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ThrillKillFan
12/09/19 10:48:35 PM
#102:


Missing out? Sorry. But that sounds all sorts of entitled. People have this thing called free will. If they like you but won't date you it's not the end of the world. Simply move on and find somebody else and keep doing so until you find somebody who shares the same feelings mutually.

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XXmiznatorXX
12/09/19 10:53:56 PM
#103:


This topic is starting to remind me of the trans girl who said its transphobic if you dont date a trans person.

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ThanksUglyGod
12/09/19 10:57:32 PM
#104:


ThrillKillFan posted...
Missing out? Sorry. But that sounds all sorts of entitled. People have this thing called free will. If they like you but won't date you it's not the end of the world. Simply move on and find somebody else and keep doing so until you find somebody who shares the same feelings mutually.
Expecting people to like you for you instead of the color of your skin is considered entitled now?
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Skye Reynolds
12/09/19 10:58:12 PM
#105:


ThrillKillFan posted...
Missing out? Sorry. But that sounds all sorts of entitled. People have this thing called free will. If they like you but won't date you it's not the end of the world. Simply move on and find somebody else and keep doing so until you find somebody who shares the same feelings mutually.

And people don't always use their free will to its fullest potential. I miss out on a lot of things for petty reasons and I'm comfortable with that.

You're comfortable with not dating certain people and nobody's forcing you to. But, just for the record, you are missing out on some great potential partners.

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SSMajinVegeta2
12/09/19 11:05:18 PM
#106:


Shes like 12. Who gives AF

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ThrillKillFan
12/09/19 11:05:43 PM
#107:


Skye Reynolds posted...
But, just for the record, you are missing out on some great potential partners.
I'm not missing out on anything actually as I quit trying to date 6 years ago. I did so once before but I think this time it's for good. Every woman (just about) that I've tried dating has judged me, my friends and whatever else negatively and tried to 'change' me. Last one (six years ago) knew from the start going in that I was non religious. We went out for around 3-6 months and just after V-Day she dumped me because I 'didn't believe like her'. Maybe it's my choice in women or where I met them from (usually online as I'm not very brave face to face) but after 20 years I finally said fuck it.

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ThrillKillFan
12/09/19 11:06:45 PM
#108:


ThanksUglyGod posted...

Expecting people to like you for you instead of the color of your skin is considered entitled now?
Personal preference is a thing. I can like someone who is X or Y race but still not wish to date them. Besides which as I stated above I seem to have an issue picking women who like to try 'changing' me because to them I'm a project that "needs" improving.

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apocalyptic_4
12/09/19 11:13:12 PM
#109:


Some of them change their minds later on in life sometimes it just takes the right person to change your outlook

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StealthRock
12/10/19 12:17:12 AM
#110:


Kastrada posted...
A lot. And it's been happening for a long ass time. Ever since different races and ethnicities have been intermarrying and reproducing.
So there are often times black people who can pass for white?

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XXmiznatorXX
12/10/19 12:19:05 AM
#111:


StealthRock posted...
So there are often times black people who can pass for white?
I mean, Shaun King is a white guy who passes off as black. So Im sure its possible.
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StealthRock
12/10/19 12:20:31 AM
#112:


Skye Reynolds posted...
And people don't always use their free will to its fullest potential. I miss out on a lot of things for petty reasons and I'm comfortable with that.

You're comfortable with not dating certain people and nobody's forcing you to. But, just for the record, you are missing out on some great potential partners.
Youre not missing anything. You can easily find a partner that you like that fits all your requirements.

For example, I am not attracted to black women. However, i have found my fiancee who is wonderful and suits my needs. I have no need to wonder if their is a mythical black female unicorn out there. I have what I want.

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goatknight
12/10/19 12:22:08 AM
#113:


I mean she's racist so fuck her but she probably doesn't deserve to have her instagram posted to CE.
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StealthRock
12/10/19 12:22:20 AM
#114:


XXmiznatorXX posted...
I mean, Shaun King is a white guy who passes off as black. So Im sure its possible.
I didnt say it was impossible or that it never happens. But the poster implied that it happens so often that people have no concept of what race someone is until after they get heavily involved.

Most people you can look at and tell pretty easily

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SkittyOnWailord
12/10/19 12:26:52 AM
#115:


If a white person not wanting to date a black person makes them racist, does a male not wanting to date other males make him sexist?

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im not 13
12/10/19 12:31:15 AM
#116:


StealthRock posted...
Youre not missing anything. You can easily find a partner that you like that fits all your requirements.

If her being "not black" is a requirement then I got news for you buddy

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Deadpool_18
12/10/19 12:32:15 AM
#117:


Preference is absolutely not racism.

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cuttin_in_farm
12/10/19 12:35:34 AM
#118:


This really isnt complicated.

There are black people who can look white.

Asian people who can look white.

And hispanic people that can look white.

Races can often times blur. People confuse middle eastern people for a latina. People confuse a asian gal for a white woman. People think the tan white kid is a light skin black dude.

It should be obvious that saying I dont date x race is racist via ignorance.

And the lack of awareness is lol worthy. Yea. Sure.

What people mean is I dont date DARK skin people or I dont date non-westernized Asians.

you have to put an adjective in here besides the race. Otherwise have fun continuing to look like a racist nitwit.

