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andel
10/08/18 2:20:01 PM
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like obviously young kids cry sometimes but people that allow them to throw tantrums and just ignore them in places like resteraunts are just trashy and bad parents. other people have to share a public space and just ignoring a kid disrupting the day of other people deserves scorn tbh
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Lordgold666
10/08/18 2:21:15 PM
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Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out
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andel
10/08/18 2:22:13 PM
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Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public
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a-c-a-b
10/08/18 2:23:10 PM
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I never pulled that kinda shit as a kid cuz I knew I'd get an ass whoopin'.
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Trigg3rH4ppy
10/08/18 2:23:17 PM
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Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

I've never once hit my daughter but I can still put the fear of God in her. I'll throw a mother fucking toy away, that shit hurts way more than an ass beating anyways. I would know, I got the shit beat out of me growing up.

My kid doesn't do this kind of shit very often if at all though, most people our age just aren't willing to put enough time into their kids like they should.
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Howl
10/08/18 2:23:48 PM
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andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.
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andel
10/08/18 2:26:16 PM
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Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

I've never once hit my daughter but I can still put the fear of God in her. I'll throw a mother fucking toy away, that shit hurts way more than an ass beating anyways. I would know, I got the shit beat out of me growing up.

My kid doesn't do this kind of shit very often if at all though, most people our age just aren't willing to put enough time into their kids like they should.


exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.
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Trigg3rH4ppy
10/08/18 2:26:17 PM
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Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.

Bruh I think you know what he meant. I don't think anyone thought he meant McDonald's employees were holding a gun to his head while he's waiting in line and saying "now listen to this little motherfucker cry or I'll blow your McBrains out, motherfucker."
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andel
10/08/18 2:26:36 PM
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Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.


you are a trump shill so your input will be disregarded lol
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Trigg3rH4ppy
10/08/18 2:29:17 PM
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andel posted...
Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

I've never once hit my daughter but I can still put the fear of God in her. I'll throw a mother fucking toy away, that shit hurts way more than an ass beating anyways. I would know, I got the shit beat out of me growing up.

My kid doesn't do this kind of shit very often if at all though, most people our age just aren't willing to put enough time into their kids like they should.


exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

Most parents aren't as dedicated as they should. Hell I smoke weed every day, and was typically seen as a 'bad kid' growing up but my kid is the most well behaved child in her daycare/preK (per the staff) and it's the most expensive place in town so most of the other parents are more well to do than I am. People just suck at raising kids more and more each generation.

It's not hard either. Once you have a kid their needs come before your own. And fucking spend some time with them. Pretty much all these suburban White boy school shooters seem like they got some Freudian mommy issues going on. Maybe our country wouldn't be so fucked if people weren't so focused on themselves.
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AlisLandale
10/08/18 2:29:53 PM
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Its annoying to listen to, and maybe theres a better way to handle it, but the idea is sound enough.

You dont want the kid to get used to getting attention (of any kind) for acting up. You ignore the tantrum to show thats not how you get what you want.

Thats not how I was raised, but the logic makes sense. And as long as the kid isnt destroying the store/restaurant its not terrible
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hockeybub89
10/08/18 2:31:04 PM
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Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.

Hello, recently arrived Martian. I see you are trying to speak the Earth language known as "English". On occasion, humans use words in non-literal ways.

For example, the above human is not saying that children crying in public should be made illegal and that freedom of speech should literally be revoked.

I don't think humans should chew with their mouth open, but I know I can't actually cause governments to pass legislation banning it. I am merely stating how I wish some people would behave.
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Howl
10/08/18 2:31:42 PM
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andel posted...
Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.


you are a trump shill so your input will be disregarded lol


Where do people even get the idea that I'm a Trump supporter from? I talk shit about him here all the time.
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SaithSayer
10/08/18 2:32:14 PM
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Some kids couldn't give a fuck if you get rid of one of their toys. They'll shrug it off and play with something else. Take all the toys away? They'll treat some random object like a toy.
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hockeybub89
10/08/18 2:33:31 PM
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AlisLandale posted...
Its annoying to listen to, and maybe theres a better way to handle it, but the idea is sound enough.

You dont want the kid to get used to getting attention (of any kind) for acting up. You ignore the tantrum to show thats not how you get what you want.

Thats not how I was raised, but the logic makes sense. And as long as the kid isnt destroying the store/restaurant its not terrible

You're also teaching them to have no regard for other people, continuing the trash cycle.
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andel
10/08/18 2:34:05 PM
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Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
andel posted...
Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

I've never once hit my daughter but I can still put the fear of God in her. I'll throw a mother fucking toy away, that shit hurts way more than an ass beating anyways. I would know, I got the shit beat out of me growing up.

My kid doesn't do this kind of shit very often if at all though, most people our age just aren't willing to put enough time into their kids like they should.


exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

Most parents aren't as dedicated as they should. Hell I smoke weed every day, and was typically seen as a 'bad kid' growing up but my kid is the most well behaved child in her daycare/preK (per the staff) and it's the most expensive place in town so most of the other parents are more well to do than I am. People just suck at raising kids more and more each generation.

