Current Events > So... I'm having this situation with this girl at work... Story time

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So... Im not a guy that pulls women. To be blunt, my game is VERY WEAK. Ive got issues in my life I need to take care of so I decided to stop worry about dating and worry about getting myself together first.

Ever since that change in attitude... Girls at work have been trying to get with me. Not a lot by any means. Like 4 in a year and a half. Thats a much higher success rate than what I normally pull when I try lmao. I dont know if the secret is to appear to not care about getting women or what. Im clearly no expert.

These girls are... below average.. but OK for my standards. I have a girl I work with who is making it as clear as possible, without directly telling me, that she likes me. She forced me to put her number in my phone on Friday to text her. Never texted her and now she coming to work with her breasts damn nearly falling out. She has never done this before until today. Maybe its related to me my texting her at all after getting her number.

What makes this a... situation... is for 2 reasons.

1. I work as a Pharmacy Tech. The person that is really trying is my superior.. a Pharmacist. So.. its really awkward because she is kind of my boss.

2. There is another girl at work that has been trying really hard to get with me for over a year. Ive turned her down forever and she wont leave me alone.

Its a really... strange.. situation. I dont want any of them since Im focusing on other things but it is just... ehh... The Pharmacist seems obsessed with me. I have no idea why. Im not some looker and Im giving off the vibe of not wanting a relationship. It isnt helping. Not texting her at all seemed to have the opposite effect. Its almodt like she is willing to do ANYTHING to be with me. She even named her freaking Dog after me after 2 days of working with her. Who knows how the other girl would react if I did start dating her for whatever reason.

The days are starting to become stressful dealing with all of this.

/blogfaqs
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If this was a throw away job like retail I say slay all you want. If this was a job you were interested in staying at I would advise to not dip your thing in company ink.

I slept with my boss at a retail store and it just got awkward afterwards. It was no big deal to quit. If you sleep with the wrong type of woman (read: pyscho) things could get professionally messy/awkward quickly. Especially if you claim to have two chicks that could battle it out

Pics of her feet.
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Yeah and the tits throbbing outwards as well

Shinnokxz posted...

If this was a throw away job like retail I say slay all you want. If this was a job you were interested in staying at I would advise to not dip your thing in company ink.

I slept with my boss at a retail store and it just got awkward afterwards. It was no big deal to quit. If you sleep with the wrong type of woman (read: pyscho) things could get professionally messy/awkward quickly. Especially if you claim to have two chicks that could battle it out

Thats the thing. I currently work at a Hospital instead of retail and its the best job Ive had so far. I dont want to leave this job unless its for something better which there isnt many in my area. Plus... the Psycho type of woman might apply. I cant tell. She seems a little... off... who knows how it would go if she gets mad. Plus, she is practically my boss. It can end very poorly
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Shinnokxz posted...

Yeah and the tits throbbing outwards as well

No way. I wouldnt do that in general but especially since she is my superior. Plus, she isnt that amazing by any means. Pretty meh. You arent missing anything
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If this is a real company, like CVS you need to do two things. One, feel free to hit on your boss or be receptive. However, Document! Don't delete her text messages. Save everything. A boss is never allowed to retaliate when things go wrong in a relationship. I'm assuming you want to keep your job and not have problems at your work. The more you have showing that she pursued you and then when things went wrong not Saying that they're going to but if they did.

As a boss myself I would NEVER even think of going out with a subordinate because they can kill your career. Well, also, I'm married so I don't think about that stuff. This is just what I tell the younger managers at work.
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Never mind legal or ethical ramifications. My post was basically telling him if he's already stressed due to the situation, then his joy for the job/going to work will go down the crapper soon.

Not hard to bone land whales outside of work TBH

Get a 3some with them. If the other one doesn't want to just say something like "I guess you don't like me after all." If the pharmacist doesn't want to then blackmail her saying you will report her to her superiors for sexual harassment. Motorboat away!
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Pharmacy tech? Med school? Just going off of my experience, everyone is stressed and just wants to fuck, take it while it's there.
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Youre handling it right. Just keep focusing on yourself.

Take it from a guy with experience: sleeping with girls at work is a terrible idea. When it goes bad, youre stuck there with each other. Its miserable. Unless you want to find a new job, dont sleep with any of them.

Theoretically someone could pull it off and not have it blow up in their face. But theres a great risk.

Keith_Valentine posted...

Youre handling it right. Just keep focusing on yourself.

Take it from a guy with experience: sleeping with girls at work is a terrible idea. When it goes bad, youre stuck there with each other. Its miserable. Unless you want to find a new job, dont sleep with any of them.

Theoretically someone could pull it off and not have it blow up in their face. But theres a great risk.

Yea thats what I figured. Knowing my luck, it would rapidly blow up in my face
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