Current Events > This girl has liked me for almost 6 years now. What do, CE?

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The_Scarecrow 10/14/18 5:44:08 PM #1:	I met this girl when I was 15 in high school. She was a cute, black girl but kind of loud and obnoxious. I wasn't interested despite her hitting on me all the time. She would tell all her friends about me and whatnot. People said I was crazy for not hooking up with her since she has a fat ass or whatever but I was chasing those white girls at the time. Still am. Anyways, I see her on campus at the college we attend quite often. She always hugs me and holds my hand if we're walking in the same direction. She looks a little different now compared to high school. She's put on some weight and is sporting a blonde buzz cut. I'm not sure what the best course of action is. She knows I'm not really interested in her. Otherwise, I would have asked her to date me years ago. Plus, I kind of met another girl. We have conflicting schedules but we're trying to set something up like lunch together or even coffee if that's easier. I'm not sure if it'll lead anywhere but I don't want to shoot myself in the foot before anything happens. I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea. Telling her I'm not interested wouldn't amount to anything since she already knows that. Even if I don't let her hold my hand, she will still hug my arm or walk real close to me. I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. What do, CE? --- https://imgur.com/3Iqe55A <cite>The_Scarecrow posted [p:910526112] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>I met this girl when I was 15 in high school. She was a cute, black girl but kind of loud and obnoxious. I wasn't interested despite her hitting on me all the time. She would tell all her friends about me and whatnot. People said I was crazy for not hooking up with her since she has a fat ass or whatever but I was chasing those white girls at the time. Still am. Anyways, I see her on campus at the college we attend quite often. She always hugs me and holds my hand if we're walking in the same direction. She looks a little different now compared to high school. She's put on some weight and is sporting a blonde buzz cut. I'm not sure what the best course of action is. She knows I'm not really interested in her. Otherwise, I would have asked her to date me years ago. Plus, I kind of met another girl. We have conflicting schedules but we're trying to set something up like lunch together or even coffee if that's easier. I'm not sure if it'll lead anywhere but I don't want to shoot myself in the foot before anything happens. I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea. Telling her I'm not interested wouldn't amount to anything since she already knows that. Even if I don't let her hold my hand, she will still hug my arm or walk real close to me. I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. What do, CE?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/14/18 5:53:01 PM #2:	The_Scarecrow posted... I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea Those people are idiots. You having sex with her would put in her head that she has a shot romantically with you. Then she might feel jaded when she realizes you led her on to just have sex. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:910526551] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote>I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea</quote> Those people are idiots. You having sex with her would put in her head that she has a shot romantically with you. Then she might feel jaded when she realizes you led her on to just have sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
0AbsoluteZero0 10/14/18 5:58:09 PM #3:	Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC? --- -The Admirable <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted [p:910526808] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Scarecrow 10/14/18 5:59:19 PM #4:	Lost_All_Senses posted... The_Scarecrow posted... I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea Those people are idiots. You having sex with her would put in her head that she has a shot romantically with you. Then she might feel jaded when she realizes you led her on to just have sex. Yeah, I don't want to lead her on. Plus, it would be wrong of me to do that knowing that she's really interested in me. --- https://imgur.com/3Iqe55A <cite>The_Scarecrow posted [p:910526866] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote>I've been told to pump and dump by other people but she's really interested in me so I don't think that would be a good idea</quote> Those people are idiots. You having sex with her would put in her head that she has a shot romantically with you. Then she might feel jaded when she realizes you led her on to just have sex.</quote> Yeah, I don't want to lead her on. Plus, it would be wrong of me to do that knowing that she's really interested in me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 10/14/18 6:00:54 PM #5:	If she has put on weight between high school and college she is only going to get fatter in the future, ditch her ass ASAP. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:910526963] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>If she has put on weight between high school and college she is only going to get fatter in the future, ditch her ass ASAP.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Notti 10/14/18 6:01:44 PM #6:	The_Scarecrow posted... I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way. --- https://youtube.com/TheYoungTurks https://youtu.be/w8HdOHrc3OQ https://DemocraticUnderground.com/?com=latest_threads https://reddit.com/r/The_Mueller/new <cite>Notti posted [p:910527009] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote> I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. </quote> I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soylentgreen 10/14/18 6:01:56 PM #7:	sounds like its all in your head, quit mistaking her kindness for wanting your penis --- u lookin at the real lib now, wat u gonna do about it, u used to think u owned the street, bring it on, victory is sweet, heres ur receipt, wat u gonna do <cite>soylentgreen posted [p:910527018] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>sounds like its all in your head, quit mistaking her kindness for wanting your penis</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Scarecrow 10/14/18 6:04:38 PM #8:	0AbsoluteZero0 posted... Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC? I found out that she had a boyfriend so I didn't pursue anymore. A few weeks later, a different girl came along and I decided to try the cold approach. Somehow, it worked and I'm very close setting up either lunch or coffee with her. --- https://imgur.com/3Iqe55A <cite>The_Scarecrow posted [p:910527176] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted...</cite> <quote>Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC?</quote> I found out that she had a boyfriend so I didn't pursue anymore. A few weeks later, a different girl came along and I decided to try the cold approach. Somehow, it worked and I'm very close setting up either lunch or coffee with her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Scarecrow 10/14/18 6:07:52 PM #9:	soylentgreen posted... sounds like its all in your head, quit mistaking her kindness for wanting your penis She asked me back in high school if I was okay with her sending nudes to me. Then, she kept asking me to take her to prom. Pretty sure she's interested. --- https://imgur.com/3Iqe55A <cite>The_Scarecrow posted [p:910527351] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>soylentgreen posted...</cite> <quote>sounds like its all in your head, quit mistaking her kindness for wanting your penis</quote> She asked me back in high school if I was okay with her sending nudes to me. Then, she kept asking me to take her to prom. Pretty sure she's interested.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/14/18 6:09:43 PM #10:	Notti posted... The_Scarecrow posted... I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way. This ain't bad. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:910527447] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>Notti posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote> I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. </quote> I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way.</quote> This ain't bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AsucaHayashi 10/14/18 6:11:04 PM #11:	her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd --- http://abload.de/img/pcgamingxtuvt.jpg https://imgur.com/9Yv0R2Z <cite>AsucaHayashi posted [p:910527516] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/14/18 6:13:42 PM #12:	AsucaHayashi posted... her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:910527649] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>AsucaHayashi posted...</cite> <quote>her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd</quote> Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AsucaHayashi 10/14/18 6:17:48 PM #13:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl but it could be! anyways that actually happens in the show? xd --- http://abload.de/img/pcgamingxtuvt.jpg https://imgur.com/9Yv0R2Z <cite>AsucaHayashi posted [p:910527841] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl</quote> but it could be! anyways that actually happens in the show? xd</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
boxington 10/14/18 6:17:57 PM #14:	Lost_All_Senses posted... AsucaHayashi posted... her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl be pretty cool if it was --- b-bb-box <cite>boxington posted [p:910527847] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AsucaHayashi posted...</cite> <quote>her. but do such a bad job at it that she'll immediately lose any feelings she has of you after she realizes what a horrendous lay you are xd</quote> Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl</quote> be pretty cool if it was</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/14/18 6:19:29 PM #15:	AsucaHayashi posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl but it could be! anyways that actually happens in the show? xd Yeah. Except the sexes are reversed. It's the girl trying to get the guy to not look at her sexually --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:910527924] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>AsucaHayashi posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Dudes life isn't an episode of My Name is Earl</quote> but it could be! anyways that actually happens in the show? xd</quote> Yeah. Except the sexes are reversed. It's the girl trying to get the guy to not look at her sexually</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
boxington 10/14/18 6:26:25 PM #16:	yea, Catalina made herself all stinky and gross so that Randy would be turned off after they had sex little did she know that she would find the sex to be amazing --- b-bb-box <cite>boxington posted [p:910528259] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote>yea, Catalina made herself all stinky and gross so that Randy would be turned off after they had sex little did she know that she would find the sex to be amazing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Scarecrow 10/14/18 6:55:50 PM #17:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Notti posted... The_Scarecrow posted... I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way. This ain't bad. I agree. --- https://imgur.com/3Iqe55A <cite>The_Scarecrow posted [p:910529752] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Notti posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote> I can't be going out with this new girl while also having a different girl be all over me. </quote> I don't like being mean to girls that are interested in me but I'm not into them, but what I did in your situation is just keep going as you're going. If this old crush girl tries to act like she owns you in front of the new girl, you're gonna have to scold her a bit in private later. Then explain to new girl that she's an old crush that's been after you for years. Yes, this is gonna cause some turbulence possibly, but I find the whole situation tends to work out better in the long run this way.</quote> This ain't bad.</quote> I agree.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
0AbsoluteZero0 10/14/18 8:28:46 PM #18:	The_Scarecrow posted... 0AbsoluteZero0 posted... Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC? I found out that she had a boyfriend so I didn't pursue anymore. A few weeks later, a different girl came along and I decided to try the cold approach. Somehow, it worked and I'm very close setting up either lunch or coffee with her. Nice man! Id focus on that and ignore this thirsty thot --- -The Admirable <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted [p:910534726] in This girl ... [t:77097628]...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Scarecrow posted...</cite> <quote><cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted...</cite> <quote>Id cut that girl out. She sounds like shed be a headache and it wouldnt be worth hooking up to put up with all that. Whatever happened with the girl from the gym anyway TC?</quote> I found out that she had a boyfriend so I didn't pursue anymore. A few weeks later, a different girl came along and I decided to try the cold approach. Somehow, it worked and I'm very close setting up either lunch or coffee with her.</quote> Nice man! Id focus on that and ignore this thirsty thot</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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