Poll of the Day > Going on a date to the movies tomorrow.

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It's our third date. What do? Isn't this the date when you ask to seal the deal and become boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm not good at this sort of thing, I'm physically handicapped and have severe social anxiety because of it. What if she just feels bad for me?

pull the old dick in the popcorn bucket trick. works every time

LaggnFragnLarry posted...

pull the old dick in the popcorn bucket trick. works every time

Trick? I prefer buttery surprise
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LaggnFragnLarry posted...

pull the old dick in the popcorn bucket trick. works every time

Some of us just think it feels good. And we do it when seeing a movie solo.
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movie theater popcorn butter makes an excellent lubricant

Stop overthinking. If you make a wrong move she will let you know. Just be genuine and if you like her and enjoy spending time with her, let her know that.

I wouldnt worry about any kind of date timeline, that stuff will just put pressure on you. Probably better just to enjoy yourselves and do what feels right at the time.

As for her feeling sorry for you, that sounds like insecurity talking. I dont know your situation but casting that kind of doubt on yourself might be a bigger obstacle than your physical condition. Most women arent known for dating guys out of pity.
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TBH, she probably wouldn't go on a third date with you if she didn't like you (assuming those were actual dates).

If you want her to be your gf, ask her to be your gf. You miss all the shots you don't take, so take a shot! Good luck!

green dragon posted...

If you want her to be your gf, ask her to be your gf. You miss all the shots you don't take, so take a shot! Good luck!

but I really like her and if she's not into me then I would still want to be friends with her. I don't want to weird her out and ask her out if she doesn't like me.

What's your disability?
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Andromicus posted...

What's your disability?

He is also physically disabled with anxiety.
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

green dragon posted...

If you want her to be your gf, ask her to be your gf. You miss all the shots you don't take, so take a shot! Good luck!

but I really like her and if she's not into me then I would still want to be friends with her. I don't want to weird her out and ask her out if she doesn't like me.

I'm not trying to be rude, but are these actual dates or are you just hanging out as friends?

It was a good time but I think I might just like her as a friend.

Sometimes, you just have to be direct. Maybe you could ask her, I guess...
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I don't care what women look like really as long as they don't leave me for being a no life loser

RoboXgp89 posted...

I don't care what women look like really as long as they don't leave me for being a no life loser

Lol
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Well, if the girl is really interested in you and wants to take it further, she'll let you know

If not, then she'll stop calling/txting so frequently and eventually hang you out to dry

... dont know how friends would work, but the ball is in her court
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Probably the worst place to do that since you can't really talk. Movies are awful for dates when you're new.
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zebatov posted...

Probably the worst place to do that since you can't really talk. Movies are awful for dates when you're new.

This is true. Dinner is usually pretty good, though. It's a great place to get to know someone better. Or even going on a nice walk. Something where you can still talk and stuff.
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