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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:24:24 PM
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COVxy posted...
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how to get what you want out of them through basic behavioral psychology


How's that?


As the age old adage goes: "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar"

EDIT: Also known as positive reinforcement (versus negative reinforcement)
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DezDroppedFreak
01/26/18 3:26:46 PM
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This is why Trump never apologizes. At this point, short of literally getting on his hands and knees and begging for forgiveness, nobody will be happy with the level of his apology, so he may as well say "fuck it" and just move on.

"I'll apologize if that's what you want I guess" isn't an apology.
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Axiom
01/26/18 3:26:57 PM
#54:


s0nicfan posted...
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And now youre blaming Trumps childish behavior on CE


Again: I'm explaining how you deal with it, because you can't change the person only how you deal with them. I'm also not defending his behavior, nor condoning it. You seem to be the one stuck on this idea that what I'm suggesting is a defending him, rather than telling you how to work around him.

But again, I prefer the practical approach to dealing with reality, rather than going "lol he's a child" and then getting angry when he continues to do things I don't like.

EDIT: But I get what you're trying to do. Since I support some of Trump's policies, I am therefore a "trump cultist" that has full faith in everything he does, and you desperately want some kind of "gotcha" moment where you reveal the grand truth of the fact that he's not infallible to me, because for some reason you think... what? This justifies all your political opinions or something? I dunno.

We dont work with or around the president at all. We comment on a message board. We are not responsible for his behavior. He has no idea what were saying about him. Youre aware of that, right?

But please keep telling us how laughing at him for apologizing like a schoolboy is going to affect his behavior. Its the funniest joke on CE right now.


Nah, it's pretty clear you can't or don't want to extrapolate how you're reacting in this specific instance to a larger trend of how you treat others and how to get what you want out of them through basic behavioral psychology. If you think the points I'm making are literally restricted to dealing with only Trump or that the way people are acting here doesn't at all reflect how they act in real life then there's really no point. You seem fixated on thinking I'm trying to defend him rather than simply pointing out how the way you respond to this kind of behavior alters future behavior in others. If you want to get more out of life, and get better results from dealing with other people, consider following my advice. If not, that's fine too.

There is a whole lot of pseudointellectual garbage in this post
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COVxy
01/26/18 3:27:20 PM
#55:


s0nicfan posted...
As the age old adage goes: "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar"

EDIT: Also known as positive reinforcement (versus negative reinforcement)


I mean, both work to shape behavior. Both work quite well. Seems like you were just trying to inject authority into your post.

(you were also looking for the word punishment, not negative reinforcement)
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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:27:55 PM
#56:


shockthemonkey posted...
Damn man, how far off topic do you have to get in order to defend the president acting like a child?


Didn't we already cover this?
s0nicfan posted...
A_Good_Boy posted...
You're literally condoning that the world bends over and regards Trump as if he was a toddler, and you don't see anything concerning about that. Just lol


I'm not condoning his behavior. I'm explaining it, and explaining how you deal with it. People seem stunningly unable to understand the difference between those things. Reality is reality, and you can either work around it, or throw a bitch fit because it isn't the way you want. I prefer the former.

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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:29:31 PM
#58:


COVxy posted...
s0nicfan posted...
As the age old adage goes: "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar"

EDIT: Also known as positive reinforcement (versus negative reinforcement)


I mean, both work to shape behavior. Both work quite well. Seems like you were just trying to inject authority into your post.


I mean, there's plenty of studies that show that positive reinforcement produces far better results than negative reinforcement. I used the appropriate words and I used them because I believe they were correct. I'm not a social psychologist, though, so I apologize if it came off as such.
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NOM
01/26/18 3:30:23 PM
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He shouldn't have apologized tbh
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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:31:30 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Im not defending him, Im just going to great lengths to blame his behavior on anything other than his own choices

no dont worry I believe you


You seem to be confusing me telling people how to get less of said behavior from him with explaining what caused the behavior in the first place.
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COVxy
01/26/18 3:32:02 PM
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s0nicfan posted...
I mean, there's plenty of studies that show that positive reinforcement produces far better results than negative reinforcement.


