Current Events > What's it mean when a girl criticizes/nags you a lot out of nowhere?

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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 8:49:26 AM
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Because to me it seems like it means she's an asshole and insecure.

Some girl that I (used to) get along with, decent friends, she turned me down, I tried to back away, she keeps coming to me, but she fucking keeps criticizing me like some naggy ass GF. Keeps trying to argue, keeps thinking that everything I'm saying is an attack towards her, thinks my hobbies/way of thinking are detrimental, sassy as fuck, put me in a lot of 'damned if i do, damned if i dont' situations.

This is the second girl this has happened to me and it's fucking dumb. I called her out on it and she did stop, but man, it is so annoying. Last girl did it too and even after I asked her to stop, she eventually did it again, so I just stopped hanging out with her.
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Fin_Dawg_004
07/18/18 8:50:57 AM
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cool
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Squall28
07/18/18 8:52:22 AM
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Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.
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KillerKhan420
07/18/18 8:52:30 AM
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What does it mean? She wants anal.
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Ryetoast
07/18/18 8:53:56 AM
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I've had that happen when I didnt see the signs that they liked me and failed to make a move <_<.
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DarthWendy
07/18/18 8:54:12 AM
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There is a 12% chance that it is due to sexual tension so you should try to manage to initiate a love-making occurance.
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SSJCAT
07/18/18 8:56:38 AM
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She likes you. But is also probably an over dramatic
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 8:57:52 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.


But she is the one that created the situation for us to hang out yesterday. She asked.

Ryetoast posted...
I've had that happen when I didnt see the signs that they liked me and failed to make a move <_<.


I already tried to make a move and she didn't want to.
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Ryetoast
07/18/18 8:58:32 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Squall28 posted...
Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.


But she is the one that created the situation for us to hang out yesterday. She asked.


Is this the same girl from last week? Make a move..
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 9:01:06 AM
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Ryetoast posted...

Is this the same girl from last week? Make a move..


I already tried before
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Ryetoast
07/18/18 9:03:14 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Ryetoast posted...

Is this the same girl from last week? Make a move..


I already tried before


Then cut her off and ghost her. If she wanted to spend time with you she'd make it, and wouldn't make excuses or cancel plans
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Awesome
07/18/18 9:04:12 AM
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sounds like she wants to bang but wants you to be very aggressive.
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 9:10:25 AM
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Ryetoast posted...
If she wanted to spend time with you she'd make it, and wouldn't make excuses or cancel plans


Bruh try reading the whole topic
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Ryetoast
07/18/18 9:14:42 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Ryetoast posted...
If she wanted to spend time with you she'd make it, and wouldn't make excuses or cancel plans


Bruh try reading the whole topic


I did. She just wants attention.
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 9:32:04 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
I don't think it 'means' anything deeper than what it appears to be on the surface.

I've noticed that those who nag a lot were raised that way. So, it's likely a trait they inherited from a parent and may not even know they are doing it.


Yeah but most people don't do that out of the blue, or like, go after your character and stuff. Especially your friends
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Darkman124
07/18/18 9:34:26 AM
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not much to say here except 'stop agreeing to see her'
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Kineth
07/18/18 9:38:59 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Squall28 posted...
Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.


But she is the one that created the situation for us to hang out yesterday. She asked.


Then ask her why she wants to hang out if she thinks so little of you, given her criticisms.
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 1:09:49 PM
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Kineth posted...
Master Kazuya posted...
Squall28 posted...
Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.


But she is the one that created the situation for us to hang out yesterday. She asked.


Then ask her why she wants to hang out if she thinks so little of you, given her criticisms.


She says she genuinely enjoys my company.

Darkman124 posted...
not much to say here except 'stop agreeing to see her'


We work together in the summer, I was planning to just ride it out until then
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BlueJester007
07/18/18 1:10:50 PM
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She just needs a good fuck.
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Kineth
07/18/18 1:18:26 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Kineth posted...
Master Kazuya posted...
Squall28 posted...
Maybe she's fed up with you. I'm not a girl, but once I lose patience with someone, I tend to just let them have it with no filter.


But she is the one that created the situation for us to hang out yesterday. She asked.


Then ask her why she wants to hang out if she thinks so little of you, given her criticisms.


She says she genuinely enjoys my company.


Ask her to say what she likes?

It's possible that she might be trying to help you out and you're taking it the wrong way by not truly engaging what she's saying and defending your position.
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Master Kazuya
07/18/18 8:33:28 PM
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Kineth posted...

Ask her to say what she likes?

It's possible that she might be trying to help you out and you're taking it the wrong way by not truly engaging what she's saying and defending your position.


Nah I know the difference between constructive criticism and just straight up criticism.
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Kineth
07/19/18 6:35:01 AM
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She might just want you to bark back so it'll turn her on.
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Master Kazuya
07/20/18 10:59:35 PM
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Update:

Today, when we left, she was like "I would say bye to you but I know you don't want to hear it". So I just didn't react. Then she texted me saying that I'm SO moody. I said, idk what that means. She's like, some days you're my friend, other days you ignore me. I was just like, uh ok.

I think she's just mad that I'm naturally losing interest. Especially with these two events now. Now I'm taking shit like a boyfriend but not getting any of the rewards.
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catboy0_0
07/20/18 11:03:31 PM
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just don't text her at all for a couple days to a week and see if she apologizes
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Master Kazuya
07/20/18 11:06:46 PM
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catboy0_0 posted...
just don't text her at all for a couple days to a week and see if she apologizes


I never initiate texts with her, just if she says something, and then I never say the last word.
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