Current Events > Just found out my ex got married. Also its my birthday

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Wasnt even snooping on her, I only found out because some of our mutual friends liked the post on facebook and it popped up on my news feed.

She cheated on me and we broke up only a few months ago. The guy she married is different from the guy she cheated on me with, so obviously she was getting busy with multiple dudes. Obviously I should be happy that Im not the one stuck with that crazy bitch, but this is still some heavy shit to take in. We were together for almost 3 years before we broke up so it was pretty significant to me. And its my birthday today. Dont really know how to feel right now.

Happy birthday man hope its a good one otherwise. Bitches be crazy.
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happy birthday
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if it makes you feel any better i'm in a similar situation except i don't get my birthday till april. so at least there's that.
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Just woke up and still feeling pretty down. Might just go to a bar by myself.

Dude relax. Be thankful you're single and broke up with a lying cheating woman, instead of finding out while you're married possibly with a kid.

Enjoy your life, hopefully you'll find someone better that'll blow your mind.
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thrashmetal14 posted...

We were together for almost 3 years before we broke up

From the sound of it you were never really "together."
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Try to focus on the good, at least you weren't married with kids and she decided to cheat. Sounds like you lucked out not being in a relationship with her.
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SpiritSephiroth posted...

Dude relax. Be thankful you're single and broke up with a lying cheating woman, instead of finding out while you're married possibly with a kid.

Enjoy your life, hopefully you'll find someone better that'll blow your mind.

Exactly. Today is a good day. Be glad you found out she was a skank before you married her. Then you'd have to give her half your shit.
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Be thankful for the fact that you didn't end up in legal marriage with a chronic cheater. Don't let this be the thing that resets your road to recovering from that breakup.
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Thanks guys, I dont really have anyone to talk to right now so at least I have CE. I know Im the lucky one because Im not the one tied down to a cheating whore, but its still a pretty tough thing to discover.

You sleep some of that off, homeboy?
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thrashmetal14 posted...

Wasnt even snooping on her, I only found out because some of our mutual friends liked the post on facebook and it popped up on my news feed.

She cheated on me and we broke up only a few months ago. The guy she married is different from the guy she cheated on me with, so obviously she was getting busy with multiple dudes. Obviously I should be happy that Im not the one stuck with that crazy bitch, but this is still some heavy shit to take in. We were together for almost 3 years before we broke up so it was pretty significant to me. And its my birthday today. Dont really know how to feel right now.

Honestly? Be glad. I had a similar experience and this is the way I saw it.

Better I found out before getting married, having a family, house, etc. Cuz women like that? Yeah...you're gonna come home from work early one day and she'd be riding the neighbor.

It sucks cuz you may have loved them, but it just means you were spared more pain later on

Smash her best friend
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Dude you should be partying like you won the fucking lottery, do you realize how thankful you should be for dodging that bullet ??!!

First off she is a cheating whore, she is going to cheat again, the fool who actually put a ring on her finger probably has no idea about her whoring ways. Second do you think for a second you would be happy with her knowing you cant trust her ??

This woman is probably going to cheat, get knocked up and trick her husband into raising a kid that is not his, then divorce his ass so she can whore around and get paid for child support and alimony.

Shit like this is when you party hardcore, your a free man, dodged a bullet, and have a sea of women to choose from. There is no reason at all for you to be sad or unhappy.
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