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Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:30:37 PM #1:	Long story short, my ex and I divorced 3 years ago. She wanted to separate for a while and decide if she wanted to stay with me or see how things went with some other guy. I made her decision easy and told her gtfo, haven't spoken since. Friday she messages me, asking if I can talk. I literally text back "What." She goes on about how he's broke, a drunk, caught him fooling around with 2 girls, and that night he pushed her into a wall after she called him out on it and slapped him. This was in about 6 texts over the course of 7 minutes, and I hadn't said anything since "What." So I sent her this: https://coub.com/view/8ya31 Have not heard back yet. So, was that justified or no? It was (and still is, if I'm being honest) really, really funny at the time, but now I'm wondering if maybe she's ok? She knows I hate her guts so for her to reach out to me she may be in dire straights. To clarify, I started looking for the clip after she said he's cheating. I copy/pasted and sent it BEFORE I saw the last two texts that said she hit him and he pushed her <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903112237] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Long story short, my ex and I divorced 3 years ago. She wanted to separate for a while and decide if she wanted to stay with me or see how things went with some other guy. I made her decision easy and told her gtfo, haven't spoken since. Friday she messages me, asking if I can talk. I literally text back "What." She goes on about how he's broke, a drunk, caught him fooling around with 2 girls, and that night he pushed her into a wall after she called him out on it and slapped him. This was in about 6 texts over the course of 7 minutes, and I hadn't said anything since "What." So I sent her this: https://coub.com/view/8ya31 Have not heard back yet. So, was that justified or no? It was (and still is, if I'm being honest) really, really funny at the time, but now I'm wondering if maybe she's ok? She knows I hate her guts so for her to reach out to me she may be in dire straights. To clarify, I started looking for the clip after she said he's cheating. I copy/pasted and sent it BEFORE I saw the last two texts that said she hit him and he pushed her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OEIO999 06/12/18 7:32:11 PM #3:	Very much so, you have maintained your man card. Much respect. --- The truth behind star wars: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/76044442/891290690 <cite>OEIO999 posted [p:903112366] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Very much so, you have maintained your man card. Much respect.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
glitteringfairy 06/12/18 7:32:38 PM #4:	You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch. --- "How come you can believe in God but not Bigfoot?" V-E-G-Y https://imgur.com/AqR3aeX https://imgur.com/vvuUXpp https://imgur.com/r9xK2NR <cite>glitteringfairy posted [p:903112400] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitt 06/12/18 7:32:55 PM #5:	Nice username. --- https://imgur.com/pmc9XsI https://imgur.com/LkrRVe2 https://imgur.com/Dp03g3y Dudes gotta know I be fertile! <cite>Kitt posted [p:903112433] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Nice username.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 06/12/18 7:32:57 PM #6:	That is pretty terrible but she sounds terrible too --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:903112436] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>That is pretty terrible but she sounds terrible too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gmanthebest 06/12/18 7:33:23 PM #7:	Sounds justified. Definitely her problem --- What do I feel when I shoot an enemy? Recoil. <cite>gmanthebest posted [p:903112477] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Sounds justified. Definitely her problem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lesidesi 06/12/18 7:33:54 PM #8:	She sucks but you also suck Could have easily just ignored/not responded --- If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers. <cite>lesidesi posted [p:903112523] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>She sucks but you also suck Could have easily just ignored/not responded</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CharlesBronson 06/12/18 7:33:55 PM #9:	let her rot <cite>CharlesBronson posted [p:903112525] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>let her rot</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GunmaN1905 06/12/18 7:34:02 PM #10:	Idk, I would personally do the same thing as you, or maybe not even respond, but I'm a vengeful person and as you said she might actually be in danger. But on the other hand, you're a gimmick troll account so it's not like it matters. 6/10 for effort, tho. <cite>GunmaN1905 posted [p:903112536] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Idk, I would personally do the same thing as you, or maybe not even respond, but I'm a vengeful person and as you said she might actually be in danger. But on the other hand, you're a gimmick troll account so it's not like it matters. 6/10 for effort, tho.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 06/12/18 7:34:15 PM #11:	-Gavirulax- posted... Would have done the same thing honestly. And she has nothing to do with you now so I wouldnt worry one bit. She chose the route she wanted to go, shell figure it out. --- https://imgur.com/pqMQZyw <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:903112557] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>-Gavirulax- posted...