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jstewart01
02/19/18 7:08:16 PM
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On youtube, there's a guy I watch who likes taking video request from his viewers . He also likes live streaming and talking with chat as well. Last week, I asked him if he'd be willing to take one of my video requests. He gladly accepted, and he said it would be up on Monday. Between that time and the weekend, he live streamed a few times, and I was there. Come Sunday, and before I left chat, I reminded the guy and said, "See you tomorrow, and thanks for taking my request". He ignored that part of my message and told me to have a good night.

The guy then streamed this afternoon. I greeted him in chat, and yet he mentioned nothing about the video. So I waited, and still nothing. I finally asked if he was still going to still do the video, and he said that he wouldn't do it tonight because his stomach. I said "Fair enough", and he said in kind of an agitated tone, "Thank you for understanding". This guy isn't fooling anyone. If he doesn't want to do the video, why doesn't he just say so? Any advice?
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hollow_shrine
02/19/18 7:12:58 PM
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Maybe he's having a bad day. If you like him cut him some slack and give him some space. I would watch to make sure this isn't becoming a habit though.

If this is really bothering you, take a break from him.
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HydroCannabinol
02/19/18 7:14:10 PM
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Go outside
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Kombucha
02/19/18 7:32:41 PM
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HydroCannabinol posted...
Go outside

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therin_lews_kin
02/19/18 7:34:45 PM
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Prestoff
02/19/18 7:36:33 PM
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What kind of videos does he do?
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Muffinz0rz
02/19/18 7:39:39 PM
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in my experience, custom pornos take time
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masticatingman
02/19/18 7:41:38 PM
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If youre not sending him money on Patreon then you dont mean shit tbh. If you are sending him money on Patreon then you can just stop.
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Schwarz
02/19/18 7:41:40 PM
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If you're not paying him, you should probably take a chill pill.
Edit: 2 second ninja, damn.
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R0ttedHorror
02/19/18 7:42:22 PM
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Prestoff posted...
What kind of videos does he do?

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LordRazziel
02/19/18 7:44:12 PM
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That's not passive aggressive.
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byrone
02/19/18 7:46:49 PM
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Wtf? That must be common. Your story reminds me of something very similar that happened to me. On youtube, there's a guy I watch who likes taking video request from his viewers . He also likes live streaming and talking with chat as well. Last week, I asked him if he'd be willing to take one of my video requests. He gladly accepted, and he said it would be up on Monday. Between that time and the weekend, he live streamed a few times, and I was there. Come Sunday, and before I left chat, I reminded the guy and said, "See you tomorrow, and thanks for taking my request". He ignored that part of my message and told me to have a good night.

The guy then streamed this afternoon. I greeted him in chat, and yet he mentioned nothing about the video. So I waited, and still nothing. I finally asked if he was still going to still do the video, and he said that he wouldn't do it tonight because his stomach. I said "Fair enough", and he said in kind of an agitated tone, "Thank you for understanding". This guy isn't fooling anyone. If he doesn't want to do the video, why doesn't he just say so? Any advice?
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Muffinz0rz
02/19/18 7:51:12 PM
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byrone posted...
Wtf? That must be common. Your story reminds me of something very similar that happened to me. On youtube, there's a guy I watch who likes taking video request from his viewers . He also likes live streaming and talking with chat as well. Last week, I asked him if he'd be willing to take one of my video requests. He gladly accepted, and he said it would be up on Monday. Between that time and the weekend, he live streamed a few times, and I was there. Come Sunday, and before I left chat, I reminded the guy and said, "See you tomorrow, and thanks for taking my request". He ignored that part of my message and told me to have a good night.

The guy then streamed this afternoon. I greeted him in chat, and yet he mentioned nothing about the video. So I waited, and still nothing. I finally asked if he was still going to still do the video, and he said that he wouldn't do it tonight because his stomach. I said "Fair enough", and he said in kind of an agitated tone, "Thank you for understanding". This guy isn't fooling anyone. If he doesn't want to do the video, why doesn't he just say so? Any advice?

Dude no way

This is exactly like the time a while ago that happened to me; on youtube, there's a guy I watch who likes taking video request from his viewers . He also likes live streaming and talking with chat as well. Last week, I asked him if he'd be willing to take one of my video requests. He gladly accepted, and he said it would be up on Monday. Between that time and the weekend, he live streamed a few times, and I was there. Come Sunday, and before I left chat, I reminded the guy and said, "See you tomorrow, and thanks for taking my request". He ignored that part of my message and told me to have a good night.

The guy then streamed this afternoon. I greeted him in chat, and yet he mentioned nothing about the video. So I waited, and still nothing. I finally asked if he was still going to still do the video, and he said that he wouldn't do it tonight because his stomach. I said "Fair enough", and he said in kind of an agitated tone, "Thank you for understanding". This guy isn't fooling anyone. If he doesn't want to do the video, why doesn't he just say so? Any advice?
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