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billcom6
05/13/19 8:46:47 PM
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Feels bad man.

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Solar_Crimson
05/13/19 8:51:48 PM
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I didn't really date anyone during HS until my senior year, and she didn't even go to my school. There certainly were girls that I liked, but I was too shy to do anything about it most of the time (and I got shot down the times I did). Plus, me being Black and those girls being Hispanic probably played a factor, as I never saw any Hispanic girls with Black guys while I was there (I saw White guys with Hispanic ladies, though).
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KillerKhan420
05/13/19 8:53:56 PM
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You missed out on the best years to screw. I'm sorry.
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Hayame Zero
05/13/19 9:07:10 PM
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So go try dating now. I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 33. You'll find out the past isn't as big of a deal once you have something you want in the present.
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toadfan64
05/13/19 9:12:33 PM
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I didn't date anyone in high school either. I went on like 2 dates afterwards, and I haven't gotten serious with anyone until this year at 26.
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Paper_Okami
05/13/19 9:15:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, despite what some people in this society think
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GigaSPX
05/13/19 9:18:57 PM
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Fuck, this is me
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brestugo
05/13/19 9:22:51 PM
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I didn't really date til senior year. Made up for lost time when I got to college though.
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KogaSteelfang
05/13/19 9:23:15 PM
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I missed out on the teens.
I missed out on the twenties.
I'm well on the way to missing my thirties as well.
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Flockaveli
05/13/19 9:25:06 PM
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Incel music.

Disgusting.
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viewmaster_pi
05/13/19 9:25:32 PM
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same
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Guide
05/13/19 9:26:20 PM
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Paper_Okami posted...
Nothing wrong with that, despite what some people in this society think


Depends on what you mean by wrong. It doesn't make him a bad person, nor is he necessarily lacking in capacities, but tc sounds like he considers it wrong for him to have missed out. Perfectly valid reason to feel bad, but it's not the end for love and sex, tc.
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Solid Snake07
05/13/19 9:28:18 PM
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That sucks. I'm far from the type of person that thinks high school and college are the best years of your life but they're definitely the best years to fuck around with girls.

I dunno, everybody was just more naive and ready to go for something even if they may end up regretting it later.

I mean you can still fuck around with younger girls at my age, and I have. But a lot of them are just too fucking stupid to put up with. They were back then too but so was I and I didn't care as much.
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dj1200
05/13/19 9:29:47 PM
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Solid Snake07 posted...
That sucks. I'm far from the type of person that thinks high school and college are the best years of your life but they're definitely the best years to fuck around with girls.

I dunno, everybody was just more naive and ready to go for something even if they may end up regretting it later.

I mean you can still fuck around with younger girls at my age, and I have. But a lot of them are just too fucking stupid to put up with. They were back then too but so was I and I didn't care as much.


There's still a lot of those naive girls. Check out your local bars.
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Solid Snake07
05/13/19 9:32:54 PM
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dj1200 posted...
Solid Snake07 posted...
That sucks. I'm far from the type of person that thinks high school and college are the best years of your life but they're definitely the best years to fuck around with girls.

I dunno, everybody was just more naive and ready to go for something even if they may end up regretting it later.

I mean you can still fuck around with younger girls at my age, and I have. But a lot of them are just too fucking stupid to put up with. They were back then too but so was I and I didn't care as much.


There's still a lot of those naive girls. Check out your local bars.


Well, yeah. Obviously, the biggest change is me. And I don't mean naive as in "I could probably convince this girl to fuck". I mean we were all naive and young and just trying to have fun.
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Aloner
05/13/19 9:37:00 PM
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@hyperpsycho now hates you forever.
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emblem boy
05/13/19 9:38:25 PM
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Same here bro. I enjoyed college, but I definitely did not get that wild college experience. I just wasnt enough of a ladies man.
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DezDroppedFreak
05/13/19 9:44:14 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
Incel music.

Disgusting.

Bro

Dont disrespect Americ anFootball like that
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hyperpsycho
05/13/19 9:44:48 PM
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Aloner posted...
hyperpsycho now hates you forever.

Sorry I called you out.
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No_U_L7
05/13/19 9:45:06 PM
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me neither spent all my time studying engineering, that's why i became a pick up artist after college
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05/13/19 9:47:37 PM
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Mark_DeRosa
05/13/19 9:49:13 PM
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Meh its trash dude. Both parties are inexperienced, no money, barely getting cars around that age, no expectation of privacy
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billcom6
05/13/19 9:51:16 PM
#25:


Godnorgosh posted...
But how are you doing now?

Not any better.

35 and never been in a real relationship.

But I'd rather be sad about the past than the present.
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KogaSteelfang
05/13/19 9:58:14 PM
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billcom6 posted...
Godnorgosh posted...
But how are you doing now?

Not any better.

35 and never been in a real relationship.

But I'd rather be sad about the past than the present.

Hey, we're the same age.
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billcom6
05/13/19 9:58:53 PM
#27:


Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY
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emblem boy
05/13/19 10:00:39 PM
#28:


billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY


Is that a friend or a dating app?
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KogaSteelfang
05/13/19 10:01:41 PM
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billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY

Oh, you did have a relationship once though. :/
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billcom6
05/13/19 10:03:20 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY

Oh, you did have a relationship once though. :/

I hung out with a girl for an extended period of time but she was going through a lot so we were never in a relationship, like I never called her my girlfriend.
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Flockaveli
05/13/19 10:04:22 PM
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DezDroppedFreak posted...
Flockaveli posted...
Incel music.