It's not hard either. Once you have a kid their needs come before your own. And fucking spend some time with them. Pretty much all these suburban White boy school shooters seem like they got some Freudian mommy issues going on. Maybe our country wouldn't be so fucked if people weren't so focused on themselves.


yep. i wish more people had this mentality
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VipaGTS
10/08/18 2:35:01 PM
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Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

Dumb statement. you don't have to hit the child in the restaurant. take him or her outside and let the tantrum happen out there. don't sit in the restaurant and ruin everyone else's time. don't continue to shop and ignore the child. Be a fuckin parent.
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Trigg3rH4ppy
10/08/18 2:35:10 PM
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Howl posted...
andel posted...
Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.


you are a trump shill so your input will be disregarded lol


Where do people even get the idea that I'm a Trump supporter from? I talk shit about him here all the time.

I'll vouch for you, I've definitely seen you trash Trump before. I think it's because people think you're hoth and he usually trolls about Pro-Trump stuff since it's an easy way to get a ride out of people. Hell I did it for a while in 2016 until he won the primaries and I was like "oh fuck what have I contributed to"
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CyricZ
10/08/18 2:35:24 PM
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I will honestly say Howl has been civil to talk to for like the last week and it's freaking me out a bit, but I'll take it.

For myself if I'm out with my nieces, there are some places I will let them tire themselves out and some I will remove them from the area. Restaurants, for example, I won't subject everyone else to that.
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andel
10/08/18 2:53:00 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

Dumb statement. you don't have to hit the child in the restaurant. take him or her outside and let the tantrum happen out there. don't sit in the restaurant and ruin everyone else's time. don't continue to shop and ignore the child. Be a fuckin parent.


exactly this. i don't condone hitting a kid but there are other ways to discipline them and them blatantly not listening to the parent is a sign that they dont respect the parent, which points to poor parenting
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SaithSayer
10/08/18 2:56:03 PM
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There's a difference between busting your kid's ass to discipline and doing it to get out your frustrations.
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EdgeMaster
10/08/18 4:32:09 PM
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Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.


Lol what they are doing is a public nuisance. Thats like saying its fair game to rob people in public because it isnt a home invasion.

Doesnt matter public or private, no one should be annoyed by a badly behaved child.
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Howl
10/08/18 4:38:02 PM
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EdgeMaster posted...
Howl posted...
andel posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out


i dont agree with beating a kid but some kind of deterrent is necessary to being a parent. i shouldn't have to listen to someone else's badass kid throw a fit in public


What do you mean you shouldn't "have" to? It's literally a public place. You don't have a right to not have to listen to anyone in public, much less not a kid.


Lol what they are doing is a public nuisance. Thats like saying its fair game to rob people in public because it isnt a home invasion.

Doesnt matter public or private, no one should be annoyed by a badly behaved child.


It's not at all like saying that. Robbery is an actual crime because in infringes on another's right to retain their own private property.

You being "annoyed" doesn't infringe on any of your actual rights.
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andel
10/08/18 4:40:01 PM
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someone's bratty kid creating a public disturbance isnt a crime but it is trashy af
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Ultima Dragon
10/08/18 4:44:13 PM
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Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
It's not hard either. Once you have a kid their needs come before your own. And fucking spend some time with them. Pretty much all these suburban White boy school shooters seem like they got some Freudian mommy issues going on. Maybe our country wouldn't be so fucked if people weren't so focused on themselves.


Yes, exactly! I always believed that when you had kids, your partying days are over. Maybe you can still do date night or go out once in a while but the majority of the time you should be focused on spending time with your kids. Teaching them and helping them to grow up right/making sure they have all the tools they need to succeed. So many people I know with kids are still trying to go out partying several times a week like they're a teenager, or they just spend all their time browsing Facebook or playing games or whatever on their phone while their kid runs wild. That's extremely shitty imo.

Actually, I just turned 32 and I haven't had kids yet (or might never) because of the above. I think I might be too selfish and unwilling to dedicate myself to them since I have so many hobbies to sink my time into and I like to travel around a lot. If it ever ends up happening anyway, I know what I need to do.
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Devil_Katt_II
10/08/18 4:44:28 PM
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andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land
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TheOlJollyRoger
10/08/18 4:47:15 PM
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I always presume the kid is on the spectrum and give them leyway. It depends on the parent tho you can see the ones that are trying they look at you with deer in headlight eyes that scream Im sorry. Hard to get angry with that I just try to help.

