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RieTakahash 11/13/19 6:28:53 AM #1: |
Regardless of how long it's been, or how far from bad you were at any point... It just completely invalidates so much work.
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King10Spades 11/13/19 6:35:29 AM #2: |
So don't do it.
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RieTakahash 11/13/19 6:37:17 AM #3: |
King10Spades posted...
So don't do it. Ya yeet --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Orchestrion 11/13/19 6:41:04 AM #4: |
I dont think it invalidates anything. Recovery is a winding road, there are always going to be changes. Take it a day at a time, ya know?
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R1masher 11/13/19 6:49:50 AM #5: |
This have anything to do with no nut November ?
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:05:20 AM #6: |
Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there.
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:07:17 AM #7: |
LampChop posted...
Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. King10Spades posted... So don't do it. And this is part of why recovery is so hard, ignorant people that know nothing about addiction making it worse. TC you got this. Message me if you need to talk! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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whitelytning 11/13/19 7:09:45 AM #8: |
It doesn't invalidate anything. You were still sober or clean for the amount of time before the relapse and you can do it again and longer after the relapse. There isn't a simple solution to these things and the struggle will last and relapses do happen. Try to use it as something to learn and grown from.
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:15:07 AM #10: |
LampChop posted...
OctilIery posted...LampChop posted...Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. Where was anyone blaming anyone else here? Where were they denying their faults? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/13/19 7:15:09 AM #11: |
Oh look we're doubling down on being a dick
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King10Spades 11/13/19 7:15:48 AM #12: |
OctilIery posted...
LampChop posted...Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. Umm. It isn't hard to not do drugs. --- -K10S- Hail Nimrod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King10Spades 11/13/19 7:15:58 AM #13: |
Or drink excessively.
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:16:29 AM #14: |
Relapse is part of recovery. Nothing's invalidated. You ran a hard race for a while and you stumbled, that's all. I don't count days, never have, although I am aware that I'm coming up on 17 years, if I went out and got drunk, I'd still have those 17 years, and then I'd have anything else I could muster after.
And fuck off, Lambchop. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:17:20 AM #15: |
King10Spades posted...
OctilIery posted...LampChop posted...Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. In a vacuum? Maybe. When you consider addiction and the many, many issues that tend to lead to it? It's a lot more understandable. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:18:13 AM #16: |
OctilIery posted...
LampChop posted...OctilIery posted...LampChop posted...Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. And this is part of why recovery is so hard, ignorant people that know nothing about addiction making it worse. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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haloiscoolisbak 11/13/19 7:18:44 AM #17: |
Be stronger
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:19:16 AM #18: |
vigorm0rtis posted...
Relapse is part of recovery. Nothing's invalidated. You ran a hard race for a while and you stumbled, that's all. I don't count days, never have, although I am aware that I'm coming up on 17 years, if I went out and got drunk, I'd still have those 17 years, and then I'd have anything else I could muster after. No, you fuck off and stop making excuses for people's own fucking actions. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:19:27 AM #19: |
LampChop posted...
OctilIery posted...LampChop posted...OctilIery posted...LampChop posted...Unless you're talking about a disease, I'm sorry to hear that. If it's certain habits, that's 100% on you. No sympathy there. Hey Bro, I'm not an addict. I just work in the field. Calling you out for shitty things you say is not blaming you for it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:20:00 AM #20: |
LampChop posted...
vigorm0rtis posted...Relapse is part of recovery. Nothing's invalidated. You ran a hard race for a while and you stumbled, that's all. I don't count days, never have, although I am aware that I'm coming up on 17 years, if I went out and got drunk, I'd still have those 17 years, and then I'd have anything else I could muster after. When you can make excuses for your own actions, you can talk about others. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:20:20 AM #21: |
LampChop posted...
No, you fuck off and stop making excuses for people's own fucking actions. I didn't make any excuses. But I don't kick people when they're down 'cause I'm not a bitch. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:20:57 AM #22: |
Also, I like you "subtly" trying to claim addiction isn't a disease.
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whitelytning 11/13/19 7:22:38 AM #23: |
OctilIery posted...
Also, I like you "subtly" trying to claim addiction isn't a disease. I don't think its that subtle. It looks more like bad trolling to me. He still didn't even answer the question you asked him when he quoted it. Looks like just shit posting really. --- ************************************************ https://imgur.com/iZdWIKJ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/13/19 7:23:38 AM #24: |
OctilIery posted...
Also, I like you "subtly" trying to claim addiction isn't a disease. Good luck getting that point across. I think you're wasting your time on this person --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:25:38 AM #25: |
OctilIery posted...
LampChop posted...vigorm0rtis posted...Relapse is part of recovery. Nothing's invalidated. You ran a hard race for a while and you stumbled, that's all. I don't count days, never have, although I am aware that I'm coming up on 17 years, if I went out and got drunk, I'd still have those 17 years, and then I'd have anything else I could muster after. I don't. I'm not an addict. vigorm0rtis posted... LampChop posted...No, you fuck off and stop making excuses for people's own fucking actions. You certainly like starting shit though. And no, I didn't kick anyone when they were down. I simply said, stop making excuses for what you do in your own life, with your own two hands. That's not kicking anyone, just awareness, and reality. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RieTakahash 11/13/19 7:27:18 AM #26: |
Hey I may be an addict for the rest of my life, but at least I'll never be as big of a dick as that guy.
But yeah, time to not only go back to being fine, but use this as a point to better certain things even further. Swag. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:27:32 AM #27: |
Hey Bro, I'm not an addict. I just work in the field. Calling you out for shitty things you say is not blaming you for it. But you just literally fucking said it! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:27:56 AM #28: |
LampChop posted...