Disgusting.

Bro

Dont disrespect Americ anFootball like that

Real emo is trash bro I'm gonna listen to Hawthorne Heights.
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masticatingman
05/13/19 10:04:56 PM
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You missed out. Doing horny dumb shit when a teenager is honestly the best time to do it. Been there done that, will never be better.
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Hayame Zero
05/13/19 10:05:15 PM
#33:


billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY


Geez, this is bad. It's not the inexperience that's the issue, it's the lack of confidence about it. I know it sounds difficult to to do, but you have to treat things like this like it's not a big deal. Not having a relationship isn't necessarily a turn-off, but negativity about it is.
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billcom6
05/13/19 10:06:18 PM
#34:


Hayame Zero posted...
billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY


Geez, this is bad. It's not the inexperience that's the issue, it's the lack of confidence about it. I know it sounds difficult to to do, but you have to treat things like this like it's not a big deal. Not having a relationship isn't necessarily a turn-off, but negativity about it is.

I'm not really negative about it. It is what it is, I can't really change the past.
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No_U_L7
05/13/19 10:06:35 PM
#35:


billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.


lmao. you gotta learn how to reframe that better...you're showing tons of insecurity which is more of a turnoff than a lack of relationships
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rexcrk
05/13/19 11:28:59 PM
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Yeah Im 31 and never really been in a real relationship.

Tried of course, but could just never get anywhere. Always just ended up making feel awful.

I think the worst / most frustrating part is the people who always say you just have to be yourself, be confident, but Ive always been myself, never put on an act, etc. and still.. nothing.

So maybe Im just not supposed to be in a relationship? \_()_/
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Paper_Okami
05/14/19 12:18:04 AM
#38:


billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY


pretty assholeish not everyone is like that
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SauI_Goodman
05/14/19 12:19:36 AM
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Young love sucks anyway. Take my word you didn't miss much. Older women generally know what they want and the games are gone.
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bobaban
05/14/19 12:39:36 AM
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Yeah its how you approach it with women and its a numbers game as well. Ive seen older guy, guys with kids, poor guys and ugly guys get girls so it boils down to you. From what Ive observed confidence (fake it) and persistence (initiate more) is what gives you a chance at pussy.

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a_riot04
05/14/19 12:58:19 AM
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Yeah, you're not really missing alot TC. That said it is a nice learning experience to have at your disposal, probably give a nice bit of confidence boost if nothing else.
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Paper_Okami
05/14/19 1:02:49 AM
#43:


Godnorgosh posted...
Paper_Okami posted...
billcom6 posted...
Also, not really having dating experience leads to fun conversations like this.

vgi0ZjY


pretty assholeish not everyone is like that


Yeah, there are people who will judge you for it but there are definitely those who won't, as well. TC's goal is to find someone who understands and accepts him despite the things he can't change (in this case, his past), not to win someone's approval on a false pretense.


Everybody works at their own pace and that's fine nobody knows what each person have been through

As long as you don't become a Misogynistic asshole

who gives a shit

people who do care, are not good people.
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Trigg3rH4ppy
05/14/19 1:02:54 AM
#44:


KillerKhan420 posted...
You missed out on the best years to screw. I'm sorry.

Best years to fuck lots of different girls but I don't think most of it was actually amazing sex. Every girl I fucked that was a virgin or close to it laid there and go ploughed. That's when I just started going for filthy whores because they're fun, dont expect anything after, and know how to ride a dick.

I'm settled down now though. Married sex can be awesome especially when you don't have to pull out.
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Sir Will
05/14/19 1:05:49 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
Incel music.

Disgusting.

Only incel if they blame others. Just not being in a relationship doesn't make you an incel.
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Orlando_Jordan
05/14/19 1:16:48 AM
#46:


Hayame Zero posted...
So go try dating now. I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 33.

lmao, how is this possible?
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kinetika_
05/14/19 1:18:21 AM
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I just don't get how some of you have trouble with girls like this. I'm not a good looking dude, and I'm a loner type that hates small talk, so I even have trouble starting a conversation with a male... yet I get girls that crush on me all the time.
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I4NRulez
05/14/19 1:54:59 AM
#48:


Highschool love was the best love. It was so intense, felt like it would never end, youre constantly flowing with hormones.

Love is different when you're older.
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0xDEFECADE
05/14/19 2:02:35 AM
#49:


KogaSteelfang posted...
I missed out on the teens.
I missed out on the twenties.
I'm well on the way to missing my thirties as well.

same
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Guide
05/14/19 2:10:06 AM
#50:


I4NRulez posted...
Highschool love was the best love. It was so intense, felt like it would never end, youre constantly flowing with hormones.

Love is different when you're older.


It's true, though I don't mind the gradual transmuting process if inherent trust and love.

That kind of fortified, passive, assured love that you'd only otherwise find between mother and child or a dog you've raised, except both parties are sapient for once.
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