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EffectAndCause 10/21/19 5:18:19 PM #1:	...and I accidentally slip up and refer to her by a male pronoun, am I an asshole? Ugh, I hate working with one for that reason. If I didnt know their new girly name based on looks id think they were just a gay man. In real life it wouldnt be a big deal but at work its like carrying an anvil through a field of eggshells. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929061342] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>...and I accidentally slip up and refer to her by a male pronoun, am I an asshole? Ugh, I hate working with one for that reason. If I didnt know their new girly name based on looks id think they were just a gay man. In real life it wouldnt be a big deal but at work its like carrying an anvil through a field of eggshells.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Goats 10/21/19 5:18:36 PM #2:	Yes --- Do good. Eat tin cans <cite>Goats posted [p:929061359] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Yes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssj3vegeta_ 10/21/19 5:20:08 PM #4:	No, ita only bad if you say it after dey've made it known to you tbh --- https://imgur.com/P88EYmN https://imgur.com/qxu2L01 https://imgur.com/1kMCL https://imgur.com/mvXIh0Q <cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted [p:929061421] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>No, ita only bad if you say it after dey've made it known to you tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 5:20:36 PM #5:	shockthemonkey posted... But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929061449] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole</quote> It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tired-Insomniac 10/21/19 5:21:39 PM #7:	Did you know them for a long time as a man with their man name? There's a MTF in our group who puts zero effort into looking like a female and even picked a female version of her male name and gets pissed the fuck off if you refer to her as a he/him/his and/or use her male name when we've known her as that name for 10+ years She literally just came out saying "I'm a girl and this is my new name" Still has a noticeable beard and thick body hair and dresses like a guy too --- "I like turtles" <cite>Tired-Insomniac posted [p:929061499] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Did you know them for a long time as a man with their man name? There's a MTF in our group who puts zero effort into looking like a female and even picked a female version of her male name and gets pissed the fuck off if you refer to her as a he/him/his and/or use her male name when we've known her as that name for 10+ years She literally just came out saying "I'm a girl and this is my new name" Still has a noticeable beard and thick body hair and dresses like a guy too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 10/21/19 5:24:40 PM #8:	EffectAndCause posted... shockthemonkey posted... But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all. Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo. --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:929061628] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole</quote> It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all.</quote> Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 5:25:41 PM #9:	shockthemonkey posted... The fact that you said she looks like a gay man definitely doesnt help your case either. Without knowing her name, all anyone would see is just a man thats feminine enough to be gay. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929061675] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>The fact that you said she looks like a gay man definitely doesnt help your case either.</quote> Without knowing her name, all anyone would see is just a man thats feminine enough to be gay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrFingers07 10/21/19 5:26:40 PM #10:	Pics --- :D Brawlin' Mains: R.O.B., Lucario, Pikachu, Wolf <cite>MrFingers07 posted [p:929061712] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Pics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 5:27:16 PM #11:	HANGtheDJ_86 posted... EffectAndCause posted... shockthemonkey posted... But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all. Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo. I do, all the time, I even stopped using man as a casual sentence ender. But I hate that I need to take her being a girl more seriously than SHE is or I get fired. If she wants to be a girl, totally fine, but fucking put in effort to BE A GIRL. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929061742] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>HANGtheDJ_86 posted...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole</quote> It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all.</quote> Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo.</quote> I do, all the time, I even stopped using man as a casual sentence ender. But I hate that I need to take her being a girl more seriously than SHE is or I get fired. If she wants to be a girl, totally fine, but fucking put in effort to BE A GIRL.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Medzzz 10/21/19 5:28:02 PM #13:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdnBV-S-RXk" data-time=" --- Hi <cite>Medzzz posted [p:929061768] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdnBV-S-RXk" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 10/21/19 5:30:42 PM #14:	EffectAndCause posted... HANGtheDJ_86 posted... EffectAndCause posted... shockthemonkey posted... But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all. Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo. I do, all the time, I even stopped using man as a casual sentence ender. But I hate that I need to take her being a girl more seriously than SHE is or I get fired. If she wants to be a girl, totally fine, but fucking put in effort to BE A GIRL. You're one of em traditionalist types, aren't ya? --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:929061894] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>HANGtheDJ_86 posted...