As noted above, you're using the word negative reinforcement when you mean positive punishment.

But none-the-less, the advice is usually that you can shape any behavior you want if you are clever enough with just positive reinforcement, so there's no reason to use punishment (an argument for humane training), not that one is more effective than the other.

I mean, just look at how effective fear conditioning is (though, this is sort of mixing systems, but it gets the point across). A single shock trial will modify behavior for weeks.
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TheVipaGTS
01/26/18 3:35:28 PM
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A grown ass man needs positive reinforcement to act like an adult (let alone a president) and if you want me to do that is a valid apology that shouldnt be criticized.

Yea this is CE.
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Funkydog
01/26/18 3:35:46 PM
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I'm not sure what positive reinforcement one could even give here, or why he should be coddled like a child to protect his ego rather than treated like an adult and just told honestly his apology was shit. That seems more respectful, rather than lying to him and acting like he is a child who can't take criticism
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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:36:43 PM
#65:


COVxy posted...
s0nicfan posted...
I mean, there's plenty of studies that show that positive reinforcement produces far better results than negative reinforcement.


As noted above, you're using the word negative reinforcement when you mean punishment.

But none-the-less, the advice is usually that you can shape any behavior you want if you are clever enough with just positive reinforcement, so there's no reason to use punishment (an argument for humane training), not that one is more effective than the other.

I mean, just look at how effective fear conditioning is (though, this is sort of mixing systems, but it gets the point across). A single shock trial will modify behavior for weeks.


The problem with shock trials is it produces all sorts of nasty side-effects. The same with negative reinforcement: It can force the results you want in specific instances but make general cooperation harder, especially if said person needs to be mentally engaged with the activity. You don't get the best out of people across the board with that sort of behavior.

Also, negative reinforcement is pretty much the same as punishment. You create an aversion to a behavior by associating it with something bad.
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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:38:48 PM
#66:


TheVipaGTS posted...
A grown ass man needs positive reinforcement to act like an adult (let alone a president) and if you want me to do that is a valid apology that shouldnt be criticized.

Yea this is CE.


Positive reinforcement is a technique that applies to all ages. It works on a child. It also works when trying to get a promotion, or if you've got an adversarial relationship with a customer or boss.
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TheVipaGTS
01/26/18 3:40:27 PM
#67:


s0nicfan posted...
TheVipaGTS posted...
A grown ass man needs positive reinforcement to act like an adult (let alone a president) and if you want me to do that is a valid apology that shouldnt be criticized.

Yea this is CE.


Positive reinforcement is a technique that applies to all ages. It works on a child. It also works when trying to get a promotion, or if you've got an adversarial relationship with a customer or boss.

Right. It works on different levels. Calling out the president for a shit apology isnt that. He isnt a 5 year old who needs to be positively told why his apology is wrong or not an apology at all. Hes a grown man. Thats something he should already know.
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COVxy
01/26/18 3:40:49 PM
#68:


s0nicfan posted...
Also, negative reinforcement is pretty much the same as punishment. You create an aversion to a behavior by associating it with something bad.


No, you've confused your terminology.

Positive and negative doesn't refer to the valence, it refers to the presence or absence of something. Reinforcement vs punishment refers to the change in behavior, with reinforcement you are always increasing the probability of a behavior, and with punishment you are decreasing the probability of behavior.

Negative reinforcement, for example, would be taking away a shock when an animal performs a behavior.
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s0nicfan
01/26/18 3:45:23 PM
#69:


COVxy posted...
s0nicfan posted...
Also, negative reinforcement is pretty much the same as punishment. You create an aversion to a behavior by associating it with something bad.


No, you've confused your terminology.

Positive and negative doesn't refer to the valence, it refers to the presence or absence of something. Reinforcement vs punishment refers to the change in behavior, with reinforcement you are always increasing the probability of a behavior, and with punishment you are decreasing the probability of behavior.

Negative reinforcement, for example, would be taking away a shock when an animal performs a behavior.


Ah yea you're right I was confusing the two. My bad.
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emblem boy
01/26/18 3:48:23 PM
#70:


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I think I missed the apology as I was reading through this


This.