</cite> <quote>Would have done the same thing honestly.</quote> And she has nothing to do with you now so I wouldnt worry one bit. She chose the route she wanted to go, shell figure it out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:34:20 PM #12:	glitteringfairy posted... You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch. In my defense, it's literally the only place I can find that specific clip <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903112560] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>glitteringfairy posted...</cite> <quote>You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch.</quote> In my defense, it's literally the only place I can find that specific clip</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 06/12/18 7:35:17 PM #13:	It's not really that funny but you do you --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:903112642] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>It's not really that funny but you do you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 06/12/18 7:36:44 PM #14:	Hahaha that is awesome. Very well played all around by you. --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:903112763] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Hahaha that is awesome. Very well played all around by you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:38:20 PM #15:	gmanthebest posted... Sounds justified. Definitely her problem I thank you for your validation lesidesi posted... She sucks but you also suck Could have easily just ignored/not responded All I wanted was ONE delicious moment! /Andy Bernard GunmaN1905 posted... Idk, I would personally do the same thing as you, or maybe not even respond, but I'm a vengeful person and as you said she might actually be in danger. But on the other hand, you're a gimmick troll account so it's not like it matters. 6/10 for effort, tho. So, call for a welfare check maybe? If I, my main concern is if I have any level of liability worst case scenario. Sorry you feel I'm a gimmick. My opinions are genuine and passionate, you may not like them but I assure you they're no gimmick. gatorsPENSbucs posted... -Gavirulax- posted... Would have done the same thing honestly. And she has nothing to do with you now so I wouldnt worry one bit. She chose the route she wanted to go, shell figure it out. I suppose. Last thing I need is drama in my life, you're probably right, she made her decision. <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903112898] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>gmanthebest posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds justified. Definitely her problem</quote> I thank you for your validation <cite>lesidesi posted...</cite> <quote>She sucks but you also suck Could have easily just ignored/not responded</quote> All I wanted was ONE delicious moment! /Andy Bernard <cite>GunmaN1905 posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I would personally do the same thing as you, or maybe not even respond, but I'm a vengeful person and as you said she might actually be in danger. But on the other hand, you're a gimmick troll account so it's not like it matters. 6/10 for effort, tho.</quote> So, call for a welfare check maybe? If I, my main concern is if I have any level of liability worst case scenario. Sorry you feel I'm a gimmick. My opinions are genuine and passionate, you may not like them but I assure you they're no gimmick. <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted...</cite> <quote><cite>-Gavirulax- posted...</cite> <quote>Would have done the same thing honestly.</quote> And she has nothing to do with you now so I wouldnt worry one bit. She chose the route she wanted to go, shell figure it out.</quote> I suppose. Last thing I need is drama in my life, you're probably right, she made her decision.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DavidWong 06/12/18 7:39:16 PM #17:	But honestly, just tell the cops or something that you're worried the guy may be abusive, then you've covered all your bases. --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:903112987] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>But honestly, just tell the cops or something that you're worried the guy may be abusive, then you've covered all your bases.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pharrell3 06/12/18 7:40:11 PM #18:	checks username checks gif yeah this checks out TC is lying probably to get HITS --- Doge <cite>Pharrell3 posted [p:903113060] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>checks username checks gif yeah this checks out TC is lying probably to get HITS</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BipBapBam 06/12/18 7:43:18 PM #20:	Nah. Completely justified. Good job TC. --- Regardless of warnings, the future doesn't scare me at all. <cite>BipBapBam posted [p:903113314] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Nah. Completely justified. Good job TC.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:43:23 PM #21:	JustMyOpinion posted... You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy. Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me" <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903113327] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy.</quote> Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Duwstai 06/12/18 7:45:48 PM #22:	Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F* her. --- balls <cite>Duwstai posted [p:903113542] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F* her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 06/12/18 7:47:25 PM #23:	JustMyOpinion posted... You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy. Being a victim of domestic abuse doesn't entitle you to call up your ex spouse from 3 years ago to try to fleece them for money after you left them for a fucking loser. --- https://puu.sh/tcLsT/24f4611235.png https://imgur.com/dQgC4kv <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:903113676] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy.</quote> Being a victim of domestic abuse doesn't entitle you to call up your ex spouse from 3 years ago to try to fleece them for money after you left them for a fucking loser.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GunmaN1905 06/12/18 7:47:44 PM #24:	Peter_Giffyndor posted... JustMyOpinion posted... You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy. Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me" How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else. <cite>GunmaN1905 posted [p:903113695] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy.</quote> Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me"</quote> How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KillerKhan420 06/12/18 7:49:39 PM #26:	Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her. --- "I know how the business works because I'm a wrestling fan"-hulkhogan1 <cite>KillerKhan420 posted [p:903113862] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thelovefist 06/12/18 7:53:49 PM #27:	If Gavi is agreeing with you it is probably a safe bet it wasn't a good thing to do. --- "honestly the worst thing about Shaun King is how pro-cop he is" - averagejoel <cite>thelovefist posted [p:903114241] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>If Gavi is agreeing with you it is probably a safe bet it wasn't a good thing to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:55:03 PM #28:	Duwstai posted... Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F*** her. There is now a void in my life, you sir are 100% correct. GunmaN1905 posted... Peter_Giffyndor posted... JustMyOpinion posted... You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy. Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me" How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else. Basically this. There's a hell of a lot more, and I could've been a better husband, but never cheated or abused her. Still, nobody deserves to be cheated on. My love for her died when she made her choice. JustMyOpinion posted... Imagine trying to justify kicking a victim while they're down. Where does she even ask for money? Where am I trying to justify it? I'm literally asking if it was a dick move. Calm down. And also, you are correct, she did not ask for money. I honestly don't know wtf she wanted me to do, didn't get that far lol. <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903114337] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>Duwstai posted...</cite> <quote>Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F*** her.</quote> There is now a void in my life, you sir are 100% correct. <cite>GunmaN1905 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy.</quote> Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me"</quote> How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else.</quote> Basically this. There's a hell of a lot more, and I could've been a better husband, but never cheated or abused her. Still, nobody deserves to be cheated on. My love for her died when she made her choice. <cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>Imagine trying to justify kicking a victim while they're down. Where does she even ask for money? </quote> Where am I trying to justify it? I'm literally asking if it was a dick move. Calm down. And also, you are correct, she did not ask for money. I honestly don't know wtf she wanted me to do, didn't get that far lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:58:05 PM #30:	KillerKhan420 posted... Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her. Besides my current gf probably objecting, my mother would not talk to me if I did, no shit. Best case scenario she would never be in the same room and refuse to speak about her. There's absolutely no way she would accept it lol. I don't want her back anyway, I learned a long time ago that they will never be the same person you loved again. <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903114611] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerKhan420 posted...</cite> <quote>Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her.</quote> Besides my current gf probably objecting, my mother would not talk to me if I did, no shit. Best case scenario she would never be in the same room and refuse to speak about her. There's absolutely no way she would accept it lol. I don't want her back anyway, I learned a long time ago that they will never be the same person you loved again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 06/12/18 7:59:04 PM #31:	Peter_Giffyndor posted... KillerKhan420 posted... Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her. Besides my current gf probably objecting, my mother would not talk to me if I did, no shit. Best case scenario she would never be in the same room and refuse to speak about her. There's absolutely no way she would accept it lol. I don't want her back anyway, I learned a long time ago that they will never be the same person you loved again. Agreed. I feel like even if my fiance cheated on me, if I somehow was able to look past it and love her and continue the relationship, I wouldn't be able to forgive her. --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:903114705] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerKhan420 posted...</cite> <quote>Love that she screwed up her life to be with a loser. There's nothing wrong, the only decision you could make that'd be dumb is to get back with her.</quote> Besides my current gf probably objecting, my mother would not talk to me if I did, no shit. Best case scenario she would never be in the same room and refuse to speak about her. There's absolutely no way she would accept it lol. I don't want her back anyway, I learned a long time ago that they will never be the same person you loved again.</quote> Agreed. I feel like even if my fiance cheated on me, if I somehow was able to look past it and love her and continue the relationship, I wouldn't be able to forgive her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 7:59:32 PM #32:	JustMyOpinion posted... Peter_Giffyndor posted... Duwstai posted... Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F*** her. There is now a void in my life, you sir are 100% correct. GunmaN1905 posted... Peter_Giffyndor posted... JustMyOpinion posted... You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy. Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me" How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else. Basically this. There's a hell of a lot more, and I could've been a better husband, but never cheated or abused her. Still, nobody deserves to be cheated on. My love for her died when she made her choice. JustMyOpinion posted... Imagine trying to justify kicking a victim while they're down. Where does she even ask for money? Where am I trying to justify it? I'm literally asking if it was a dick move. Calm down. And also, you are correct, she did not ask for money. I honestly don't know wtf she wanted me to do, didn't get that far lol. While I'm calming down will you be learning how to read? That post clearly wasn't aimed at you as I quoted someone else. But anyways, you asked a question in the title of the topic. Don't ask if you don't want answers. While I am open and receptive to criticism, it seems you're still hostile and just...awful, so I'll be ignoring you. I tried to be civil and have a discussion, but you clearly just want to troll and hurl insults and stir shit. See ya. <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903114742] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Duwstai posted...</cite> <quote>Missed a prime opportunity to respond with this https://goo.gl/images/fkYZ2l Otherwise you are good. F*** her.</quote> There is now a void in my life, you sir are 100% correct. <cite>GunmaN1905 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound petty and vindictive. The best revenge is living well, as opposed to kicking a victim of domestic violence while they're down. Stay classy.</quote> Eh. Why not both? Tbf and for clarification I started looking for the clip as she's texting, the last thing I saw before flipping to chrome was "he's been cheating". I copy/paste the link before I read the last two which basically said "I slapped him" then "he pushed me"</quote> How can anyone stay classy in a situation like this. You basically commit yourself for life, get married and then it all falls apart because bitch wanted to see how things are with someone else.</quote> Basically this. There's a hell of a lot more, and I could've been a better husband, but never cheated or abused her. Still, nobody deserves to be cheated on. My love for her died when she made her choice. <cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>Imagine trying to justify kicking a victim while they're down. Where does she even ask for money? </quote> Where am I trying to justify it? I'm literally asking if it was a dick move. Calm down. And also, you are correct, she did not ask for money. I honestly don't know wtf she wanted me to do, didn't get that far lol.</quote> While I'm calming down will you be learning how to read? That post clearly wasn't aimed at you as I quoted someone else. But anyways, you asked a question in the title of the topic. Don't ask if you don't want answers.</quote> While I am open and receptive to criticism, it seems you're still hostile and just...awful, so I'll be ignoring you. I tried to be civil and have a discussion, but you clearly just want to troll and hurl insults and stir shit. See ya.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Offworlder1 06/12/18 8:01:38 PM #34:	She is not your problem anymore. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:903114940] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>She is not your problem anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
