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ChromaticAngel 12/30/17 3:30:42 AM #51:	treewojima posted... It's one thing if we barely know each other, I can take that hint just fine. But we've been on a couple dates that went really well, and were planning to do something after Christmas. now she's just not responding at all or acknowledging me, other than rejecting a call a couple days ago with a "call me later" text message. I obliged a couple hours later in the evening, and it went to voicemail again Since then it's been two days with absolutely no contact on either side, so I'm writing her off. Just fucking say you're really busy or not interested, don't lead me to believe you're actually still interested with a "can't talk right now, but later" move sounds like a case of oneitis. if you were chatting up multiple girls at the same time, you wouldn't be having this issue. being fixated on a single girl subconsciously creates creepy stalkerish behavior over time. Fixate on someone after you're in a relationship with them, not before. --- https://puu.sh/tcLsT/24f4611235.png https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>ChromaticAngel posted [p:893109550] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote>It's one thing if we barely know each other, I can take that hint just fine. But we've been on a couple dates that went really well, and were planning to do something after Christmas. now she's just not responding at all or acknowledging me, other than rejecting a call a couple days ago with a "call me later" text message. I obliged a couple hours later in the evening, and it went to voicemail again Since then it's been two days with absolutely no contact on either side, so I'm writing her off. Just fucking say you're really busy or not interested, don't lead me to believe you're actually still interested with a "can't talk right now, but later" move</quote> sounds like a case of oneitis. if you were chatting up multiple girls at the same time, you wouldn't be having this issue. being fixated on a single girl subconsciously creates creepy stalkerish behavior over time. Fixate on someone after you're in a relationship with them, not before.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 12/30/17 3:49:36 AM #52:	Better yet, never fixate on a woman. Focus on yourself. Don't like girls more than they like you. Duh <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:893110000] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Better yet, never fixate on a woman. Focus on yourself. Don't like girls more than they like you. Duh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/30/17 6:08:06 AM #53:	kislev posted... Twin3Turbo posted... Pepys Monster posted... The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game. This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you. Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot Im not going to say it doesnt bother me at all but I will say that it bothers me a hell of a lot less. --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:893112254] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote>The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game.</quote> This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you.</quote> Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot</quote> Im not going to say it doesnt bother me at all but I will say that it bothers me a hell of a lot less.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiggy101011 12/30/17 6:25:31 AM #54:	pkmnlord posted... Yeah, I really hate this generation's habit of thinking that if you just do nothing and ignore someone, it'll all just work itself out. That's how you breed stalkers. I don't get how it's so difficult to be upfront about not wanting to go out/communicate/etc. when everyone always harps on guys for not being upfront about whether they want a relationship or just sex. This generation? lol ghosting has been a thing since the beginning of time. --- Gamertag: F1RE v2 PSN ID: F1REx Man got me a 9 and she sexy. <cite>Jiggy101011 posted [p:893112569] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>pkmnlord posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I really hate this generation's habit of thinking that if you just do nothing and ignore someone, it'll all just work itself out. That's how you breed stalkers. I don't get how it's so difficult to be upfront about not wanting to go out/communicate/etc. when everyone always harps on guys for not being upfront about whether they want a relationship or just sex.</quote> This generation? lol ghosting has been a thing since the beginning of time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kislev 12/30/17 6:44:48 AM #55:	This is why i love russian women, they are direct If she doesnt like u she tells it straight to ur face and doesnt ignore like a coward --- Trump 2020 We need a new Final Fantasy Tactics <cite>kislev posted [p:893112954] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>This is why i love russian women, they are direct If she doesnt like u she tells it straight to ur face and doesnt ignore like a coward</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 12/30/17 6:47:07 AM #56:	Despite what liberals here tell you, go into every relationship with the mind of a sociopath. --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:893112995] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Despite what liberals here tell you, go into every relationship with the mind of a sociopath.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lincoln002 12/30/17 7:14:00 AM #57:	Stop texting these girls so much guys and you'll keep their attention. Sorry, but Ashley from work doesn't give a shit that you saw a customer eat a booger. Text to get them to come out with you and to make plans, you can sext but it's a waste, it just makes for awkward meet ups. Seriously, Tiffany I don't care that if you were here you'd blow me, I'd rather you be here blowing me. --- https://youtu.be/bz3WpKrDlhs - This is how I have to get by guys. <cite>lincoln002 posted [p:893113531] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Stop texting these girls so much guys and you'll keep their attention. Sorry, but Ashley from work doesn't give a shit that you saw a customer eat a booger. Text to get them to come out with you and to make plans, you can sext but it's a waste, it just makes for awkward meet ups. Seriously, Tiffany I don't care that if you were here you'd blow me, I'd rather you be here blowing me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/30/17 7:25:02 AM #58:	lincoln002 posted... Stop texting these girls so much guys and you'll keep their attention. Sorry, but Ashley from work doesn't give a shit that you saw a customer eat a booger. Text to get them to come out with you and to make plans, you can sext but it's a waste, it just makes for awkward meet ups. Seriously, Tiffany I don't care that if you were here you'd blow me, I'd rather you be here blowing me. Truth. In the beginning phases, the less you text them, the better. I only use texting to set up dates, period. --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:893113753] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>lincoln002 posted...</cite> <quote>Stop texting these girls so much guys and you'll keep their attention. Sorry, but Ashley from work doesn't give a shit that you saw a customer eat a booger. Text to get them to come out with you and to make plans, you can sext but it's a waste, it just makes for awkward meet ups. Seriously, Tiffany I don't care that if you were here you'd blow me, I'd rather you be here blowing me.</quote> Truth. In the beginning phases, the less you text them, the better. I only use texting to set up dates, period.