Current Events > A 40 year old co-worker wants to date me so bad but she can't take a damn hint

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Jesus this is starting to piss me off. I have ZERO interest in her. Yet she has been trying for over a damn year. Now she asked me to a college homecoming and said she will pay for everything from tickets to food to gas. I still turned her down because I'm not interested. I would rather be at home alone and bored than go to homecoming with her. My coworkers figured out what's happening and I'm being looked at as an ass for not going. "It's free. Why not?" If I go I give her a glimmer of hope. I don't want to do that.

How do I end this year long tirade of hers CE?

EDIT: I'm 28 BTW
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It's not free if you have to spend your time in a place you don't want to be.
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Keep on turning her down. Fuck your coworkers. They cant force you to do jack shit.
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Your coworkers suck. Try to find a mindset where you can enjoy explicitly telling her to fuck off forever. I recommend throwing in something like "And if this continues I have your texts/calls/whatever and I will report it to HR." since she already has shown she doesn't respect your feelings anyway.
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I second mentioning HR to her or going to them. She has been at this for over a YEAR, and the coworkers are pressuring you as well. None of this is right.
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What's so bad about it that she is a nice person. She has been trying me for a year, for some reason my co workers have been trying to set us up to and have been messing with me about this all this time.

Now I don't even talk to her and looking at her pisses me off. Can't even have a regular coworker relationship with her anymore
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masticatingman posted...

Keep on turning her down. f*** your coworkers.

I interpreted this incorrectly.
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BTW, I really like my coworkers overall. They only piss me off with this particular situation. It's like they want to be right so bad about this set up. IDK. We are good friends outside of that though.
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>8 posts in and no one has asked the golden question.

TC... is she hot??
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Something I noticed about coworkers is that they're always gonna want you to date someone in the workplace because they want to be involved in the drama (or basically just feel like a part of your family). They might not realize they're doing it and it doesn't come from a BAD place really but they don't have YOUR interests at heart.
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Tappor posted...

>8 posts in and no one has asked the golden question.

TC... is she hot??

No
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Just say that your gay, problem solved.
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Delta_F14 posted...

Just say that your gay, problem solved.

Then the 53 year old bear in accounting will try to date him
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You need to be direct with her. Tell her that you're simply not interested. She will continue to bother you until you do.
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Tell her you aren't interested and keep association with her low
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Behaviorism posted...

You need to be direct with her. Tell her that you're simply not interested. She will continue to bother you until you do.

Or just bite the bullet and fuck her.

But make sure the sex is so bad that she is just embarrassed for ever wanting to hook up with him
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The gay thing is out the question. There is another girl at work who I really like. We have a ton in common but she has a boyfriend. >_> Got to leave myself as an option for her in the future lol. Dount it will happen but nothing wrong with being prepared. The bad sex thing falls in line with this too. Rumors about me being terrible at sex doesn't benefit me at all
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Smash and pass. Easy
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slimfizzle2 posted...

Behaviorism posted...

You need to be direct with her. Tell her that you're simply not interested. She will continue to bother you until you do.

Or just bite the bullet and fuck her.

But make sure the sex is so bad that she is just embarrassed for ever wanting to hook up with him

On the surface that sounds awesome. But with me too shit happening, you fuck her and leave her, then she can get you jammed up
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Fuck her daughter.

Women in their 40's can still be hot depending if they took care of themselves. Nothing wrong with a little 28-40 action. The only thing that should be holding you back is if you want to become a father. You'd obviously want a much younger woman. She is probably past that point in her life.
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You're gonna end up fucking the 40 year old from behind while imagining it is the unavailable girl you have a crush on.

Either that or you'll do the ol' anger bang. She'll think you're adventurous and outgoing but it'll really just be you trying to plow the annoying out of her.

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Damn I love me some Jan Levison Gould!
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