megamanfreakXD 06/12/18 8:05:47 PM #35:	Enjoy your reddit gold --- https://imgur.com/tzhGHNu <cite>megamanfreakXD posted [p:903115349] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Enjoy your reddit gold</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 06/12/18 8:07:38 PM #36:	someone married you? --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:903115494] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>someone married you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MelzezDoor 06/12/18 8:13:56 PM #37:	imgur link? This coub crap aint working for me. --- https://imgur.com/ARaZB2G https://imgur.com/LvEUiSl <cite>MelzezDoor posted [p:903116071] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>imgur link? This coub crap aint working for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peter_Giffyndor 06/12/18 8:21:34 PM #38:	thronedfire2 posted... someone married you? Yes, your mother and I were very happy for a time HEEEYYYYOOOO <cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted [p:903116698] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote>someone married you?</quote> Yes, your mother and I were very happy for a time HEEEYYYYOOOO</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LJRENEGADE 06/12/18 8:40:57 PM #39:	I can't see the clip, but I'm assuming its just some reaction video. Probably a dick a move, but its not that bad and given the circumstances, I wouldn't hold it against you. She was selfish and treated you like shit, so I wouldn't feel much sympathy toward her either. If I were you, I'd try to not hold a grudge against her. Not for her, but for you. You don't wanna hold onto those kind of feelings. Hell, I'd try, or at least I think I'd try, talking to her and forgiving her. Not staying friends or staying talking or anything like that, just enough to maybe get some sort of closure. To end it all as nicely as still possible. I won't tell you to do that though, I've never been in that situation and I don't know how you still feel about it all. I wouldn't blame you if you hated her and didn't want to interact with her at all. This is just my two cents on how I think I'd react if I were in this situation anyway, but I guess you never know what you'd really do until you're there. <cite>LJRENEGADE posted [p:903118310] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>I can't see the clip, but I'm assuming its just some reaction video. Probably a dick a move, but its not that bad and given the circumstances, I wouldn't hold it against you. She was selfish and treated you like shit, so I wouldn't feel much sympathy toward her either. If I were you, I'd try to not hold a grudge against her. Not for her, but for you. You don't wanna hold onto those kind of feelings. Hell, I'd try, or at least I think I'd try, talking to her and forgiving her. Not staying friends or staying talking or anything like that, just enough to maybe get some sort of closure. To end it all as nicely as still possible. I won't tell you to do that though, I've never been in that situation and I don't know how you still feel about it all. I wouldn't blame you if you hated her and didn't want to interact with her at all. This is just my two cents on how I think I'd react if I were in this situation anyway, but I guess you never know what you'd really do until you're there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 06/12/18 8:45:08 PM #40:	I would have just told her that sucks but it's not my problem. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:903118612] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>I would have just told her that sucks but it's not my problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TeaMilk 06/12/18 8:57:41 PM #41:	I feel like it was unnecessarily cruel tbh. Yeah you certainly don't owe her anything, but I can't imagine having so little empathy for someone in her situation, even if she had wronged you in the past. I can't believe so many people are commending you for this. --- 3DS: 3093-7075-8544 <cite>TeaMilk posted [p:903119648] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>I feel like it was unnecessarily cruel tbh. Yeah you certainly don't owe her anything, but I can't imagine having so little empathy for someone in her situation, even if she had wronged you in the past. I can't believe so many people are commending you for this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KlRBEH 06/12/18 9:00:07 PM #42:	What the hell is that site --- https://imgur.com/fUaBI I NEEDUH MONSTA TA CLOBBA DAT DERE KIRBEH <cite>KlRBEH posted [p:903119835] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>What the hell is that site</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 06/12/18 9:19:45 PM #43:	LJRENEGADE posted... try, talking to her and forgiving her. Lol, no. You know you can move on and stop caring about someone without forgiving them, right? He has closure, he told her to gtfo and found a new woman in his life. End of. TeaMilk posted... I feel like it was unnecessarily cruel tbh. Yeah you certainly don't owe her anything, but I can't imagine having so little empathy for someone in her situation, even if she had wronged you in the past. I can't believe so many people are commending you for this. Why should he have empathy for someone who treated him like shit? I personally wouldn't. The women in my life who my relationships ended, I blocked and deleted them from everything. I don't hate them, no relationships ended on bad terms, and if I ever saw them in public, I'd say hi. But once it ends, especially if someone cheats on you, the best thing isn't to harbour grudges, but rather completely remove them from your life. And if they try some sob story with you about how they fucked up, laugh at them and then block their new number. --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:903121351] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>LJRENEGADE posted...</cite> <quote>try, talking to her and forgiving her.