Current Events > got a date with a cute gamer girl. havin second thoughts now cause she has a son

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nn-DMT
09/15/18 7:14:24 AM
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80/80

She seems great. Cute, great interests, unique, similar opinions, seems really into me. I've never wanted to be with someone who has a kid. But, being in my 30's, it doesn't seem easy to come across. I'd never give her a penny for him because I'm a cheap ass.

Getting nervous now and almost ready to cancel. Not sure. What do?
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RchHomieQuanChi
09/15/18 7:20:46 AM
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postbabynames.com
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Chicken_Butt
09/15/18 7:23:26 AM
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Definitely cancel. If you don't want a kid, don't date a single mom. She will do all in her power to make it your kid.
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Reis
09/15/18 7:24:16 AM
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smash and dash
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nn-DMT
09/15/18 7:42:50 AM
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Chicken_Butt posted...
Definitely cancel. If you don't want a kid, don't date a single mom. She will do all in her power to make it your kid.

Are they all like this?

Reis posted...
smash and dash

I feel bad that this has crossed my mind.
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WaterLink
09/15/18 7:47:32 AM
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If you don't want to be with someone with a kid, just let her know nicely, or tell her you don't want anything serious and if that's what she's looking for tell her you don't want to waste either of your time. She'll respect your honesty. Maybe she'll be down to just be gaming buddies, maybe even with benefits if you play your cards right.
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Fossil
09/15/18 7:49:21 AM
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nn-DMT posted...
Are they all like this?

No but there's a high possibility that she expects you to be a part of his life eventually. Since kids are the "LIFE AND SOUL" of parents, blah blah
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bulletproofvita
09/15/18 7:50:52 AM
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Just be friends
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bulletproofvita
09/15/18 7:51:21 AM
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Fossil posted...
nn-DMT posted...
Are they all like this?

No but there's a high possibility that she expects you to be a part of his life eventually. Since kids are the "LIFE AND SOUL" of parents, blah blah

Blah de dah indeed
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nn-DMT
09/15/18 7:51:42 AM
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WaterLink posted...
If you don't want to be with someone with a kid, just let her know nicely, or tell her you don't want anything serious and if that's what she's looking for tell her you don't want to waste either of your time. She'll respect your honesty. Maybe she'll be down to just be gaming buddies, maybe even with benefits if you play your cards right.

Yeah, I'm worried about bumming her out for losing interest for that reason. Which is ironic because I think women can get anyone they want.
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emblem boy
09/15/18 7:51:57 AM
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How old is the kid

Fossil posted...
nn-DMT posted...
Are they all like this?

No but there's a high possibility that she expects you to be a part of his life eventually. Since kids are the "LIFE AND SOUL" of parents, blah blah


If it became a serious relationship and eventually marriage, no shit she would want that.
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Agnostic420
09/15/18 7:57:39 AM
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emblem boy posted...
How old is the kid

Fossil posted...
nn-DMT posted...
Are they all like this?

No but there's a high possibility that she expects you to be a part of his life eventually. Since kids are the "LIFE AND SOUL" of parents, blah blah


If it became a serious relationship and eventually marriage, no shit she would want that.


Like seriously wtf lol
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nn-DMT
09/15/18 8:00:31 AM
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emblem boy posted...
How old is the kid

Fossil posted...
nn-DMT posted...
Are they all like this?

No but there's a high possibility that she expects you to be a part of his life eventually. Since kids are the "LIFE AND SOUL" of parents, blah blah


If it became a serious relationship and eventually marriage, no shit she would want that.


I'm actually not sure. We've only been talking for a few days and I haven't asked yet. She said something about him having a sitter while she worked, so probably quite young. She's 32 (so am I) and said she used to be a 'free spirit' but recently gave that life up... probably because of him, so yeah, probably young.

I would never marry anyone but I guess that's true. Most people believe that a developing mind needs parents for a balance or something.

Shame. I don't even play video games anymore but she's been telling me that she can't wait to show me her collection. She's into art, magic the gathering, plays D&D. Before I told her I had no TV, she said she wanted to bring over her ps2 and 'kick my butt' at some games, wants to show me her dragon pictures, teach me magic, etc. She seems fun... but the more I think about having a kid around, it makes me lose interest.
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WaterLink
09/15/18 8:03:01 AM
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Give me her number then
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