I don't see why some are trying so hard to make what he said positive. Like, let's hold our president to a higher standard.
It was a shitty apology. The fact that he's not used to apologizing doesn't change that.

Him not wanting to apologizing anymore because people wont appreciate it is a weak argument and shows a lack of agency on his part.
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BruceWayneJr
01/26/18 4:32:57 PM
#71:


UnfairRepresent posted...


IMO it takes a real man to apologize


Too bad that's not what happened here. Trump continues to be the classless, racist fuck he always was. This half-ass "apology" may work for you, but it won't work for the majority of humans who have learned that his word are worthless and he's liable to say/do the complete opposite within a short period of time. Give the piece of shit credit if you want to; he's still a piece of shit.
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UnfairRepresent
01/26/18 4:46:45 PM
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Yeah this really goes a long way to explaining why a lot of people don't apologize.

Guys who love to be outraged refuse to "accept" it because he hasn't "apologized correctly"

It's crazy
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Funkydog
01/26/18 6:53:17 PM
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Because it is a non apology. He's not apologised for the spreading of their fake news, claims to have no idea who they are and is only saying sorry because others want it. Not that he fucked up and spread a hate groups fake news
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UnfairRepresent
01/26/18 6:59:08 PM
#74:


Funkydog posted...
Because it is a non apology.

Funkydog posted...
is only saying sorry

UnfairRepresent posted...

Guys who love to be outraged refuse to "accept" it because he hasn't "apologized correctly"

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COVxy
01/26/18 6:59:56 PM
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You are just trying to keep your topic alive. Stop it.
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Funkydog
01/26/18 7:02:34 PM
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Yeah, this is a pointless argument. No point continuing it as no ones gonna change their mind .
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UnfairRepresent
01/26/18 7:04:45 PM
#77:


COVxy posted...
You are just trying to keep your topic alive. Stop it.

The topic is like 3 hours old.
On the front page of CE
And I've barely posted in it...

So.... No.

Funkydog posted...
Yeah, this is a pointless argument. No point continuing it as no ones gonna change their mind .

The only one who seems to be unwilling to open their mind is you and maybe your friends.

Put it another way, is there any apology Trump could have given that you believe you would have accepted? Really think on that.
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Axiom
01/26/18 7:06:21 PM
#78:


COVxy posted...
You are just trying to keep your topic alive. Stop it.

People should really treat UR topics like the TC doesn't even exist
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metralo
01/26/18 7:08:32 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...

Put it another way, is there any apology Trump could have given that you believe you would have accepted?


yes

literally almost anything other than "do you want me to apologize? ok, sorry"
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A_Good_Boy
01/26/18 7:08:52 PM
#81:


Axiom posted...
COVxy posted...
You are just trying to keep your topic alive. Stop it.

People should really treat UR topics like the TC doesn't even exist

Most people already do.
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UnfairRepresent
01/26/18 7:15:16 PM
#82:


shockthemonkey posted...
I shouldnt have retweeted videos from those racists, and Im sorry that I did it, would have been fine. Like how a normal adult apologizes.

Wouldn't have been accepted because he didn't apologize for the content of the videos. As seen in this topic, people rejected it for that reason

Also wouldn't have been accepted because "It's blatantly insincere, we need a sincere apology" as seen in this topic, people rejected it for that reason.

I'm fairly confident that in an alternate universe which is identical except Trump did say that and also Chester from Lincoln Park was still alive, you would still be saying that you reject his apology for different reasons.

The very notion itself of rejecting a man's apology for being "incorrect" is kinda weird.
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metralo
01/26/18 7:17:14 PM
#83:


UnfairRepresent posted...


The very notion itself of rejecting a man's apology for being "incorrect" is kinda weird.


no its not its been around forever

if you spent more time interacting with people irl instead of making shit clickbait topics and doing weird things like going on triads about sigless users you'd understand that fake apologies happen often and they're easy to point ouit
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UnfairRepresent
01/26/18 7:20:09 PM
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^ And my point is proven.

