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kislev
12/29/17 11:21:05 PM
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So we had a great date and everything was going well but when it came to sex i finished before we started and had performance anxiety then when i finnaly was ready again i lasted less then a minute
We kissed and parted ways.

And she didnt text me later that night or the next day
Ahe disabled her last seen on whatsapp
And hasnt replied to my texts

I'd rather she just tell me she's not that into me rather than just stop talking out of nowhere. Even a text could do that. It's exactly the same as applying for a job. Getting a call that you didn't get the job is so much better than being unsure for days or weeks on end. Of course, the 1% that freak out (whether it be when not getting a job, or not getting a girl) make it so the 99% suffer.
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HisBoyArugula
12/29/17 11:21:28 PM
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is she breathing?
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REMercsChamp
12/29/17 11:21:36 PM
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Your average CEman, everyone
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YourDrunkFather
12/29/17 11:22:38 PM
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kislev posted...
So we had a great date and everything was going well but when it came to sex i finished before we started and had performance anxiety then when i finnaly was ready again i lasted less then a minute


You literally and figuratively blew it my g
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edededdy
12/29/17 11:22:40 PM
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KILBOTz
12/29/17 11:23:06 PM
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sorry to hear that tc. her ghosting reflects on her as a person, not you.
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kislev
12/29/17 11:23:58 PM
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KILBOTz posted...
sorry to hear that tc. her ghosting reflects on her as a person, not you.


The sad thing was the date was going so well, the sex wasnt great but it shouldnt be a reason to ghost me
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Dark_SilverX
12/29/17 11:24:44 PM
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REMercsChamp posted...
Your average CEman, everyone

He's hurt. Leave him alone.
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YourDrunkFather
12/29/17 11:25:51 PM
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kislev posted...
KILBOTz posted...
sorry to hear that tc. her ghosting reflects on her as a person, not you.


The sad thing was the date was going so well, the sex wasnt great but it shouldnt be a reason to ghost me


It is though. To plenty of girls the sex is the most important thing
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Zikten
12/29/17 11:27:46 PM
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she got the D and now she's moving on. girls only want one thing. I bet she said she loved you too. it's all a lie. girls are after our D's and nothing else
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KILBOTz
12/29/17 11:31:47 PM
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define plenty. by absolute number, sure. just because there are over 3 billion women in the world. by percentage it seems like a pretty small number. first time sex being bad is far from uncommon. if the sex in a relationship straight up sucks i can see them ending it for that reason, but bad sex on a first date, ehhh. not many girls i know would ghost if the rest of the date was great.
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kislev
12/29/17 11:35:07 PM
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KILBOTz posted...
define plenty. by absolute number, sure. just because there are over 3 billion women in the world. by percentage it seems like a pretty small number. first time sex being bad is far from uncommon. if the sex in a relationship straight up sucks i can see them ending it for that reason, but bad sex on a first date, ehhh. not many girls i know would ghost if the rest of the date was great.


I think it was because of the PE, i dont think i even lasted 20 seconds and was too tired to go on and hadno drive
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EnragedSlith
12/29/17 11:35:51 PM
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I have had sex plenty of times and never talked to the other person again

This is one reason people wait
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REMercsChamp
12/29/17 11:48:15 PM
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How long have you known this person TC?
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kislev
12/29/17 11:52:12 PM
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REMercsChamp posted...
How long have you known this person TC?


We talked for a month online before meeting
She is staying in my city for a week
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ChainedRedone
12/29/17 11:59:03 PM
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Sorry TC just let it go. It happens. At least you had sex. Most people on here don't even get that far. Hell, most people here probably freak out if a tinder girl doesn't respond to them.
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KILBOTz
12/30/17 12:03:49 AM
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kislev posted...
REMercsChamp posted...
How long have you known this person TC?


We talked for a month online before meeting
She is staying in my city for a week


Oh. Well in that case it does sound like she was just looking for some good dicking then. And least I'm assuming she's not looking for a relationship, in which case, yeah, it happens.
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kislev
12/30/17 6:59:48 AM
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KILBOTz posted...
kislev posted...
REMercsChamp posted...
How long have you known this person TC?


We talked for a month online before meeting
She is staying in my city for a week


Oh. Well in that case it does sound like she was just looking for some good dicking then. And least I'm assuming she's not looking for a relationship, in which case, yeah, it happens.


Still the fact that she ghosted me does hurt i hate to admit it
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kislev
12/30/17 7:00:39 AM
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ChainedRedone posted...
Sorry TC just let it go. It happens. At least you had sex. Most people on here don't even get that far. Hell, most people here probably freak out if a tinder girl doesn't respond to them.


I will be alright again in a day or two hopefully
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beechesfreeman
12/30/17 7:00:56 AM
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sounds like she dodged a bullet
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_Schwarzlicht_
12/30/17 7:01:52 AM
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Zikten posted...
she got the D

Well, I wouldn't say that.
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Twin3Turbo
12/30/17 7:20:15 AM
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KILBOTz posted...
define plenty. by absolute number, sure. just because there are over 3 billion women in the world. by percentage it seems like a pretty small number. first time sex being bad is far from uncommon. if the sex in a relationship straight up sucks i can see them ending it for that reason, but bad sex on a first date, ehhh. not many girls i know would ghost if the rest of the date was great.

You must know some really nice girls then man. It sounds like she had a notably unpleasant and awkward time with TC sexually and has now associated him with those emotions, understandably. If it was as bad as he said, then its not surprising to me in the slightest that shes ghosting him.
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im not 13
12/30/17 7:30:42 AM
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Why are you even asking this question? lol
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