I don't. I'm not an addict. No, keep it up. Being bitchmade seems like your thing, you're good at it. Also keep it up with the ignorance, you're killing it. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/13/19 7:28:34 AM #29: |
Yeah, just rest easy in knowing that as bad as it gets you'll never be the asshole who trolls somebody for relapsing
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:30:45 AM #30: |
vigorm0rtis posted...
LampChop posted...I don't. I'm not an addict. With that attitude, it's no wonder why you're acting the way that you do. But I'll just stop there. I'll get more out of my time talking to a wall. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King10Spades 11/13/19 7:30:49 AM #31: |
OctilIery posted...
Also, I like you "subtly" trying to claim addiction isn't a disease. Addiction isn't a disease. It is a choice. --- -K10S- Hail Nimrod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:31:54 AM #32: |
eston posted...
Yeah, just rest easy in knowing that as bad as it gets you'll never be the asshole who trolls somebody for relapsing Yes. Blame trolling. Its always trolling. I don't like what this guy is saying, so it's trolling. Oh CE. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:32:20 AM #33: |
King10Spades posted...
Addiction isn't a disease. It is a choice. Science disagrees with you. Get your flu shot this year? --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WarDog2016 11/13/19 7:35:15 AM #34: |
Orchestrion posted...
I dont think it invalidates anything. Recovery is a winding road, there are always going to be changes. Take it a day at a time, ya know? Yeah but that's the problem with the mind of an addict. Everything is all or nothing with them, that's how they slip into the bad behavior in the first place. "Oh my life isnt going exactly how I want, so what's the point, okay where is the crack pipe?" --- Never go full Matt Lauer. Mmmmmkay, thanks. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RieTakahash 11/13/19 7:37:20 AM #35: |
Why did I post this lol y'all are crazy
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King10Spades 11/13/19 7:38:10 AM #36: |
vigorm0rtis posted...
King10Spades posted...Addiction isn't a disease. It is a choice. No. I don't get flu shots. --- -K10S- Hail Nimrod! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:38:52 AM #37: |
WarDog2016 posted...
Yeah but that's the problem with the mind of an addict. Everything is all or nothing with them, that's how they slip into the bad behavior in the first place. "Oh my life isnt going exactly how I want, so what's the point, okay where is the crack pipe?" Eh, I found the "all or nothing" attitude less prevalent that I thought I would, but I'm not a fan of the 12 step programs, and one of the reasons is the 'day tally' they officially or unofficially encourage. Holding up 3000 days can look like a monumental task to someone who really has to take it one day at a time. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:39:08 AM #38: |
King10Spades posted...
No. I don't get flu shots. Shocked. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HBOSS 11/13/19 7:40:20 AM #39: |
relapse is a setback. the failure is when you do not want to be treated.
setbacks happen. its part of the process. its not invalidating anything with the right mindset. you know what it takes and how it pulled you back. Learn from it. what triggered the behavior? what events led to that relapse. youre not as helpless as you think. you start day 1 again and go in knowing you can share this recent struggles in order to help others as they continue their journey. use the sponsor system - be honest and open. youre not alone in this. you got this. good luck --- You don't stop playing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop playing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:41:07 AM #40: |
WarDog2016 posted...
Orchestrion posted...I dont think it invalidates anything. Recovery is a winding road, there are always going to be changes. Take it a day at a time, ya know? Yeah careful, knowing the mods, they will mark you, and me, even though we didn't break any TOS. You can go tell people to go fuck themselves, but telling them their life is in their own hands? TROLL! *marked* Better off avoiding this board. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RieTakahash 11/13/19 7:41:52 AM #41: |
We would be better off with you avoiding this board.
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:43:19 AM #42: |
vigorm0rtis posted...
King10Spades posted...No. I don't get flu shots. But you know what that's called? A choice! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/13/19 7:44:56 AM #44: |
RieTakahash posted...
We would be better off with you avoiding this board. Just use the ignore feature. I guarantee you won't be missing any quality posts from these two --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HypnoCoosh 11/13/19 7:45:03 AM #45: |
Look at all the tough internet warriors talking shit about addiction when they have no experience.
Fucking CE. You havent failed TC you just havent finished the process. --- "If the freedom of speech is taken away then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter." George Washington ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vigorm0rtis 11/13/19 7:45:17 AM #46: |
LampChop posted...
But you know what that's called? A choice! Yeah, I'm aware that dumbassed choices are choices. --- "Can't wait to count out your coin!" -- Bethesda, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LampChop 11/13/19 7:45:52 AM #47: |
Bullet_Wing posted...
Why are you guys being dicks to a guy who's in a shit situation? You got people calling me a bitch, and telling me to fuck off, because I said you're responsible for your own actions, and I'm the dick? Ok. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/13/19 7:49:18 AM #48: |
You got people calling you a bitch for acting like a bitch. The best way to avoid that is to stop acting like a bitch.
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AlisLandale 11/13/19 7:50:24 AM #49: |
LampChop posted...
You got people calling me a bitch, and telling me to fuck off, because I said you're responsible for your own actions, and I'm the dick? Ok. TC posted nothing except a lament about how they feel about a relapse. you came in and projected some hate bone on addicts into the topic, saying a whole bunch of stuff thats irrelevant just to stir the pot. grow up and learn some self awareness if you want people to treat you better --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RieTakahash 11/13/19 7:50:49 AM #50: |
Can't we all be nice Jesus fuck
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OctilIery 11/13/19 7:51:39 AM #51: |
Sorry TC, I shouldn't have engaged him.
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