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole</quote> It wouldnt be on purpose, itd be by accident because my natural reflex is to refer to them as a man because, as ive said, they really dont look womanly at all.</quote> Well since its done on accident it doesn't make you an asshole. But it really is something you should put more effort into getting right. A pretty uncool mistake to make imo.</quote> I do, all the time, I even stopped using man as a casual sentence ender. But I hate that I need to take her being a girl more seriously than SHE is or I get fired. If she wants to be a girl, totally fine, but fucking put in effort to BE A GIRL.</quote> You're one of em traditionalist types, aren't ya?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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sylverlolol 10/21/19 5:35:21 PM #16:	shockthemonkey posted... But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole --- This is my signature. There are many like it, but this one is mine. <cite>sylverlolol posted [p:929062081] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>But you do know her, so yeah misgendering her makes you an asshole</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 10/21/19 5:40:01 PM #17:	If this is someone you interact with regularly then it shouldn't be that hard, unless you are in fact an asshole --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:929062269] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>If this is someone you interact with regularly then it shouldn't be that hard, unless you are in fact an asshole</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 5:41:16 PM #18:	shockthemonkey posted... Why doesnt everyones appearance align with my preconceived notion of what certain genders and sexuality orientations look like? Why do people keep misgendering me?! strokes beard while they think it over --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929062322] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Why doesnt everyones appearance align with my preconceived notion of what certain genders and sexuality orientations look like?</quote> Why do people keep misgendering me?! strokes beard while they think it over</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EffectAndCause 10/21/19 6:18:40 PM #20:	Tired-Insomniac posted... Did you know them for a long time as a man with their man name? There's a MTF in our group who puts zero effort into looking like a female and even picked a female version of her male name and gets pissed the fuck off if you refer to her as a he/him/his and/or use her male name when we've known her as that name for 10+ years She literally just came out saying "I'm a girl and this is my new name" Still has a noticeable beard and thick body hair and dresses like a guy too Ugh, its basically entrapment. Like Ill literally change nothing about myself but suddenly announce im a girl and force them to play along or theyll get fired! shockthemonkey posted... EffectAndCause posted... shockthemonkey posted... Why doesnt everyones appearance align with my preconceived notion of what certain genders and sexuality orientations look like? Why do people keep misgendering me?! strokes beard while they think it over You gonna call her gay while she thinks it over? Uh...no? --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929063889] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Tired-Insomniac posted...</cite> <quote>Did you know them for a long time as a man with their man name? There's a MTF in our group who puts zero effort into looking like a female and even picked a female version of her male name and gets pissed the fuck off if you refer to her as a he/him/his and/or use her male name when we've known her as that name for 10+ years She literally just came out saying "I'm a girl and this is my new name" Still has a noticeable beard and thick body hair and dresses like a guy too</quote> Ugh, its basically entrapment. Like Ill literally change nothing about myself but suddenly announce im a girl and force them to play along or theyll get fired! shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Why doesnt everyones appearance align with my preconceived notion of what certain genders and sexuality orientations look like?</quote> Why do people keep misgendering me?! strokes beard while they think it over</quote> You gonna call her gay while she thinks it over?</quote> Uh...no?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 10/21/19 6:24:11 PM #21:	This really isn't something that you should be this worried about. If you slip, just correct yourself. There's no reason to be concerned unless you want to misgender her intentionally, in which case you would proceed to be the asshole. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTEX3YdEi7s <cite>Umbreon posted [p:929064095] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>This really isn't something that you should be this worried about. If you slip, just correct yourself. There's no reason to be concerned unless you want to misgender her intentionally, in which case you would proceed to be the asshole.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 10/21/19 6:25:27 PM #22:	Umbreon posted... If you slip, just correct yourself This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:929064143] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted...</cite> <quote> If you slip, just correct yourself</quote> This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WerewolfPaws 10/21/19 6:28:31 PM #23:	If you didnt know beforehand, no. --- I love catching people in the act. That's why I whip open doors. <cite>WerewolfPaws posted [p:929064256] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>If you didnt know beforehand, no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 10/21/19 6:31:05 PM #24:	You misgendered someone you know and are seriously asking if you are an asshole in this situation. --- https://imgur.com/BBcZDLJ <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:929064353] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>You misgendered someone you know and are seriously asking if you are an asshole in this situation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 10/21/19 6:33:30 PM #25:	I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:929064442] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 10/21/19 6:34:29 PM #26:	Guide posted... I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense. TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem. --- https://imgur.com/BBcZDLJ <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:929064484] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense.