28/17 9:39:33 PM
#68:


What the fuck is wrong with some of you people?
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Kimbos_Egg
12/28/17 10:27:30 PM
#70:


Doctor Foxx posted...
EightySeven posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
You dick.


He could just be ignorant.

Doesn't matter it's fucking insensitive at best and maliciously cruel in other cases. Nothing of value came from that comment.

Sorry buddy please really talk with someone about it


How is this insensitive? I have no fucking idea what half the people here are doing with their lives, why the hell would he think this is a serious topic with that fucking title?
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Kimbos_Egg
12/28/17 10:32:19 PM
#71:


Seriously, i thought this was about a fucking waifu body pillow.
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MannerSaurus
12/28/17 10:37:44 PM
#72:


Kimbos_Egg posted...
Seriously, i thought this was about a fucking waifu body pillow.


This made me laugh so fucking hard.... I don't even know why. Thank you, it's hard for me to laugh these days. I need it.

There is a strange tunnel vision effect in my life, where I'm completely shocked when co-workers or even complete strangers don't know what I'm going through. Logically, I know that people aren't psychic. I know that the world keeps turning with or without me. It's just that mine has stopped... so my subjective viewpoint is warped, and I just keep assuming everybody knows that I'm suffering because this pain is with every breath for the last 3 months since the wreck. Forgive me, I'm not firing on all cylinders up there...
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LinkPizza
12/28/17 10:40:53 PM
#73:


I was wondering what this topic was going to be about when I first saw it, but I think I understand now. I know that I don't really know you, but I am truly sorry for your loss. I don't even think I can begin to understand how you feel. I also want to apologize for some of the people on this board. It's just how the board is...
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GunslingerGunsl
12/28/17 10:41:15 PM
#74:


I gotta agree with Kimbo. I had no idea what this topic was about. Sorry about your loss Mannersaurus. That's a very nice necklace. :)
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SusanGreenEyes
12/28/17 10:48:16 PM
#75:


So sorry for your loss, dude.
Please ignore all of the noise and know that the majority of us are thinking of you, and concerned for you.
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DevilSummoner1
12/28/17 10:54:22 PM
#76:


Sorry for your loss TC

We're pulling for you bud
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Melon_Master
12/28/17 11:03:22 PM
#77:


Sorry for your loss.
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Bomberhead
12/28/17 11:21:55 PM
#78:


You had me worried that you were gone forever, friend.
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cute_fan
12/29/17 5:08:25 AM
#79:


*cries, and offers a hug* ;.;
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KogaSteelfang
12/29/17 6:57:53 AM
#80:


I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can't even imagine. The topics about this are always so heart wrenching. I hope you can find some peace soon and begin to heal.
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Kyuubi4269
12/29/17 8:12:09 AM
#81:


MannerSaurus posted...
Logically, I know that people aren't psychic. I know that the world keeps turning with or without me. It's just that mine has stopped... so my subjective viewpoint is warped

In other worlds, the flow of time is distorted in Lordran.
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Smarkil
12/29/17 12:30:13 PM
#82:


HagenEx posted...
I don't know, I need to see the defunction papers or something. I've been fooled on PotD before, like edededdy claiming he's awesome.


It's legit.

Even if you were sure it was fake, it's probably best to assume these kinds of topics are real and either A. Not post anything or B. Not be a dick.
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HagenEx
12/29/17 12:34:56 PM
#83:


Smarkil posted...
HagenEx posted...
I don't know, I need to see the defunction papers or something. I've been fooled on PotD before, like edededdy claiming he's awesome.


It's legit.

Even if you were sure it was fake, it's probably best to assume these kinds of topics are real and either A. Not post anything or B. Not be a dick.


Now where's the fun in that?

Hue.
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Smarkil
12/29/17 12:36:04 PM
#84:


In any case TC, I don't think there's anyone here that can really understand what you're going through. It's one thing to lose a family member, a parent, grandparent, etc. but it's entirely different to lose the one you chose to spend your life with. It might be worth looking into some group counseling for grieving individuals. I'm not an expert on these kinds of things by any means, but I think maybe working with other people who have had the same experience as you could help. One way or another, you should find a professional who can help.

Keep yourself going man. One of my good friends recently lost his wife and I see him posting about it every day on facebook. You're in a hard place, but don't go anywhere. The world still needs you.
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ZiggiStardust
12/29/17 12:37:24 PM
#85:


hey pal, condolences again, ok?
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Renraku_San
12/29/17 12:38:26 PM
#86:


Get a dog/cat?
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ZiggiStardust
12/29/17 12:40:27 PM
#87:


Nightengale posted...
helIy posted...
kana

for like the 9th time

that's not fucking me

You're also a known, open snake. I trust absolutely nothing you say.

never thought i'd agree with kana, but she's spot on in this case, ok?
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Kyuubi4269
12/29/17 12:53:52 PM
#88:


Renraku_San posted...
Get a dog/cat?

