Current Events > Girl I'm about to start dating is 21 and I'm 24 in a few months...

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... idk why I feel some type of way about it...is that age gap okay? I've been in 3 other relationships and the girl was always within 1 year

way too young for you ewwwww
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21 would be the lowest i would go at that age but no ones going to judge you for it lol
edit: except that guy^ lol
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She's too old. try to find something a bit younger so you'll get more use out of it. Find a 19 year old.
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There's nothing wrong with a near 24-year old and a 21-year old dating.
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Ugh, TC is another one of them predators. Tag him asap.
Yuck :[
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My thought is that as long as you're both out of highschool, anything within 5 years is fine.
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nineknives

More like pedoknives
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Infinite 2003 posted...

nineknives

More like pedoknives

Burn him at the stake!
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pics

nineknives posted...

... idk why I feel some type of way about it...is that age gap okay? I've been in 3 other relationships and the girl was always within 1 year

3 year difference is nothing dont worry about it go for it
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That's so fucked up you should seriously consider counseling. Don't do any more than a 6 month age gap!


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3 years is nothing. I'm a 31 year old dating a 21 year old
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24/2 + 7= 19 youre good buddy
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Christian RULES posted...

3 years is nothing. I'm a 31 year old dating a 21 year old

I think I'm going to pass out -_-
I had no idea CE was a literal MONSTER den.
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ok thank you. guess it's ok

21 is about how low I'd at at 24 but that's not a bad age gap or anything
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You would not survive at a college university if you're stressing over a 21 year old.
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Really depends on the girl. Last relationship that I was in had only a 4 year age gap (22 and 26) and it was like I was dating someone three generations removed.

Morally though, nothing wrong with it.
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pokedude900 posted...

My thought is that as long as you're both out of highschool, anything within 5 years is fine.

if your out of highschool, literally anything is ok as long as both are out of highschool. when you become an adult, you can date anyone. age gaps are only for teenagers. the differences in maturity slow down and stop being relevent after a certain age. a 14 year old should not date an 18 year old. but a 20 year old can date a 40 year old if they want. or a 35 year old dating a 62 year old. it opens up and you can do anything. only kids care about age gaps

I think one of my grandparents was

grandma 18
grandpa 30

when they met. if they had followed your rules I wouldnt exist

Christian RULES posted...

3 years is nothing. I'm a 31 year old dating a 21 year old

yeah that's close to the age gap I have with my bf

hasn't really created any issues between us. it's almost like people are individuals and shizz wow

That's fine no matter what. TBH you're wasting your youth on a 21 year old. 24 is like the last age it's acceptable to fuck teenagers (17+)

Trust me I hooked up with an 18 year old when I was 26, felt weird man.
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My gf is 21, I'm 27. It's fine.
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I'm 35 and seeing a 23 year old. Not exactly for the intellectual stimulation. When you get older, you'll understand.

I'd bang a hot 21-year-old at any age if (s)he is willing.
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Is this a serious topic?
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Zikten posted...

pokedude900 posted...

My thought is that as long as you're both out of highschool, anything within 5 years is fine.

if your out of highschool, literally anything is ok as long as both are out of highschool. when you become an adult, you can date anyone. age gaps are only for teenagers. the differences in maturity slow down and stop being relevent after a certain age. a 14 year old should not date an 18 year old. but a 20 year old can date a 40 year old if they want. or a 35 year old dating a 62 year old. it opens up and you can do anything. only kids care about age gaps

I think one of my grandparents was

grandma 18
grandpa 30

when they met. if they had followed your rules I wouldnt exist

Me: 29
Wife: 18

When we first met and started dating. Been together nearly 4 years and have no complaints whatsoever.
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nineknives posted...

... idk why I feel some type of way about it...is that age gap okay? I've been in 3 other relationships and the girl was always within 1 year

eh. maturity gaps are big from early-late 20's but your range is fine.
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I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.
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You're both old enough to drink, have probably been working or in college for a few years and have bills to pay. You're also far enough outside of high school that it isn't really an issue. Totally fine age difference.
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Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens
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gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.
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wow, not even /pol/ or breitbart is this conservative/dogmatic, you guys sure take the cake in the incel awards

My girl just turned 22 and I am 32.
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MetalGearRiki posted...

24/2 + 7= 19 youre good buddy

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I don't date anyone born more than a day apart from me.
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Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

Congratulations on the engagement.
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Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.
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Flockaveli posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

Congratulations on the engagement.

Thank you. :)
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gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.

Because every successful relationship starts out when both individual are in the same exact place in life. Love the armchair relationship experts on CE.
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ChainedRedone posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.

Because every successful relationship starts out when both individual are in the same exact place in life. Love the armchair relationship experts on CE.

Nailed it.
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ChainedRedone posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.

Because every successful relationship starts out when both individual are in the same exact place in life. Love the armchair relationship experts on CE.

Lol exactly

ChainedRedone posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.

Because every successful relationship starts out when both individual are in the same exact place in life. Love the armchair relationship experts on CE.

Judging by the fucking shitshow that Pepy's relationship is, it's not unreasonable to be dubious.
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I've done that, it works and doesn't feel weird but there are definitely moments where I'd talk about something and she'd have no clue about it.
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DrizztLink posted...

ChainedRedone posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

I'm 30. My fiancee is 18.

That's disgusting and you should be shunned by your fellow citizens

That's closed-minded.

She's either in high school or just graduated. The place that you're both at in your lives differs and there's zero way that you two are on equal terms in a relationship.

Because every successful relationship starts out when both individual are in the same exact place in life. Love the armchair relationship experts on CE.

Judging by the fucking shitshow that Pepy's relationship is, it's not unreasonable to be dubious.

It's also CE. Grown adults creeping on, and taking advantage of easily manipulated, young women would be about as surprising as waking up and finding out Trump tweeted an angry message or string of messages.
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I would be completely fine with that tbh.

it's stupid that older guys are shamed for going out with younger women.

most guys aren't into grannies
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There's still a good three years of life experience that you have over her, but she's also been out of school for three years and is building herself an adult life. I don't blame you for feeling weird, the gap is still pretty big, but you're both adults and things should be good if you're both chill.
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If she's 18 or older, I literally don't see the issue
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A 3 year difference is not much once puberty is over.