</quote> TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 6:34:55 PM #27:	Tmaster148 posted... You misgendered someone you know and are seriously asking if you are an asshole in this situation. I havent done it out loud, ive come close a few times though because nothing about how they present themselves suggests theyre a woman. Plus they even tow the line even further by making transgender jokes, like basically inviting you to join in and be the one to say something offensive. Its pretty much why I dont talk to her at all, safer that way. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929064503] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote>You misgendered someone you know and are seriously asking if you are an asshole in this situation.</quote> I havent done it out loud, ive come close a few times though because nothing about how they present themselves suggests theyre a woman. Plus they even tow the line even further by making transgender jokes, like basically inviting you to join in and be the one to say something offensive. Its pretty much why I dont talk to her at all, safer that way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 6:37:21 PM #28:	Tmaster148 posted... Guide posted... I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense. TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem. Im absolutely putting in all efforts, but why should we have to take transgender people more seriously than they take themselves? --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929064597] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense.</quote> TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem.</quote> Im absolutely putting in all efforts, but why should we have to take transgender people more seriously than they take themselves?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 10/21/19 6:38:33 PM #29:	Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:929064644] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
karlpilkington4 10/21/19 6:39:04 PM #30:	EffectAndCause posted... Tmaster148 posted... Guide posted... I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense. TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem. Im absolutely putting in all efforts, but why should we have to take transgender people more seriously than they take themselves? Dont take the bait mate. --- Is This The Krusty Krab? "No This Is Patrick!" <cite>karlpilkington4 posted [p:929064662] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>I'm all for trans rights but I can't see you as an asshole for this at all. You're learning to make an exception for something you've been conditioned for in 99.9% of other cases for 99.9% of your life. Slip ups are gonna happen. You mean no offense.</quote> TC is putting no effort in trying to correct his mistake. He's coming off as someone who doesn't take trans people seriously which is a problem.</quote> Im absolutely putting in all efforts, but why should we have to take transgender people more seriously than they take themselves?</quote> Dont take the bait mate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 10/21/19 6:39:45 PM #31:	No surprise Karl is going to defend an anti-trans post. --- https://imgur.com/BBcZDLJ <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:929064691] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>No surprise Karl is going to defend an anti-trans post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 10/21/19 6:40:12 PM #32:	Gobstoppers12 posted... Umbreon posted... If you slip, just correct yourself This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry. Nah. People can read context usually. It's not hard to tell someone who's actually apoplectic and who's insincere. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTEX3YdEi7s <cite>Umbreon posted [p:929064711] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted...</cite> <quote> If you slip, just correct yourself</quote> This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry.</quote> Nah. People can read context usually. It's not hard to tell someone who's actually apoplectic and who's insincere.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 10/21/19 6:41:15 PM #33:	Gobstoppers12 posted... Umbreon posted... If you slip, just correct yourself This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry. I have not seen that to be the case. Probably in a sensationalist piece or two. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:929064753] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted...</cite> <quote> If you slip, just correct yourself</quote> This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry.</quote> I have not seen that to be the case. Probably in a sensationalist piece or two.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 10/21/19 6:41:28 PM #34:	Guide posted... Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait. Same. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTEX3YdEi7s <cite>Umbreon posted [p:929064763] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait.</quote> Same.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 6:41:42 PM #35:	Basically they must NEED to tell every single person they ever interact with that theyre a transgender girl because anyone in the world would assume theyre a gay man. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929064777] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Basically they must NEED to tell every single person they ever interact with that theyre a transgender girl because anyone in the world would assume theyre a gay man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
