Current Events > This girl I'm interested in wants me to go to church with her.

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Weve been trying to do something together for a while now but our schedules never lined up. She said she would love it if I came to church with her on a Sunday but Im not really a church goer or a religious guy. I actually went to church for the first time yesterday. It was very nice but Im not sure if its for me.

What do? Its a non-denominational church that she goes to.
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I had to go to church with an ex at like 10am, which meant getting up at like 9 to get ready

never again
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I personally wouldn't go. And if you don't like to, you shouldn't either.

If you go that route though, just be aware that it's possible that she might lose interest in you.
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Well you identify whether shes looking for a religious person or not for a close relationship. And this is the perfect opportunity to find out.
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Muffinz0rz posted...

I had to go to church with an ex at like 10am, which meant getting up at like 9 to get ready

never again

Im usually up around 5 am so its not that big of a deal for me.

Twin3Turbo posted...

I personally wouldn't go. And if you don't like to, you shouldn't either.

If you go that route though, just be aware that it's possible that she might lose interest in you.

How would she lose interest?
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The_Scarecrow posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

I had to go to church with an ex at like 10am, which meant getting up at like 9 to get ready

never again

Im usually up around 5 am so its not that big of a deal for me.

Twin3Turbo posted...

I personally wouldn't go. And if you don't like to, you shouldn't either.

If you go that route though, just be aware that it's possible that she might lose interest in you.

How would she lose interest?

I think he's talking about the route of you dabbing on church. In which case she will lose interest as you will be avoiding doing that with her.
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CountDog posted...

Well you identify whether shes looking for a religious person or not for a close relationship. And this is the perfect opportunity to find out.

True.

Megaman50100 posted...

The_Scarecrow posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

I had to go to church with an ex at like 10am, which meant getting up at like 9 to get ready

never again

Im usually up around 5 am so its not that big of a deal for me.

Twin3Turbo posted...

I personally wouldn't go. And if you don't like to, you shouldn't either.

If you go that route though, just be aware that it's possible that she might lose interest in you.

How would she lose interest?

I think he's talking about the route of you dabbing on church. In which case she will lose interest as you will be avoiding doing that with her.

Okay, now I understand.
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You're gonna put in a shitload more work into getting some pussy that'll probably be tight but her performance will be average at best.

The_Scarecrow posted...

How would she lose interest?

Well it's entirely possible that if going to church/religion is this important to her, then she might want those same things to be important to any potential boyfriend/mate.

Considering neither of those things are important to you, it could change the way she sees you. The only way to know is to ask her. All I'm saying is don't be surprised if it's a deal breaker for her though.
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Of course atheist CE will say no

I'm not a big fan of going to church tho. In the Bible, church basically means the community/assembly of Christians. Modern church is that (assembly of Christians), but it's also so organized and regimented that it's lost any spiritual flavor IMO.

But there are at least some priests who have good homilies, so I would go at least once.
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SaithSayer posted...

You're gonna put in a shitload more work into getting some pussy that'll probably be tight but her performance will be average at best.

Eh, shes cute and a nice girl. All Im looking for is a nice girl. If I wanted only pussy, I would hook up with this other girl who has been obsessed with me for years now.
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Perfect opportunity to bargain for sex
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The_Scarecrow posted...

SaithSayer posted...

You're gonna put in a shitload more work into getting some pussy that'll probably be tight but her performance will be average at best.

Eh, shes cute and a nice girl. All Im looking for is a nice girl. If I wanted only pussy, I would hook up with this other girl who has been obsessed with me for years now.

Make sure she's interesting too. It's a shame how many of the nice ones are boring as fuck. Also it sucks when a woman is so hardcore Christian that oral sex is out of the question. Both ways.

EndOfDiscOne posted...

Perfect opportunity to bargain for sex

"I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a piece of ass today!"

SaithSayer posted...

Also it sucks when a woman is so hardcore Christian that oral sex is out of the question. Both ways.

What is the reasoning?
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girls who go to church are cool man
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Megaman50100 posted...

SaithSayer posted...

Also it sucks when a woman is so hardcore Christian that oral sex is out of the question. Both ways.

What is the reasoning?

"Sex is about procreation and you're supposed to be married. Penis into vagina and nothing else!"

Fuck that.

I meant what is the reasoning for procreation only and only PiV per christianity. I understand why marriage, of course.
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Megaman50100 posted...

I meant what is the reasoning for procreation only and only PiV per christianity. I understand why marriage, of course.

Because lust is supposedly bad and fucking is seen as dirty to them.

SaithSayer posted...

Megaman50100 posted...

SaithSayer posted...

Also it sucks when a woman is so hardcore Christian that oral sex is out of the question. Both ways.

What is the reasoning?

"Sex is about procreation and you're supposed to be married. Penis into vagina and nothing else!"

Fuck that.

I only get on my knees for jesus
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Middle hope posted...

SaithSayer posted...

Megaman50100 posted...

SaithSayer posted...

Also it sucks when a woman is so hardcore Christian that oral sex is out of the question. Both ways.

What is the reasoning?

"Sex is about procreation and you're supposed to be married. Penis into vagina and nothing else!"

Fuck that.

I only get on my knees for jesus

I laughed. I don't think I'd be able to stay standing from laughing so hard if I heard a woman say that in a serious tone.

Roxborough4Ever posted...

girls who go to church are cool man

I met a girl last year who went to a Catholic Church. Probably the craziest person Ive ever met.
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Show me a girl wearing 4 crosses, smoking a cig, has a tattoo, and ill show you a girl wholl take two dicks in her ass at the same time
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Serious answer. I'd say keep going if it's the only time you two get to hang out but let her know that you're not religious and never will be (if that's the case). If she understands and isn't upset if you stop going she's worth it. If she gets mad because she was secretly hoping to "save your soul" or convert you then it's time to move on.
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