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MoistenedYouth
04/23/18 2:13:42 AM
#51:


DocileOrangeCup posted...
MoistenedYouth posted...
DocileOrangeCup posted...
tell him you've already found your personal corn and savior

strike gently?

u wan go m8

whip ur deck out

it's time d-d-duel!
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CEskeptic
04/23/18 2:14:27 AM
#52:


So did OP actually want advice or are they just trolling?
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bulletproofvita
04/23/18 2:40:09 AM
#53:


Oh honey
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Harpie
04/23/18 5:25:02 AM
#54:


So what I'm getting is

1) ghost him
or
2) be blunt
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LightningAce11
04/23/18 5:25:30 AM
#55:


Just tell him straight up. It's not hard.
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Harpie
04/23/18 5:31:40 AM
#56:


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Harpie
04/23/18 5:32:36 AM
#57:


LightningAce11 posted...
Just tell him straight up. It's not hard.

Yeah, I'll tell him in person tho
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treewojima
04/23/18 5:35:49 AM
#58:


Harpie posted...
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"please respond"
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SavenForever
04/23/18 6:00:14 AM
#59:


LightningAce11 posted...
Just tell him straight up. It's not hard.


This. Don't even think about ghosting either since you work with him. If you are going to continue beating around the bush, it isn't going to get any better.
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V-E-G-Y-
04/23/18 6:19:02 AM
#60:


Never let someone down gently, your goal should always be to make him cry
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PokemonYoutube
04/23/18 6:53:08 AM
#61:


Why would you even want to be friends with an alcoholic dopefiend?
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JustMonika
04/23/18 8:01:50 AM
#62:


Ghost him, you're good at it.
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bulletproofvita
04/23/18 8:31:40 AM
#63:


JustMonika posted...
Ghost him, you're good at it.

Shots fired
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
04/23/18 8:32:54 AM
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You know what you do? Behave like an adult and tell him you aren't interested.

What's up with everyone nowadays trying to find sly ways that look real for getting rid of someone. You aren't dating this guy. Tell him no.
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DocileOrangeCup
04/23/18 8:38:59 AM
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V-E-G-Y-
04/23/18 8:53:07 AM
#66:


Also, trying to hook up with a bunch of your co-workers isn't a good idea imo lol
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Kanaya413
04/23/18 1:40:55 PM
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Pics of guy
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juicebox4
04/23/18 4:20:11 PM
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lol at him calling himself cute
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EverDownward
04/23/18 4:23:28 PM
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Ghost him. It's the easiest way, after all.
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Pepys Monster
04/23/18 4:25:44 PM
#70:


EverDownward posted...
Ghost him. It's the easiest way, after all.

Sending "I'm not interested." vs. Receiving texts for days/weeks

Gee, I wonder which is easier.
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Caution999
04/23/18 4:27:33 PM
#71:


juicebox4 posted...
lol at him calling himself cute


That wasn't the bad part. The fact that he had no chemistry with her when the video game discussion came up was terrible. He totally botched that opportunity he had right there.
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EverDownward
04/23/18 4:28:24 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
EverDownward posted...
Ghost him. It's the easiest way, after all.

Sending "I'm not interested." vs. Receiving texts for days/weeks

Gee, I wonder which is easier.

Ignoring someone is always easier. Apathy reigns.
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Orthopox12
04/23/18 4:31:56 PM
#73:


Give him a bj then ghost him that way hes extra confused but at least he got a bj.
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EverDownward
04/23/18 4:33:13 PM
#74:


Orthopox12 posted...
Give him a bj then ghost him that way hes extra confused but at least he got a bj.

I feel like this would be even worse. Do it.
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juicebox4
04/23/18 6:23:55 PM
#75:


Orthopox12 posted...
Give him a bj then ghost him that way hes extra confused but at least he got a bj.

lmfao
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Harpie
04/24/18 12:12:01 AM
#77:


yXrZ0Xg

help
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Vyrulisse
04/24/18 12:12:44 AM
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ImTheMacheteGuy
04/24/18 12:13:31 AM
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Hi harpie :3
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ImTheMacheteGuy
04/24/18 12:14:55 AM
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Harpie posted...
yXrZ0Xg

help


Who is who? I just saw this topic and I don't want to catch up >_>
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DocileOrangeCup
04/24/18 12:16:44 AM
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Harpie
04/24/18 12:17:55 AM
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Vyrulisse posted...
He's trying to guilt you, stay strong.

I feel so bad, I'm literally at the verge of tears. I hate making people upset and making them feel bad about themselves :(

ImTheMacheteGuy posted...
Hi harpie :3

hi

the green is me

basically a guy at work has a massive crush on me, but there are so many red flags that I'd be fucking stupid to entertain anything
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cuttin_in_farm
04/24/18 12:18:22 AM
#83:


How about instead of passive bullshit you be blunt.

And just in case you ignore this because "2 mean":

Being passive and saying you're not looking for a relationship? Dudes are raised to keep trying. Dudes are told you have to be persistent.

You giving a situational reason like that basically means to him "Well when she is ready, I'm in!"

And he sounds like a Tadamoto. Just be honest. He'll live. Toughen the fuck up.
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ben1741
04/24/18 12:18:46 AM
#84:


Ill help you provided you leave ce
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Vyrulisse
04/24/18 12:18:55 AM
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Well it's gonna happen that way no matter what. He's trying to put a guilt trip on you hoping you reconsider and he may not even know he's doing it. Just gotta stick to your guns here even if it sucks.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
04/24/18 12:27:48 AM
#86:


Harpie posted...
Vyrulisse posted...
He's trying to guilt you, stay strong.

I feel so bad, I'm literally at the verge of tears. I hate making people upset and making them feel bad about themselves :(

ImTheMacheteGuy posted...
Hi harpie :3

hi

the green is me

basically a guy at work has a massive crush on me, but there are so many red flags that I'd be fucking stupid to entertain anything


Ah okay. I mean yeah I can't speak on the vices (drinking and 420 are awesome tbh, don't care for cigarettes, I remember you saying your father drinks a lot so even though I say it's awesome, I completely understand why it's a red flag for you), but the ex parents couch crash scene is definitely an objective red flag and he still supports his habits without an income? Yeah, you don't want that.
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Pepys Monster
04/24/18 12:34:11 AM
#87:


Harpie posted...
help

You did okay. He knows you're not interested now, but he likes you, so he's not happy. He'll get over you. Props for not ghosting like some of the "men" here who can't handle telling someone they're not interested.
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Foppe
04/24/18 1:25:29 AM
#88:


Hopefully this will be a wakeup call for him.
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electricbugs2
04/24/18 1:33:01 AM
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No offense boo, but aside from the couch thing, a lot of these describe ya boy.

Dunno how your gonna say "well I can handle it" to me, but this guy is putting up the flags, guarantee I go 100 MPH faster lol.

Sorry this is going rough for you, but just an observation.
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JustMonika
04/24/18 2:35:11 AM
#90:


Harpie posted...
I hate making people upset and making them feel bad about themselves

lol
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JTilly
04/24/18 2:46:23 AM
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Just tell them your in a relationship with JT and its getting serious

I got you girl
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Panthera
04/24/18 2:55:52 AM
#92:


What kind of loser do you have to be to act like that when a girl shoots you down jesus
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