"The apology is fake!"
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Kazi1212
01/26/18 7:26:12 PM
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Liberals are very accepting of people and embraces all the different ways people express themselves. but if you dont express your apology the way liberals want you to express it, then it must be a fake apology
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Prestoff
01/26/18 7:49:17 PM
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lubmelubyou posted...
He should never have apologised. He did nothing wrong.

It doesn't matter if you retweet a message from a racist group, as long as that message is factually correct. The pictures were legit.


He tweeted 3 videos, 2 of them were literally fake news so if there was anything he should've apologized it was that he posted fake news.
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Waluigi7
01/27/18 2:13:35 AM
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That 'positive reinforcement' defense has got to be one of the most ridiculous things I've seen on this board.
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s0nicfan
01/27/18 2:23:34 AM
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Bullet_Wing posted...
Waluigi7 posted...
That 'positive reinforcement' defense has got to be one of the most ridiculous things I've seen on this board.

It really is, holy shit. "Trump is a racist piece of shit manchild because you guys treat him like a racist piece of shit manchild"

LMFAO


s0nicfan posted...

I'm not condoning his behavior. I'm explaining it, and explaining how you deal with it. People seem stunningly unable to understand the difference between those things. Reality is reality, and you can either work around it, or throw a bitch fit because it isn't the way you want. I prefer the former.

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0AbsoluteZero0
01/27/18 2:26:00 AM
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Good lord, the lame excuses and deflection in this topic are embarrassing even by @s0nicfan standards

Once a cultist always a cultist, I guess
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Lorenzo_2003
01/27/18 2:26:45 AM
#93:


UnfairRepresent posted...
Guys who love to be outraged refuse to "accept" it because he hasn't "apologized correctly"

It's crazy


I dont believe for one second that anyone, including the CEmen here, actually want an apology from Trump or any other celebrity who is controversial. It does not matter what kind of apology he makes. Everyone has already made up their minds about him. All you can do now, practically-speaking, is ride it out and wait for the next election.
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s0nicfan
01/27/18 2:27:34 AM
#94:


0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
Good lord, the lame excuses and deflection in this topic are embarrassing even by @s0nicfan standards

Once a cultist always a cultist, I guess


I mean, I get that you're a gimmick account, but if you actually read the topic you'd see that I'm not defending his actions at any point. It's a shitty non-apology. I was simply pointing out that if you don't like shitty non-apologizes, you don't get less by complaining about them.
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UnfairRepresent
01/27/18 3:22:52 AM
#95:


shockthemonkey posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
I shouldnt have retweeted videos from those racists, and Im sorry that I did it, would have been fine. Like how a normal adult apologizes.

Wouldn't have been accepted because he didn't apologize for the content of the videos. As seen in this topic, people rejected it for that reason

Also wouldn't have been accepted because "It's blatantly insincere, we need a sincere apology" as seen in this topic, people rejected it for that reason.

I'm fairly confident that in an alternate universe which is identical except Trump did say that and also Chester from Lincoln Park was still alive, you would still be saying that you reject his apology for different reasons.

The very notion itself of rejecting a man's apology for being "incorrect" is kinda weird.

lmao Im not a contrarian but let me put words in your mouth in order to be a contrarian

I didn't put words in your mouth
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loafy013
01/27/18 4:06:52 AM
#96:


lubmelubyou posted...
He should never have apologised. He did nothing wrong.

It doesn't matter if you retweet a message from a racist group, as long as that message is factually correct. The pictures were legit.

But they weren't. The pictures were real, but had nothing to do with the story that accompanied them.
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UnfairRepresent
01/27/18 6:29:47 AM
#97:


loafy013 posted...
lubmelubyou posted...
He should never have apologised. He did nothing wrong.

It doesn't matter if you retweet a message from a racist group, as long as that message is factually correct. The pictures were legit.

But they weren't. The pictures were real, but had nothing to do with the story that accompanied them.

Wasn't 1 or the photos fake?
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spikethedevil
01/27/18 6:33:11 AM
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One of them had zero to do with Islam.
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008Zulu
01/27/18 6:42:25 AM
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UnfairRepresent
01/28/18 3:53:15 AM
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spikethedevil posted...
One of them had zero to do with Islam.

Yes
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