Current Events > How can anyone possibly stomach someone enough to have sex with them

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God I've changed so much in the past 2 years. This shit disgusts me. Feel like such an outsider as a result. Guess it's time to go back to therapy before I turn into some kinda creep/weirdo
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You might just be asexual. Nothing wrong with that if thats the case.
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I'm not asexual. Or if I am I wasn't a year ago. Sex traumatized me
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Username checks out.
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Anything particular happened during sex to traumatize you (you don't have to get into details if you don't want to), or just the concept of it grosses you out now?
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Pukelid posted...

I'm not asexual. Or if I am I wasn't a year ago. Sex traumatized me

Well, hopefully youre able to get that sorted out. Sorry to hear that, though.
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Banjo2553 posted...

Anything particular happened during sex to traumatize you (you don't have to get into details if you don't want to), or just the concept of it grosses you out now?

Both. I wasn't raped or anything like that so the trauma isn't as severe as it might have sounded
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Was it the smell? The smell can be pretty bad.
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No, it wasn't the smell and it wasn't a one off thing. I had a lot of sex. God I even hate saying it. Why can't I just be some normal Joe like everyone else tho

It's like, I know I'm not asexual because my body can get physically aroused, but in my mind it absolutely disgusts me

I feel your pain brother. My problem though is I don't like fucking the same one all the time. Half of what used to turn me on was the "thrill of the hunt" so to speak.
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Kitt posted...

Was it the smell? The smell can be pretty bad.

I was going to say that one time this turned me off. It was a friends with benefits scenario and afterwards I was like "maybe I don't really like sex." I got over it after a couple of weeks.
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Trigg3rH4ppy posted...

I feel your pain brother. My problem though is I don't like fucking the same one all the time. Half of what used to turn me on was the "thrill of the hunt" so to speak.

I'm married but I get this. My drive started to decrease as soon as I started to feel secure in my relationship.
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Sounds like you have a dead sex drive.
My mother in law was like that from before i met her til she died.
Hers happen because it was a side effect from something she was taking for her bipolar or diabetes.

god it's so disgusting that it motivates so many people to such an insane degree