</quote> Lol, no. You know you can move on and stop caring about someone without forgiving them, right? He has closure, he told her to gtfo and found a new woman in his life. End of. <cite>TeaMilk posted...</cite> <quote>I feel like it was unnecessarily cruel tbh. Yeah you certainly don't owe her anything, but I can't imagine having so little empathy for someone in her situation, even if she had wronged you in the past. I can't believe so many people are commending you for this.</quote> Why should he have empathy for someone who treated him like shit? I personally wouldn't. The women in my life who my relationships ended, I blocked and deleted them from everything. I don't hate them, no relationships ended on bad terms, and if I ever saw them in public, I'd say hi. But once it ends, especially if someone cheats on you, the best thing isn't to harbour grudges, but rather completely remove them from your life. And if they try some sob story with you about how they fucked up, laugh at them and then block their new number.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LJRENEGADE 06/12/18 9:38:05 PM #44:	DavidWong posted... LJRENEGADE posted... try, talking to her and forgiving her. Lol, no. You know you can move on and stop caring about someone without forgiving them, right? He has closure, he told her to gtfo and found a new woman in his life. End of. True, I'm just saying that's how I personally would like for it to end if it were me. No grudges, bad blood, anything negative on my end really. Just a clean end to wash my hands of it all. <cite>LJRENEGADE posted [p:903122783] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>DavidWong posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LJRENEGADE posted...</cite> <quote>try, talking to her and forgiving her.</quote> Lol, no. You know you can move on and stop caring about someone without forgiving them, right? He has closure, he told her to gtfo and found a new woman in his life. End of.</quote> True, I'm just saying that's how I personally would like for it to end if it were me. No grudges, bad blood, anything negative on my end really. Just a clean end to wash my hands of it all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 06/13/18 12:50:36 AM #45:	Peter_Giffyndor posted... thronedfire2 posted... someone married you? Yes, your mother and I were very happy for a time HEEEYYYYOOOO Nah my mom has been married a lot longer than you were --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:903136017] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>Peter_Giffyndor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote>someone married you?</quote> Yes, your mother and I were very happy for a time HEEEYYYYOOOO</quote> Nah my mom has been married a lot longer than you were</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoriIIa 06/13/18 12:55:44 AM #46:	Never been in this situation but if shes going through/at risk of domestic abuse it might be a serious situation, no? Shes still a bitch for fucking you over, dont get me wrong, but yikes at this other dude. --- f*** dean spanos <cite>GoriIIa posted [p:903136295] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>Never been in this situation but if shes going through/at risk of domestic abuse it might be a serious situation, no? Shes still a bitch for fucking you over, dont get me wrong, but yikes at this other dude.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pharrell3 06/13/18 3:38:58 AM #47:	I iz doge this topic wow --- Doge <cite>Pharrell3 posted [p:903142683] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote>I iz doge this topic wow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eggcorn 06/13/18 3:45:28 AM #48:	-Gavirulax- posted... Would have done the same thing honestly. OEIO999 posted... Very much so, you have maintained your man card. Much respect. glitteringfairy posted... You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch. all these etc... --- Warning: This post may contain triggering or distressing content. <cite>eggcorn posted [p:903142902] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>-Gavirulax- posted...</cite> <quote>Would have done the same thing honestly.</quote> <cite>OEIO999 posted...</cite> <quote>Very much so, you have maintained your man card. Much respect.</quote> <cite>glitteringfairy posted...</cite> <quote>You're terrible for using whatever that site is. But no, you're justified. Fuck that bitch.</quote> all these etc...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Panthera 06/13/18 4:24:08 AM #49:	GoriIIa posted... Never been in this situation but if shes going through/at risk of domestic abuse it might be a serious situation, no? Shes still a bitch for fucking you over, dont get me wrong, but yikes at this other dude. The other dude is a dick for cheating yeah but from the way the TC describes events, she's not saying he did anything physical to her until after she already hit him --- Meow! <cite>Panthera posted [p:903144032] in Am I terri... [t:76705479]...</cite> <quote><cite>GoriIIa posted...</cite> <quote>Never been in this situation but if shes going through/at risk of domestic abuse it might be a serious situation, no? Shes still a bitch for fucking you over, dont get me wrong, but yikes at this other dude.</quote> The other dude is a dick for cheating yeah but from the way the TC describes events, she's not saying he did anything physical to her until after she already hit him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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