I don't think a pet can replace a woman.
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MannerSaurus
12/29/17 12:55:47 PM
#89:


Smarkil posted...
In any case TC, I don't think there's anyone here that can really understand what you're going through. It's one thing to lose a family member, a parent, grandparent, etc. but it's entirely different to lose the one you chose to spend your life with. It might be worth looking into some group counseling for grieving individuals. I'm not an expert on these kinds of things by any means, but I think maybe working with other people who have had the same experience as you could help. One way or another, you should find a professional who can help.

Keep yourself going man. One of my good friends recently lost his wife and I see him posting about it every day on facebook. You're in a hard place, but don't go anywhere. The world still needs you.


This was a really good post, thank you. I am seeing a councilor for intense grief therapy, but I may consider also doing group therapy like you said... especially if I can find one with people that have been widowed young. I also spend basically 24/7 around friends that I trust with my life, because I don't like to be alone with the incredibly loud silence that her physical absence creates. And I don't like to be alone with my thoughts for very long.

And yeah... are you sure I'm not your friend on Facebook? lol. I literally have written 4 novels since the wreck. Some of my posts are like 19 paragraphs long. When my heart starts typing, I don't stop it or filter it. It writes whatever it wants and I just go along for the ride and hit enter. It's a very surreal feeling, being so disconnected from my body and the world around me. I thought I would feel more connected after the shock wore off, but I don't. I constantly feel like I'm in another dimension about to die of a broken heart, like I'm on my death bed. Like the world around me is fake and only my wife was real. That I had been deceived by this world, and now the eyes of my soul are wide open and I can never go back to who I was.
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wwinterj25
12/29/17 12:56:31 PM
#90:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


It's more about companionship. Nothing will replace a loved one who died.
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MannerSaurus
12/29/17 12:57:23 PM
#91:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Get a dog/cat?

I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


Nothing and no one can ever replace her. But when I'm financially stable I might get the dog me and her always wanted. I think his point is to have some company with another loving creature. They say having a pet can be therapeutic I suppose. I'm not ready for all that responsibility right now, though.

wwinterj25 posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


It's more about companionship. Nothing will replace a loved one who died.


Yeah, that's how I read it.
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Renraku_San
12/30/17 10:44:05 PM
#92:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Get a dog/cat?

I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


Not the point. Dogs are used for therapy.
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MannerSaurus
01/02/18 3:11:50 PM
#93:


I don't think I'm ever going to wear this necklace, for fear of losing it. Outside of the house, anyway. I will be doing a service with my close family and friends this month or next with the ashes. There was a full service for her with her family in Texas, but I could not attend. I don't even remember leaving Texas, to be quite honest. I have to make a slideshow with music, (a few songs that were "our songs", and one song I always promised her would be her funeral song if she went before me), and I know I'm going to be balling the entire time I'm making it.
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Nightwish
01/02/18 3:57:02 PM
#94:


Seriously dude, don't let ANYONE bring you down right now. Unless someone has had a soul mate they cannot relate to how hard it is to lose them. Let the incels hate on their chads and tyrones and just focus on the decent people here giving you support.
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Greenfox111
01/02/18 4:20:02 PM
#95:


I wish I could share that kind of love with someone. I'm so sorry this happened to you TC
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NightShift
01/02/18 4:29:11 PM
#96:


Jen0125 posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
This board, man. So many disassociated people.


Trolls who don't care about when they should stop


they are representative of the population as a whole in this country. i mean i may be wrong. but where i live the "ignorant deplorable" applies to 99% of the people near me. this is your fellow citizen these days.
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Jen0125
01/02/18 4:34:27 PM
#97:


MannerSaurus posted...
I don't think I'm ever going to wear this necklace, for fear of losing it. .


You could buy a model bust display to put the necklace up like an urn or something.

https://www.amazon.com/Jewelry-Display-Stand-Velvet-Necklace/dp/B00PXBP6BY

Something like that.
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Jen0125
01/02/18 4:35:49 PM
#98:


Renraku_San posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Get a dog/cat?

I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


Not the point. Dogs are used for therapy.


Yeah, I got Ernie because he was an emotional support animal and my therapist wrote me a letter so my apartment complex would waive their pet fee for him. He really helps me so I'm not totally alone.
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MannerSaurus
01/02/18 5:47:53 PM
#99:


Jen0125 posted...
MannerSaurus posted...
I don't think I'm ever going to wear this necklace, for fear of losing it. .


You could buy a model bust display to put the necklace up like an urn or something.

https://www.amazon.com/Jewelry-Display-Stand-Velvet-Necklace/dp/B00PXBP6BY

Something like that.


That isn't the worst idea, actually. I'd have to think of something symbolic and meaningful.

Jen0125 posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Renraku_San posted...
Get a dog/cat?

I don't think a pet can replace a woman.


Not the point. Dogs are used for therapy.


Yeah, I got Ernie because he was an emotional support animal and my therapist wrote me a letter so my apartment complex would waive their pet fee for him. He really helps me so I'm not totally alone.


Nice...
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Jen0125
01/04/18 1:01:28 PM
#100:


MannerSaurus posted...
That isn't the worst idea, actually. I'd have to think of something symbolic and meaningful.


you could get a custom jewelry chest made. a small one to hang the necklace in with a windowed door so you can always see it or take it out if you want to hold it.
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