Current Events > Is it wrong that I sometimes stare at my straight friend's ass?

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quinntotheflinn
05/14/19 4:07:47 PM
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He workouts at the gym, so he has an amazing butt. He is always wearing jeans or joggers.... and my god, the view is seriously mesmerizing.

Once I had to pretend to tie my shoe because I had a boner >.>
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PROGRAMER2004
05/14/19 4:08:28 PM
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If it's unwanted by him you're technically committing sexual harassment so ask him
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quinntotheflinn
05/14/19 4:09:27 PM
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PROGRAMER2004 posted...
If it's unwanted by him you're technically committing sexual harassment so ask him

Well he knows I'm gay. And he knows he's hot as fuck. I don't think he minds that he's being admired. He knows chicks and dudes are looking at him.
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NeoShadowhen
05/14/19 4:09:55 PM
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How does their orientation factor into this at all?
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Strider102
05/14/19 4:10:35 PM
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Is that you James Charles?
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PROGRAMER2004
05/14/19 4:10:37 PM
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NeoShadowhen posted...
How does their orientation factor into this at all?

Most likely because he'd be uncomfortable in the same way if a straight man did this to a woman at work he'd be fired or have the police called on him if she didn't want it.
There's a reason OP won't ask their friend I think
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quinntotheflinn
05/14/19 4:11:31 PM
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...Also my boyfriend can't know about this >.>
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PROGRAMER2004
05/14/19 4:13:31 PM
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Well if you're lying to your boyfriend, at the very least it's morally wrong and possibly going to cause him to break up with you. So regardless if your friend didn't demand you stop harassing him, you're still wrong morally speaking and risking upsetting one other person.
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Balrog0
05/14/19 4:14:29 PM
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It's not bad, getting a boner from looking at someone's butt in public is odd though IMO. That doesn't happen to me or anyone I know, at least after puberty. But idk
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Giant_Aspirin
05/14/19 4:15:19 PM
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as long as you're respectful about it i dont see a problem.
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thanosibe
05/14/19 4:19:39 PM
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27 You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery.[e] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

I'm kidding mostly. It's just being raised reading the Bible hundreds of times this is the first thing that came to mind. And I'm guilty of it too so .....
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quinntotheflinn
05/14/19 4:20:07 PM
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Thanks guys. I feel better now :)
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lww99
05/14/19 4:23:59 PM
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PROGRAMER2004 posted...
If it's unwanted by him you're technically committing sexual harassment so ask him


?
You wot m8?

Being aroused isnt sexual harassment. Trying to make him touch it or something, would be.
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PROGRAMER2004
05/14/19 4:24:47 PM
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I suppose you're welcome friendo. But do be careful and don't continue it if he says to stop. And make sure you can lie well to your boyfriend, lest he leaves.
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Pogo_Marimo
05/14/19 4:27:52 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. Just make sure you're not doing it in a way that makes him uncomfortable.
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