Current Events > how do i say sorry to people i've mistreated/offen ded/sexua lly harassed 10 ye

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SoundNetwork
07/29/19 4:12:38 AM
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10 years ago
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SaccharineSmile
07/29/19 4:16:01 AM
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I you
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slimjimfizzle
07/29/19 4:17:49 AM
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Are you drunk
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RebelElite791
07/29/19 4:22:36 AM
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Considering TC has had accounts banned and suspended for making creepy topics about little girls and talked about following them home from the bus and taking pictures of them, I find this topic even more disturbing.
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SoundNetwork
07/29/19 4:23:02 AM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Considering TC has had accounts banned and suspended for making creepy topics about little girls and talked about following them home from the bus and taking pictures of them, I find this topic even more disturbing.

I think you've got the wrong person
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Daffadilio
07/29/19 4:23:20 AM
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In my experience people usually only do this for selfish reasons-
There is no reason to interrupt a persons life with this apology after theyve had 10 years to heal from the situation except to be self-serving: clear their own conscience, be able to tell someone else they apologized about it, as a step in AA, whatever
If you arent already in contact with said person, and there is virtually bai chance of it ever coming up naturally, youre probably better off just leaving it alone forever.
While having people apologize about stuff like that can bring a sense of closure if performed well, it is more often preceded by reopening the wound/stirring up worse problems and if you actually cared about the person knowing you feel bad about hurting them, you wouldnt want to re-hurt them
But thats just my Opinion
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SoundNetwork
07/29/19 4:24:34 AM
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I think it is for selfish reasons. I feel guilty and I need closure
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slimjimfizzle
07/29/19 4:26:55 AM
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Yeah you drunk
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SoundNetwork
07/29/19 4:29:43 AM
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Daffadilio
07/29/19 4:30:06 AM
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SoundNetwork posted...
I think it is for selfish reasons. I feel guilty and I need closure

You dont need it, and closure is not owed to anyone for anything. If you want it and the only way of getting it comes in the form of re-injuring the same person youve already hurt previously and youre willing to do that, it shows you dont actually feel bad about it at all, just about the perception of the events. So in that case I say grow up and move on, and hope that you can evolve into a more mature person
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SoundNetwork
07/29/19 4:34:43 AM
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yeah i need it and its for selfish reasons

but it will also give them closure and feel beter
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