Current Events > So a MANCHILD is where a GIRL complains they can't find their PERFECT GUY?

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https://www.bustle.com/articles/144509-9-things-i-learned-from-dating-a-man-child

WTF is this shit, a guy cant do guy stuff no more?

I always thought manchild where guys that still like kids toys and shit
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A manchild is just a flavorful insult for a guy who is heavily immature.

I don't usually read these types of articles, but it seems mostly accurate.
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SpinKirby posted...

A manchild is just a flavorful insult for a guy who is heavily immature.

I don't usually read these types of articles, but it seems mostly accurate.

Immature is fun, cant contain yourself or youll end up depressed. Well looking at all my friends
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SaccharineSmile posted...

MANCHILD GIRL PERFECT GUY

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SaccharineSmile posted...

SpinKirby posted...

A manchild is just a flavorful insult for a guy who is heavily immature.

I don't usually read these types of articles, but it seems mostly accurate.

Immature is fun, cant contain yourself or youll end up depressed. Well looking at all my friends

Different strokes for different folks.
I've met some anti-fun people, and I've met some wild childs.

I'd always recommend you find a nice balance!
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terrible woman writer being dumb and sexist, more news at 11.

Le__seul_dieu__ posted...

terrible woman writer being dumb and sexist, more news at 11.

Actually yeah...

Like practically all of those points are also issues with immature women.

#4 is just pretentious.
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Not only did none of the man child dudes that Ive dated didnt own a single proper suit

what
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What would the reaction be if a male publican did this for women.

Heck is there even a world for women that is equal to manchild?
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From the author of such credible articles as "The one sex toy you'll love based on your zodiac sign".
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Esrac posted...

From the author of such credible articles as "The one sex toy you'll love based on your zodiac sign".

There are so many people who write crap like this and just keep asking myself HOW. She talks about them not having jobs but she gets paid to do this mess. If I didn't like like a parrot trying to learn to speak. I would try to get a job pushing out this bullshit.

I would get bank with articles such as this...

Men Suck let me tell you how.
Domestic Violence against males; How the patriarchy makes women abuse people.
Shut up and listen dumb man.
Mansplaining 2.0 (Sometimes when you are right you still need to shut up)
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cjsdowg posted...

What would the reaction be if a male publican did this for women.

Heck is there even a world for women that is equal to manchild?

Pillow (princess) almost works, but immature women are often just thots.
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who cares she's an ugly feminist imagine having to live with her poor guy

Ok so now you tell me immature is fun. damn I'm going to play some DOOM.
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so despite what these hipster feminist types say, they still deep down want a masculine breadwinner type.
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See, I'd understand if this was one relationship and she had no idea what she was going into. But 3 relationships. THREE RELATIONSHIPS. One of which she ended up getting married in. And you mean to tell me that in NOT ONE of those relationships did you recognize traits to avoid getting into a situation like this? This is the height of stupidity. At some point you need to do some self-reflection and assess what you want and how to get it. If you're looking for a person in a relationship, think about what kind of person you want and what kind of traits they would have to be that ideal person. If you want a guy who's not always bloody broke, why would you go after a broke artist? You expect him to make it big by your sheer presence? How the **** does that make any sense? If your standards for dating a guy is A) be cute/hot/attractive and B) give you sex, realize there's an ocean of guys out there that meet that criteria, you're taking a gamble and will probably end up with the bare minimum.

What angers me most about this post is that she still won't be able to tell a "manchild" from a "man" until after she sleeps with them. She acknowledges that they don't care about her needs, but she can't put 2 and 2 together to see that sleeping with these so called "manchildren" will perpetuate their mindset. These guys don't need much to be happy. Just some booze, sex, and someone to take care of them. They're not looking for a strong emotional bond. So it's no big deal to them if she sleeps with them but says "Oh, I don't want to be in a relationship with you, you're not man enough for me!". Good, that's how they want it. No strings attached.

Yes, I'm ranting, I'm salty, or whatever, but I keep hearing stories like these from my female friends. What it appears to me is that they're looking for traits of good, well kept together guys, looking for ambition in other blokes who are complacent in low effort lifestyles. It doesn't work that way. People only change when they have to. You might say having a kid would change someone, but that's only if the kid's well being, is dependent on the person.

I had a friend who essentially shot herself in the foot by being too independent and having a kid with a guy who's more than likely depressed, struggling to find a job if he was even trying (probably gave up on his dreams), and living back at home. She did everything on her own, finding a place for her to stay to raise her kid, landing a job in her field that she wanted, she has life completely downpact, but when she realized that she needed to integrate the father into the kid's life, it was practically impossible. He wouldn't do anything unless she specifically instructed him to, never took the initiative at any time. Even when she made a daily calendar update on his phone to remind him to give the kid a call on the iPad, he never did it unless she called him up to talk to her. It got to the point where she gave up trying to train him to be a father.

I'm digressing but the point is, you can complain and rant, but you still need to take steps in the right direction if you want achieve a goal or solution. Placing the blame on others isn't going to get you anywhere and there's always room for self-improvement.
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it just reads like another stupid Cosmo or Teen Vogue article

don't bust your prostate over it

none of this seems all that unreasonable to me
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Thats why, I dont care how cute, charming, or amazing the next guy I meet is in bed, if hes a man child, I'm walking away. Actually, I take that back I'm running away. And I never run... unless I know there's pizza at the finish line.

land whale alert
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manchilds that land a girl are just incels who got lucky.
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honestly if you post a garbage clickbait top whatever list with unrelated gifs you are basically suhuman
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catboy0_0 posted...

none of this seems all that unreasonable to me

I guess the negative reactions are because of how sexist it comes off as