Current Events > Don't get married and don't have kids if you want to experience true freedom.

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21WIVES_CHILL
11/29/19 2:19:36 AM
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Unless you want to be like those other cuckoo husbands that are literally bounded to work and family for the rest of their life lol
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Ic3Bullet
11/29/19 2:26:39 AM
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Im single with no kids and live by myself. I can confirm that being able to do whatever I want during my free time is awesome.

The thing is whatever I want is usually video games. Most other activities in the adult world require another person to get the most enjoyable experience. So loneliness does kick in, but loneliness doesnt really bother me that much. And I do love the shit out of some video games.

i do enjoy hiking by myself, but I would also love to go hiking with someone now and then.
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AzNDarkSamurai
11/29/19 2:30:18 AM
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yeah enjoy dying alone

you may be one of those horror stories in the sense that you end up dying and nobody knows or cares that you did
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Ilishe
11/29/19 2:32:19 AM
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It's fun in the short run but you will be missing out terribly in the long run. You will look back on your life and wonder why you were so short sighted.

Video games are fun but if they're the focus of your life you will not be happy for long.

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21WIVES_CHILL
11/29/19 2:51:53 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
yeah enjoy dying alone

you may be one of those horror stories in the sense that you end up dying and nobody knows or cares that you did


At least they'll die having the fun and freedom if life and not in debt with child support.
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thrashmetal14
11/29/19 2:59:53 AM
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There is no such thing as true freedom
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No_U_L7
11/29/19 3:03:59 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
yeah enjoy dying alone

you may be one of those horror stories in the sense that you end up dying and nobody knows or cares that you did


imagine being so insecure

Ilishe posted...
It's fun in the short run but you will be missing out terribly in the long run. You will look back on your life and wonder why you were so short sighted.

Video games are fun but if they're the focus of your life you will not be happy for long.


why does it have to be videogames? why cant it be traveling, art or a million of other more rewarding things?

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StealthRock
11/29/19 3:19:42 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
yeah enjoy dying alone

you may be one of those horror stories in the sense that you end up dying and nobody knows or cares that you did

News flash

We all die alone unless you and someone else die at the exact same moment

When you are dying, having a wife will probably not mean much in the moment. You will die no matter what
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Ilishe
11/29/19 6:19:35 AM
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No_U_L7 posted...
imagine being so insecure

why does it have to be videogames? why cant it be traveling, art or a million of other more rewarding things?


He said video games. Sure you can travel, until you can't. Then you're alone with your regrets.

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No_U_L7
11/29/19 6:21:03 AM
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Ilishe posted...
He said video games. Sure you can travel, until you can't. Then you're alone with your regrets.


I'll be happy knowing I accomplished everything I wanted to in life

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Solid Sonic
11/29/19 6:23:33 AM
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Having kids is definitely a burden on ones career. When youre single (or even married if you have good financial planning skills) and you hate a job, you dont have to stay. But if youve got kids you cant just wish you didnt work where you do because there are other factors to consider besides your personal happiness and satisfaction.

Its something I weigh when thinking if I should ever be a father.

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ALIEN_WORK2HOP
11/29/19 6:29:58 AM
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yeah you are throwing away 20 years at least.
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Ilishe
11/29/19 6:55:23 AM
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No_U_L7 posted...
I'll be happy knowing I accomplished everything I wanted to in life


Are you sure you know what you want?

Expectations and desires can change.

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The_Korey
11/29/19 7:27:46 AM
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Ilishe posted...
It's fun in the short run but you will be missing out terribly in the long run. You will look back on your life and wonder why you were so short sighted.

Video games are fun but if they're the focus of your life you will not be happy for long.


Challenge accepted.

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gloBal enemy
11/29/19 7:29:23 AM
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Whilst I chose marriage and kids, I know it isnt for everyone. Some people are happy with marriage so they can do things together but without kids, others want to stay single forever or have de facto relationships.

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Ic3Bullet
11/29/19 7:34:13 AM
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TC didnt say video games. I did and I was post #2.
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TwoDoorPC
11/29/19 7:35:36 AM
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dink sounds like a nice lifestyle. not too fused though
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Diamond_Of_Time
11/29/19 8:03:02 AM
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Kids are fucking demons
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Ultima Dragon
11/29/19 8:10:38 AM
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Ic3Bullet posted...
Im single with no kids and live by myself. I can confirm that being able to do whatever I want during my free time is awesome.

