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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 3:28:18 PM
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I'm uh, asking for a friend
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Kombucha
10/03/18 3:29:00 PM
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teepan95
10/03/18 3:37:17 PM
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That's not a question you'll be able to get a good answer from CE for
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Howl
10/03/18 3:38:08 PM
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Don't ask a woman out more than once. If she rejects you, it's because she's not attracted to you. That won't just magically change with time. Even if you say lose weight and get in shape and ask her out at a later time, you're still just the guy who was fat and unattractive to her before and now you're just trying to impress her. That will never lead to a meaningful relationship.
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Menardii
10/03/18 3:38:28 PM
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It depends on how the girl rejected you. Most of the time, it's a never though.
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VipaGTS
10/03/18 3:39:12 PM
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How did it go the first time? What did you ask her? What was her response? that's pretty important here...
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Tmaster148
10/03/18 3:39:42 PM
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Don't. If they don't accept you the first time there's a basically 0 chance they will if you ask again.
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RebelElite791
10/03/18 3:39:54 PM
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Like for a 2nd date or after she rejected you?
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EpicKingdom_
10/03/18 3:41:59 PM
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10 minutes.
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X-Pac_Heat
10/03/18 3:42:39 PM
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DoomSwell
10/03/18 3:43:34 PM
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Never, if you do, you're a creep.

Stupid women's "logic".
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Solid Snake07
10/03/18 3:44:16 PM
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At least a month
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Menardii
10/03/18 3:44:21 PM
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DoomSwell posted...
Never, if you do, you're a creep.

Stupid women's "logic".

Hell yeah brother. Show those dumb women!!!
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prettyprincess
10/03/18 3:45:07 PM
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10 seconds after a read receipt
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nemu
10/03/18 3:46:23 PM
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Depends on how close you are and how she turned you down. If she's a stranger, never. If she's a coworker or casual acquaintance, probably 3-6 months if it was nice and left room for the future. If it was harsh, then never. If it's someone you've known for years, more frequently might be acceptable as long as it's not a harsh no.
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EpicKingdom_
10/03/18 3:47:29 PM
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If you are dead serious about having another chance.

Figure out why you were denied, then spend months fixing the problem, then get denied again.
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ChainedRedone
10/03/18 3:50:26 PM
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Howl posted...
Don't ask a woman out more than once. If she rejects you, it's because she's not attracted to you. That won't just magically change with time. Even if you say lose weight and get in shape and ask her out at a later time, you're still just the guy who was fat and unattractive to her before and now you're just trying to impress her. That will never lead to a meaningful relationship.


That's not true. Though it is likely. If you think you have a better shot at a later time, just ask her out again . Who gives a fuck?
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EpicKingdom_
10/03/18 4:00:58 PM
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ChainedRedone posted...
Who gives a fuck?


The poor innocent girl.
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catboy0_0
10/03/18 4:02:43 PM
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Solid Snake07 posted...
At least a month

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Uncle Choad
10/03/18 4:03:12 PM
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Kid comes here for dating advice.
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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 4:14:16 PM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Like for a 2nd date or after she rejected you?

the latter

VipaGTS posted...
How did it go the first time? What did you ask her? What was her response? that's pretty important here...

asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime, she said maybe, if not this week then next week (and that "next week" is this current week) and I haven't heard from her about it since then

I don't know for sure if she knew I meant it as a date though, since there are uh, somewhat unique circumstances here

also I know she was/is really busy but she never offered a time or anything, but she's also pretty quiet and all so... not really sure
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The Popo
10/03/18 4:17:24 PM
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EpicKingdom_ posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
Who gives a fuck?


The poor innocent girl.

So long as he isnt hounding her and being an ass about it, asking twice over the span of a few months isnt anything horrible.
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Complete_Idi0t
10/03/18 4:19:54 PM
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No more than 10 seconds, and make sure to add "please respond" right after it
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EpicKingdom_
10/03/18 4:22:25 PM
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The Popo posted...
EpicKingdom_ posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
Who gives a fuck?


The poor innocent girl.

So long as he isnt hounding her and being an ass about it, asking twice over the span of a few months isnt anything horrible.


NO MEANS NO.
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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 4:27:07 PM
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fenderbender321 posted...
I've had girls reject me before, and then later on be all over me. So who knows. Then again, in the later times, I was better looking and acted more chill and stuff.

I did start hitting the gym about 2 weeks ago so maybe in a month or so I'll look good enough to try again

And also get new clothes since that should help
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thronedfire2
10/03/18 4:28:01 PM
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Wait until she has an 18 year old daughter
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VipaGTS
10/03/18 5:11:17 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime, she said maybe, if not this week then next week (and that "next week" is this current week) and I haven't heard from her about it since then

just follow up..she didn't say no. now if she sounds like she's on the fence this time i'd let it mellow out for a bit. continue to be friends, talk every now and then...I will say if you two do end up going out don't dwell so hard on whether its a date or not. it'll put a lot of pressure on you. just have a good time and let anything more than that happen organically...
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Damn_Underscore
10/03/18 5:12:15 PM
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just forget about her dude
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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 5:32:10 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime, she said maybe, if not this week then next week (and that "next week" is this current week) and I haven't heard from her about it since then

just follow up..she didn't say no. now if she sounds like she's on the fence this time i'd let it mellow out for a bit. continue to be friends, talk every now and then...I will say if you two do end up going out don't dwell so hard on whether its a date or not. it'll put a lot of pressure on you. just have a good time and let anything more than that happen organically...

Well she didn't say yes either
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K181
10/03/18 5:33:30 PM
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Life's too short to worry about one person. If someone said no, I just thought fuck it and moved on. No biggie.
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No_U_L7
10/03/18 7:19:01 PM
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if it were a softer rejection try again in a week, if it was a harsher rejection wait a month
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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 8:17:03 PM
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I guess this was softer then

I'll probably wait like 2 weeks
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DarthAragorn
10/03/18 10:04:52 PM
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mariolover2 posted...
Why not meet other girls? Or is this some specific chemistry you feel?

Partially that, partially idk how to do so right now since I'm not in school this semester
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DarthAragorn
10/04/18 12:27:11 AM
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She still smiles and waves at me every day at work and I fucking hate it
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DarthAragorn
10/04/18 1:39:04 PM
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Upon further reflection I think I should just try to forget she exists

but that'll probably change in about 5 hours soooo
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