karlpilkington4 10/21/19 6:49:36 PM #36:	Tmaster148 posted... No surprise Karl is going to defend an anti-trans post. No surprise you add ** that doesn't exist to other peoples posts. --- Is This The Krusty Krab? "No This Is Patrick!" <cite>karlpilkington4 posted [p:929065076] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote>No surprise Karl is going to defend an anti-trans post.</quote> No surprise you add ** that doesn't exist to other peoples posts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 10/21/19 6:50:25 PM #37:	EffectAndCause posted... Basically they must NEED to tell every single person they ever interact with that theyre a transgender girl because anyone in the world would assume theyre a gay man. It really just depends on how the person handles it after they find out. We're trying to warn you but it seems you're pretty dead set already. --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:929065113] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>EffectAndCause posted...</cite> <quote>Basically they must NEED to tell every single person they ever interact with that theyre a transgender girl because anyone in the world would assume theyre a gay man.</quote> It really just depends on how the person handles it after they find out. We're trying to warn you but it seems you're pretty dead set already.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vicious_Dios 10/21/19 7:04:12 PM #39:	No. But, ugh... I feel for you, TC. --- S / K / Y / N / E Twitch/YouTube/GT: *Adzeta* <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:929065710] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>No. But, ugh... I feel for you, TC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 10/21/19 7:22:29 PM #40:	Not remotely surprising that TC showed his colors more and more as the topic progressed. Yes, given the context it would indeed make you an asshole. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:929066444] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Not remotely surprising that TC showed his colors more and more as the topic progressed. Yes, given the context it would indeed make you an asshole.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EffectAndCause 10/21/19 8:00:13 PM #41:	I dont have any true colors, I support transgenders, its just seems pretty damn counterproductive to me when they want to be treated and respected as a woman when they cant be bothered to present themselves convincingly enough to receive that treatment, and then flip out if/when theyre misgendered. Ive been able to watch what I say and completely try to treat her as if shes a girl, but if she actually committed to BEING a girl itd a lot easier for everyone. --- https://imgur.com/wMshiEN <cite>EffectAndCause posted [p:929068007] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>I dont have any true colors, I support transgenders, its just seems pretty damn counterproductive to me when they want to be treated and respected as a woman when they cant be bothered to present themselves convincingly enough to receive that treatment, and then flip out if/when theyre misgendered. Ive been able to watch what I say and completely try to treat her as if shes a girl, but if she actually committed to BEING a girl itd a lot easier for everyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocileOrangeCup 10/21/19 8:01:50 PM #42:	Gobstoppers12 posted... Umbreon posted... If you slip, just correct yourself This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry. Wtf the slip is one of my favorite albums --- https://imgur.com/kHnd6lr https://imgur.com/uG042id https://imgur.com/tIfDfZH https://imgur.com/xhtRl8w https://imgur.com/ggQozRe https://imgur.com/sKAQfDJ <cite>DocileOrangeCup posted [p:929068057] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted...</cite> <quote> If you slip, just correct yourself</quote> This often isn't enough. The slip in itself is seen as bigotry.</quote> Wtf the slip is one of my favorite albums</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OnWingsOfMisery 10/21/19 8:02:07 PM #43:	I worked with someone like that who went out of their way to try to get misgendered, because of the opportunity to get on a pulpit about the subject. So freaking annoying. It didn't last long because eventually management realized that attending every Diversity & Inclusion bullshit workshop isn't a substitute for, you know, actually delivering quality work. Some people got fired after that realization and the workplace became a lot better. <cite>OnWingsOfMisery posted [p:929068072] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>I worked with someone like that who went out of their way to try to get misgendered, because of the opportunity to get on a pulpit about the subject. So freaking annoying. It didn't last long because eventually management realized that attending every Diversity & Inclusion bullshit workshop isn't a substitute for, you know, actually delivering quality work. Some people got fired after that realization and the workplace became a lot better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MudKip_Master 10/21/19 10:51:16 PM #44:	Even if they've told you of their pronoun preferrence, I imagine it would still be confusing since you've been basing on appearances for all your life. <cite>MudKip_Master posted [p:929075549] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Even if they've told you of their pronoun preferrence, I imagine it would still be confusing since you've been basing on appearances for all your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 10/22/19 3:56:55 PM #45:	Umbreon posted... Guide posted... Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait. Same. I'm glad two people realized that TC made this topic to bait. He's made a nearly identical one at least twice before, btw. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/x2KBsjI.png <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:929102685] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted...</cite> <quote>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>Alright, now I feel like I fell for bait.</quote> Same.</quote> I'm glad two people realized that TC made this topic to bait. He's made a nearly identical one at least twice before, btw.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inloveanddeath0 10/22/19 3:57:54 PM #46:	How obvious are we talking here --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:929102736] in If a trans... [t:78101730]...</cite> <quote>How obvious are we talking here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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