The ones that put on headphones and stuff and ignore the kid piss me off tho
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andel
10/08/18 4:48:23 PM
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Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land


parents should never bargain that a kid will get a reward for acting in a non bratty way so that doesnt really matter
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Devil_Katt_II
10/08/18 4:49:29 PM
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andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land


parents should never bargain that a kid will get a reward for acting in a non bratty way so that doesnt really matter

why not though? kids need a tangible thing to hold onto to if not religion then something else kidworthy
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andel
10/08/18 4:50:00 PM
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Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land


parents should never bargain that a kid will get a reward for acting in a non bratty way so that doesnt really matter

why not though? kids need a tangible thing to hold onto to if not religion then something else kidworthy


because that isnt good parenting.
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Devil_Katt_II
10/08/18 4:50:34 PM
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andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land


parents should never bargain that a kid will get a reward for acting in a non bratty way so that doesnt really matter

why not though? kids need a tangible thing to hold onto to if not religion then something else kidworthy


because that isnt good parenting.

what IS good parenting then iyo? what should be done in lieu of promises of reward?
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MuayThai85
10/08/18 4:53:44 PM
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AlisLandale posted...
Its annoying to listen to, and maybe theres a better way to handle it, but the idea is sound enough.

You dont want the kid to get used to getting attention (of any kind) for acting up. You ignore the tantrum to show thats not how you get what you want.

Thats not how I was raised, but the logic makes sense. And as long as the kid isnt destroying the store/restaurant its not terrible


This is currently the phase I am in with my 2 year old. Her grandparents spoil the fuck out of her. If they go into a 711 they'll buy her anything she wants just to keep her from crying. We've fought with them over this but they think it's bad to let her cry.

She has been learning pretty quickly that this shit doesn't fly with me and has definitely improved but she is still a 2 year old and 2 year olds throw tantrums when they don't get their way.
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andel
10/08/18 5:18:23 PM
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Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
Devil_Katt_II posted...
andel posted...
exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.

they are poor and can't afford lofty promises of sega genesis or a trip to disney land


parents should never bargain that a kid will get a reward for acting in a non bratty way so that doesnt really matter

why not though? kids need a tangible thing to hold onto to if not religion then something else kidworthy


because that isnt good parenting.

what IS good parenting then iyo? what should be done in lieu of promises of reward?


as previously stated itt people should spend time with their kids and actually parent to garner respect. if you have to bribe your kids not to be brats that is just poor parenting and bratty kids become bratty adults
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MuayThai85
10/08/18 5:19:35 PM
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What's your excuse then?
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gatorsPENSbucs
10/08/18 5:23:35 PM
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I used to think this until I had kids. They can go from perfect angels to fuckin, spawns of Satan in a second.

The trashiness is how the parents respond.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
10/08/18 5:30:32 PM
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Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
andel posted...
Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Lordgold666 posted...
Discipline is now considered child abuse, so most parents just tune it out

I've never once hit my daughter but I can still put the fear of God in her. I'll throw a mother fucking toy away, that shit hurts way more than an ass beating anyways. I would know, I got the shit beat out of me growing up.

My kid doesn't do this kind of shit very often if at all though, most people our age just aren't willing to put enough time into their kids like they should.


exactly. it isnt hard to get a kid to respect you as a parent, those that dont are obviously not dedicated parents.


It's not hard either. Once you have a kid their needs come before your own. And fucking spend some time with them.


Exactly... and that is why I don't ever want to have kids lol >_>
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VipaGTS
10/08/18 5:57:00 PM
#37:


gatorsPENSbucs posted...
I used to think this until I had kids. They can go from perfect angels to fuckin, spawns of Satan in a second.

The trashiness is how the parents respond.

Simple. Take the kid outside so it doesnt affect anyone else. If t ruins your day oh well. Thats your problem. Its not my fault your child is crying and you would rather ignore them while Im trying to enjoy my day. Thats your responsibility and we all shouldnt be subject to it. I know that sounds mean or harsh but its just frustrating when parents sit there and just let it happen. If what theyre doing is affecting others you need to remove them from that space. That doesnt mean you need to beat them or scare them into stopping.
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andel
10/08/18 5:59:27 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
gatorsPENSbucs posted...
I used to think this until I had kids. They can go from perfect angels to fuckin, spawns of Satan in a second.

The trashiness is how the parents respond.

Simple. Take the kid outside so it doesnt affect anyone else. If t ruins your day oh well. Thats your problem. Its not my fault your child is crying and you would rather ignore them while Im trying to enjoy my day. Thats your responsibility and we all shouldnt be subject to it. I know that sounds mean or harsh but its just frustrating when parents sit there and just let it happen. If what theyre doing is affecting others you need to remove them from that space. That doesnt mean you need to beat them or scare them into stopping.


bingo. kids do cry and such but that is the responsibility of the person or people that chose to have kids and bring them in public places, or at least it should be
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gatorsPENSbucs
10/08/18 8:12:10 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
gatorsPENSbucs posted...
I used to think this until I had kids. They can go from perfect angels to fuckin, spawns of Satan in a second.

The trashiness is how the parents respond.

Simple. Take the kid outside so it doesnt affect anyone else. If t ruins your day oh well. Thats your problem. Its not my fault your child is crying and you would rather ignore them while Im trying to enjoy my day. Thats your responsibility and we all shouldnt be subject to it. I know that sounds mean or harsh but its just frustrating when parents sit there and just let it happen. If what theyre doing is affecting others you need to remove them from that space. That doesnt mean you need to beat them or scare them into stopping.

Spot on.

Although a little love tap every now and then isnt too bad.
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