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MoreRpgs 12/30/17 7:27:49 AM #59:	Move on <cite>MoreRpgs posted [p:893113808] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Move on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pastryarchy 12/30/17 7:53:07 AM #60:	Don't forget that women are not the only ones who ghost. Guys can find reasons to do it too. And just like women, guys can have either justfied or superficial reasons to suddenly disappear. -Chick was creepy or dropped the "love" or marriage bomb too soon -Or she's clearly a golddigger who expects the guy to pay for everything and asks him to -Or she's too shy about touching, won't even hold hands in public -Or she's an overbearing drunk/drug addict -Or she's a killjoy/no fun -Or she's obnoxious, embarrassing and rude around the guy's social circle -Or she's a high maintenance princess who doesn't believe in relationship equity -Or she's got <insert infection>. Those are some of the justifiable reasons a guy will ghost on a new woman. However, there's plenty of superficial reasons too, like the woman simply refused to put out on the first date. Ghosting is not a gendered thing. --- Let them eat cake. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/05/3BY9w.gif http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/05/3Bstc.jpg <cite>Pastryarchy posted [p:893114255] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Don't forget that women are not the only ones who ghost. Guys can find reasons to do it too. And just like women, guys can have either justfied or superficial reasons to suddenly disappear. -Chick was creepy or dropped the "love" or marriage bomb too soon -Or she's clearly a golddigger who expects the guy to pay for everything and asks him to -Or she's too shy about touching, won't even hold hands in public -Or she's an overbearing drunk/drug addict -Or she's a killjoy/no fun -Or she's obnoxious, embarrassing and rude around the guy's social circle -Or she's a high maintenance princess who doesn't believe in relationship equity -Or she's got <insert infection>. Those are some of the justifiable reasons a guy will ghost on a new woman. However, there's plenty of superficial reasons too, like the woman simply refused to put out on the first date. Ghosting is not a gendered thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet8 12/30/17 11:08:49 AM #61:	kislev posted... Twin3Turbo posted... Pepys Monster posted... The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game. This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you. Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted. --- If you see this account, my main, Genocet_10-325, is warned or in purgatory. <cite>Genocet8 posted [p:893119608] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote>The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game.</quote> This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you.</quote> Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot</quote> If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/30/17 11:13:49 AM #62:	Genocet8 posted... kislev posted... Twin3Turbo posted... Pepys Monster posted... The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game. This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you. Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted. What? --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:893119783] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>Genocet8 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote>The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game.</quote> This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you.</quote> Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot</quote> If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted.</quote> What?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 12/30/17 3:04:36 PM #63:	i don't think it counts as "oneitis" when you're talking to multiple girls. i just happen to really like this one <cite>treewojima posted [p:893130223] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>i don't think it counts as "oneitis" when you're talking to multiple girls. i just happen to really like this one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet8 12/30/17 10:14:12 PM #64:	Twin3Turbo posted... Genocet8 posted... kislev posted... Twin3Turbo posted... Pepys Monster posted... The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game. This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you. Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted. What? I'm saying if you're dating a bunch of different girls at the same time and one ghosts you you deserve it --- If you see this account, my main, Genocet_10-325, is warned or in purgatory. <cite>Genocet8 posted [p:893150911] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Genocet8 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote>The best thing to do is to not care. It's all a numbers game.</quote> This, at the end of the day. Just as an example I got this girl's number at the grocery store about 2 weeks ago. Had at least what I thought was a funny and interesting conversation and got her number and did what I basically always do (text them it was great to meet them within 1-4 hours or so, then text them the next day, being direct and trying to nail down a time and date to meet up). As soon as I mentioned meeting up, all of a sudden, no answer. Next day text, no answer, wait a week before sending one final hail mary and still no answer. Was really strange to me too because I felt like that was one of the best conversations I'd ever had with a random girl while getting her number. But ultimately I don't even care anymore because in the meantime I've met a couple of other new girls in that time span that I've had a pretty good time with recently and will almost certainly get at least a number or two tonight when I go out tonight because I pretty much always do. I don't even think about that original girl any more lol. Long story short the more you have in the pipeline, the less any one in particular affects you.</quote> Even if u have a ton of girls in rotation, when one does ghost u it still hurts u alot</quote> If you have a ton of girls in rotation you deserve to be ghosted.</quote> What?</quote> I'm saying if you're dating a bunch of different girls at the same time and one ghosts you you deserve it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
avec_fromage 12/30/17 10:20:13 PM #65:	Currently being ghosted. Weird thing is, girl texted me saying, "just so you know, I'm not ghosting you, going through a lot right now." I'm like, okay. Fair. Life gets busy, hard. I get that. So I initiate a few convos since then, she placates me a bit with short replies, convo dies. I just feel like a nuisance. She never reaches out to initiate a convo. So now I'm just confused. I'd be okay if things ended there. I get it. It happens. But I'd soooooooo rather she just be like "Hey, I'm not feeling it anymore." than just leave me wondering if that's the last I'll hear from her. Frustrating as fuck. --- JolosGhost is ugly and nobody likes him. <cite>avec_fromage posted [p:893151201] in I fucking ... [t:76147333]...</cite> <quote>Currently being ghosted. Weird thing is, girl texted me saying, "just so you know, I'm not ghosting you, going through a lot right now." I'm like, okay. Fair. Life gets busy, hard. I get that. So I initiate a few convos since then, she placates me a bit with short replies, convo dies. I just feel like a nuisance. She never reaches out to initiate a convo. So now I'm just confused. I'd be okay if things ended there. I get it. It happens. But I'd soooooooo rather she just be like "Hey, I'm not feeling it anymore." than just leave me wondering if that's the last I'll hear from her. Frustrating as fuck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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