Current Events > Girl rejects guy on dating site, who proceeds to melt down about it.

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Geez, who summoned the Incel Defense Force
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He's a creep. She's a bitch. Fuck'em both.

Jesus that was so cringy.
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Incels mad as hell itt
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TheRealDill2000 posted...

The guy actually makes some good points here. I don't see why virtually everyone is against him.

Hes probably right about her, but you cant make someone be interested in you by arguing with them, and why even waste your time and energy, there are plenty of other women on tinder. He might have a made a few points but he was pushy and aggressive, and he made himself look pathetic.

pojr posted...

The messages from the dude were bad

The entire setup was bad.

1) She swiped left on tinder
2) He then goes onto a different platform (insta) and pursues her further.
3) She likely shows passive lack of interest at first, which he doesn't catch, and then escalates into outright rejection

I'm more interested in the conversation prior to the screenshots, but point is guy couldn't fathom how or why he was rejected, nor respected her decision. I don't think he was looking for honest feedback.
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She should have just reported him o the police
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solosnake posted...

She should have just reported him o the police

for what?

I'm not defending this guy. I don't even care. but all he did was yell at her online. that's not a crime

Zikten posted...

solosnake posted...

She should have just reported him o the police

for what?

I'm not defending this guy. I don't even care. but all he did was yell at her online. that's not a crime

stalking/harrassment
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What a loser. She has every right to reject his beta ass.
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She's pretty gross looking
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No surprise some of y'all defend him and imply she deserved it
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Also, being on a dating site doesn't equate to being open to any person.
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I'll just leave this here:

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KainFourteh posted...

He's a creep. She's a bitch. Fuck'em both.

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both suck but a conservative estimate would be that he is 1000 times worse
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Jiggy101011 posted...

CuteWhiteChick posted...

MrMallard posted...

Which CEman is this

surely that guy from last week who had a massive meltdown topic over some other guy not talking/playing with him anymore and requiring 'reasons'

@catboy0_0 you have been summoned

there isn't much to say. I thought we were going to be friends then I got rejected and my feelings hurt via ghosting :(
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bobbaaay posted...

Which is arguably as bad as the dude

it's really not
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Dudes who private message her to apologize are thirsty as fuck lol
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Darmik posted...

Dudes who private message her to apologize are thirsty as fuck lol

For real. Shit is so transparent
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I must be a real loser, no one even bothers to respond to me. I say, "Hey, I have an extra ticket to go see Le Miz tonight, would you like to go?" No one even tells me no, I just get nothing. For years, I have never even had a response back and I'm not on there for free, I do pay.
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Bad_Mojo posted...

I must be a real loser, no one even bothers to respond to me. I say, "Hey, I have an extra ticket to go see Le Miz tonight, would you like to go?" No one even tells me no, I just get nothing. For years, I have never even had a response back and I'm not on there for free, I do pay.

the worst is when people don't even say no, because then you have no idea if you're wasting your time with them or not :(
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Bad_Mojo posted...

I must be a real loser, no one even bothers to respond to me. I say, "Hey, I have an extra ticket to go see Le Miz tonight, would you like to go?" No one even tells me no, I just get nothing. For years, I have never even had a response back and I'm not on there for free, I do pay.

you want it too bad
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refmon posted...

you want it too bad

How's that now?
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...

Why does she go on a dating site when it's obvious she doesn't wanna meet people she wants an athlete to make her dreams come true

Just because she is on a dating site doesn't mean she has to say Yes to the first person who comes along.
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It's not that she has to say yes but if you're actually looking then you should see if you're compatible at least.

She isn't look to date, she wants prince charming to show up and make her a princess. Completely unrealistic and fake.
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I don't care for either party
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...

It's not that she has to say yes but if you're actually looking then you should see if you're compatible at least.

She isn't look to date, she wants prince charming to show up and make her a princess. Completely unrealistic and fake.

You seem to have no small amount of insight regarding this. Besides, if that's what she wants, who are you to judge?
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well dammmnnn
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I say this just about every time topics like this appear. I'm so glad that I'm out of the dating game lol. The guy is obviously whack, but there are also too many bitches out there like this girl. "I don't need your respect." That right there is an instant turn-off to me. That's such a basic bitch retort.
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kinetika_ posted...

"I don't need your respect." That right there is an instant turn-off to me. That's such a basic bitch retort.

Exactly.
Being respectable and respected is important, end of story.
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pauIie posted...

bobbaaay posted...

Which is arguably as bad as the dude

it's really not

Exploiting people for online enjoyment of others? yeah. it's shitty.
Digital vigilantism. bringing your dirty laundry to social media.
All super, super shitty.

My absolute hatred of this kind of stuff aside -- exploiting a mentally and emotionally unstable human in this regard is hardly any better than bum fights. At least she didn't post his handle/information from what I can tell.

bobbaaay posted...

pauIie posted...

bobbaaay posted...

Which is arguably as bad as the dude

it's really not

Exploiting people for online enjoyment of others? yeah. it's shitty.
Digital vigilantism. bringing your dirty laundry to social media.
All super, super shitty.

Aren't you being a bit overdramatic? I don't think anyone will go hunt down the dude who has a meme as his display picture.

Dirty laundry is airing out details of an actual personal relationship. This isn't that.
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Like I said - it would've been deplorable had she posted his actual handle and information, and YES people WOULD hunt him down if she did.

In this case there's still a little bit of anonymity on his end, but it's still exploitative.

bobbaaay posted...