The thing is whatever I want is usually video games. Most other activities in the adult world require another person to get the most enjoyable experience. So loneliness does kick in, but loneliness doesnt really bother me that much. And I do love the shit out of some video games.

i do enjoy hiking by myself, but I would also love to go hiking with someone now and then.


This is me, the hiking mainly.. but a bit lighter on the video games and more into guitar/music.

I dunno. I think the thing I value most in life is freedom but I have bad days too and feel like my life is sort of aimless and lacking purpose or direction.

I just don't like the idea of having a permanent obligation for life (which kids definitely are, unless you're a deadbeat).

Then it's like, is anyone even happy or fulfilled? All the single and married/parental people I know seem equally miserable and wanting in life.
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VIIVincent
11/29/19 8:18:03 AM
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Miserable and stuck with demon spawn VS single life

Loneliness is temporary. Once those eggs hatch, time, money and most of your hobby time will be limited.

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Twin3Turbo
11/29/19 8:33:18 AM
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Ilishe posted...
Are you sure you know what you want?

Expectations and desires can change.
Why does this only apply in one direction?

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StealthRock
11/29/19 8:44:39 AM
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Ilishe posted...
No_U_L7 posted...
I'll be happy knowing I accomplished everything I wanted to in life


Are you sure you know what you want?

Expectations and desires can change.

If he doesnt want kids im sure he wont magiy one day wake up and desire them

People who try to push kids on everyone because they want/have them kill me
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EdgeMaster
11/29/19 9:46:59 AM
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Having kids is one of those points of no return in life. Shit changes vastly as does your priorities and life trajectory.

Marriage can be great but often times is shitty, as seen by sky high divorce rates. The people in shitty marriages tend to have dug their own grave and made their own hell though. Marrying the right person will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
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CharlesBronson
11/29/19 9:49:05 AM
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EdgeMaster posted...
Having kids is one of those points of no return in life. Shit changes vastly as does your priorities and life trajectory.

Marriage can be great but often times is shitty, as seen by sky high divorce rates. The people in shitty marriages tend to have dug their own grave and made their own hell though. Marrying the right person will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
also if your kid commits a crime they put you in jail even though you weren't the one that did the crime
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Romes187
11/29/19 10:01:10 AM
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You gotta find a good wife and not be a complete waste of a parent and you enjoy it

definitely a trade off
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Esrac
11/29/19 10:03:56 AM
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Some things are more important than freedom.
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The_Korey
11/29/19 10:07:05 AM
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Esrac posted...
Some things are more important than freedom.


Like what? Kontributing to an overpopulated species?

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Umbreon
11/29/19 10:09:11 AM
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Being able to live that life one day is freedom.
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Romes187
11/29/19 11:04:22 AM
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The_Korey posted...
Like what? Kontributing to an overpopulated species?


thankfully this meme is self deleting lmao just make sure you follow your own rule
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Romes187
11/29/19 11:05:31 AM
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Umbreon posted...
Being able to live that life one day is freedom.


and this is the most correct post in the topic

but Id change it to the ability to work towards that life and hopefully attain it through hard work and sacrifice is closer to what freedom is (to me)
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The_Korey
11/29/19 11:13:40 AM
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Romes187 posted...
thankfully this meme is self deleting lmao just make sure you follow your own rule


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Solid Sonic
11/29/19 11:53:48 AM
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Getting married seems fine as long as you get with someone who respects that you arent them and for all the time you enjoy together, there are still things that youre each into.

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Deadpool_18
11/29/19 11:54:53 AM
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My girl and I are happy with spending our extra income on pets instead of awful monsters.
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Solid Sonic
11/29/19 11:55:57 AM
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Deadpool_18 posted...
My girl and I are happy with spending our extra income on pets instead of awful monsters.


I could live with one cat.

If youre like I WANT A DOG, get to stepping.

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gloBal enemy
11/30/19 2:32:29 AM
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Deadpool_18 posted...
My girl and I are happy with spending our extra income on pets instead of awful monsters.


thats how we felt until we had a kid lol.

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_____Cait
11/30/19 2:47:44 AM
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Im in a serious relationship right now, with marriage being a definite possibility.

On one hand, I really enjoy my free time. I remember spending holidays (im a teacher, so i get long breaks) just playing games, eating whatever, watching movies, going wherever i wanted.... so nice.

And yet, at the same time, I really wanted to do those things with someone else.

Freedom is nice, but sharing things is definitely more fulfilling in the long run. At least for me, anyway.
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