Like I said - it would've been deplorable had she posted his actual handle and information, and YES people WOULD hunt him down if she did.

But she didn't...?

bobbaaay posted...

In this case there's still a little bit of anonymity on his end, but it's still exploitative.

Nobody forced or manipulated him into acting like a weirdo on a dating site.
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Darmik posted...

bobbaaay posted...

Like I said - it would've been deplorable had she posted his actual handle and information, and YES people WOULD hunt him down if she did.

But she didn't...?

bobbaaay posted...

In this case there's still a little bit of anonymity on his end, but it's still exploitative.

Nobody forced or manipulated him into acting like a weirdo on a dating site.

Nobody forced her to post their conversation online for others to gawk at?

bobbaaay posted...

Nobody forced her to post their conversation online for others to gawk at?

What?

Who cares? If someone acts like a weirdo towards you do consider it exploitive to share what they said with others?
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hopefully guys like this never do get to have sex because we don't need more moronic hurtful people like this in the world.

When a girl says no you take it like a man and move on. Period. Even if it hurts, act like you don't care. (Without being a total dick) Acting like a man and moving on is the ONLY way she will ever change her mind, and even then she probably won't - but there's a chance. Being aggressive is the biggest turn-off ever, and an almost guaranteed way to lose a girl's interest. Basic female psychology.

She wants what she thinks she can't have. What does that mean you should do? It means you just hang with a girl you like, talk to her (kind of) like a friend and just act cool and casual. Make her laugh, etc. but don't act interested and damn sure don't comment on her looks. Tease her playfully. This is how you get her to develop feelings for you because she'll think you're successful with girls in general and her getting your attention will be a challenge...that means she WANTS YOU!

Once she starts giving you body language hints that she likes you hold off for a short while longer to really get her going, but not too long or she may give up and move on to someone else. Pretty smooth sailing from here on out as long as you don't become needy or bug her constantly.

Demon1050 posted...

When a girl says no you take it like a man and move on. Period. Even if it hurts, act like you don't care. (Without being a total dick) Acting like a man and moving on is the ONLY way she will ever change her mind, and even then she probably won't - but there's a chance. Being aggressive is the biggest turn-off ever, and an almost guaranteed way to lose a girl's interest. Basic female psychology.

Get this reverse psychology garbage out of here

If you talk with a woman and she gives you a chance and decides you're not right for her then you can take it and move on.

But if she acts like you're so beneath her you shouldn't even try then you have the right to give her a piece of your mind
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good lawd, that meltdown is something I'd expect from nickelbro
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...

But if she acts like you're so beneath her you shouldn't even try then you have the right to give her a piece of your mind

No, you move on. If she says "no" without taking it any further, acting like a spoiled child will only make you look bad.
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This seems fake. Like it was planned.
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awesome999 posted...

The funniest part I find is VIRGIN on the top left

Man thats the first thing I saw too Lolol

Not defending the guy but its sort of ironic in the end he turns out to be right, she thinks her pussy is so special and meant for the right special guy but she is on Tinder? Like, cut me a break sheesh. She will end up living alone with cats waiting for the the right guy meanwhile he will probably get married, father children, grandchildren etc and eventually someone in his lingeage will have a profound impact on humanity look at his curiosity and search for answers that something to be admired and not socially shamed.

#thot
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I'm not buying it. She was not attractive and she did not immediately block some random weird creep that literally tracked her ass down across social media and tried harassing his way into a relationship status.
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CyricZ posted...

Geez, who summoned the Incel Defense Force

I'm not entirely certain that I like the fact that you negatively associate the noble and brave men and women of the IDF putting their lives on the line to selflessly defend the country G.od bestowed upon us, with the negative/laughable incel universe.
I GET it's a word play (or rather an initials play), not even an entirely bad one facetiously speaking, but still, I cannot condone :(
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...

It's not that she has to say yes but if you're actually looking then you should see if you're compatible at least.

She isn't look to date, she wants prince charming to show up and make her a princess. Completely unrealistic and fake.

a lot of low tier guys have the same expectations.

They believe they're entitled to the best of the best and shouldn't have to deal with the unattractive "nice" girls
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Demon1050 posted...

When a girl says no you take it like a man and move on. Period. Even if it hurts, act like you don't care. (Without being a total dick) Acting like a man and moving on is the ONLY way she will ever change her mind, and even then she probably won't - but there's a chance. Being aggressive is the biggest turn-off ever, and an almost guaranteed way to lose a girl's interest. Basic female psychology.

She wants what she thinks she can't have. What does that mean you should do? It means you just hang with a girl you like, talk to her (kind of) like a friend and just act cool and casual. Make her laugh, etc. but don't act interested and damn sure don't comment on her looks. Tease her playfully. This is how you get her to develop feelings for you because she'll think you're successful with girls in general and her getting your attention will be a challenge...that means she WANTS YOU!

Once she starts giving you body language hints that she likes you hold off for a short while longer to really get her going, but not too long or she may give up and move on to someone else. Pretty smooth sailing from here on out as long as you don't become needy or bug her constantly.

I concur with the above word-for-word. This method does work. I've had good success with it myself.
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Darmik posted...

bobbaaay posted...

Nobody forced her to post their conversation online for others to gawk at?

What?

Who cares? If someone acts like a weirdo towards you do consider it exploitive to share what they said with others?

In this context and MOST instances online YES

If a girl rejects you just move on.
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