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Solid Snake07
12/10/19 12:45:25 AM
#119:


I dont really care what someone's sexual preferences are.

But its concerning when someone wants to advertise it if they dont want to date a certain race. Especially to just megaphone it out on social media like that. Nobody asked so how about you just keep it to yourself?

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Kastrada
12/10/19 12:49:06 AM
#120:


StealthRock posted...
So there are often times black people who can pass for white?

My post never said anything about black people passing for white. It was that people from all races and all ethnicities can pass as other groups. It's been that way ever since tribes and countries started intermingle. The only time I mentioned black passing for white and vice versa was just an example.

Is it wide spread as your hyperbolic "Well she implied that it happens so often"? Obviously not. And yes, there is the eye test.

My argument is that race and ethnicity, when you actually look at it and stop relying on the eye test, is far more complicated than you are making it out to be. Post 118 explains it perfectly.

I mean you implied you are a black guy right? And you question how often "passing" happens? It's been happening to us since slavery. Since Jim Crow. It still happens now. Racial ambiguity isn't some new thing that happened in the PC culture nor is it some foreign concept. It's been well known for generations.

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Kastrada
12/10/19 12:52:11 AM
#121:


SkittyOnWailord posted...
If a white person not wanting to date a black person makes them racist, does a male not wanting to date other males make him sexist?

If a legitimate question, no because that is more in tune with the biological makeup of a person along with height and weight, other physical desires. Hair, eyes, teeth, etc.. Even skin color and tone.

The concepts of race and ethnicity are way more sociologically bent. Things that aren't simply based on skin color.

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goatknight
12/10/19 12:53:52 AM
#122:


If you woke up as a girl tomorrow would you date a black dude
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pauIie
12/10/19 12:54:51 AM
#123:


there's also like...no reason to advertise your racial preferences. say no. nobody is owed an explanation to why you don't want to date them.

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SkittyOnWailord
12/10/19 12:55:41 AM
#124:


Kastrada posted...
If a legitimate question, no because that is more in tune with the biological makeup of a person along with height and weight, other physical desires. Hair, eyes, teeth, etc.. Even skin color and tone.

The concepts of race and ethnicity are way more sociologically bent. Things that aren't simply based on skin color.

Some people here seem to think it's just skin color. Those comments are who I was referring my question to.

Vol2tex posted... It just amazes me how many people still write others off (blatantly) simply based on skin color.



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ThrillKillFan
12/10/19 1:17:14 AM
#125:


Solid Snake07 posted...
I dont really care what someone's sexual preferences are.

But its concerning when someone wants to advertise it if they dont want to date a certain race. Especially to just megaphone it out on social media like that. Nobody asked so how about you just keep it to yourself?
Maybe they have had to deal with unwanted advances from people who they were not attracted to and want to put it out there so that nobody else tries? But no, it can't be that.

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StealthRock
12/10/19 1:25:57 AM
#126:


im not 13 posted...
If her being "not black" is a requirement then I got news for you buddy
Whats that?

That some people arent attracted to black people??

As a black man ,thats not news

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StealthRock
12/10/19 1:29:27 AM
#127:


Kastrada posted...
My post never said anything about black people passing for white. It was that people from all races and all ethnicities can pass as other groups. It's been that way ever since tribes and countries started intermingle. The only time I mentioned black passing for white and vice versa was just an example.

Is it wide spread as your hyperbolic "Well she implied that it happens so often"? Obviously not. And yes, there is the eye test.

My argument is that race and ethnicity, when you actually look at it and stop relying on the eye test, is far more complicated than you are making it out to be. Post 118 explains it perfectly.

I mean you implied you are a black guy right? And you question how often "passing" happens? It's been happening to us since slavery. Since Jim Crow. It still happens now. Racial ambiguity isn't some new thing that happened in the PC culture nor is it some foreign concept. It's been well known for generations.
My point is your a exaggerating a problem that most times isnt an issue and conflating that with semantics

It doesnt matter of a person says they dont date black dudes but find a super light skinned mixed dude attractive. You know what they mean when they say it so why try to play word games?

90% of black people dont ever have to worry about being mistaken for anything else. Doesnt matter if its been happening forever. For most people, this isnt that case

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Solid Snake07
12/10/19 1:31:28 AM
#128:


ThrillKillFan posted...
Maybe they have had to deal with unwanted advances from people who they were not attracted to and want to put it out there so that nobody else tries? But no, it can't be that.


Nah, its attention whoring. Just like most social media activity. It's not exacly difficult to ignore online communication

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Kastrada
12/10/19 1:35:03 AM
#129:


StealthRock posted...
My point is your a exaggerating a problem that most times isnt an issue and conflating that with semantics

It doesnt matter of a person says they dont date black dudes but find a super light skinned mixed dude attractive. You know what they mean when they say it so why try to play word games?

Wait....how am I conflating semantics and playing word games by.....understanding definitions?

How else can one take "I don't date x-race" other than.....they don't date x-race? There is no implication. There are no exceptions. The statement you made " a person says they don't date black dudes" has no other route except that. Nothing. That's....basic English.

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ThrillKillFan
12/10/19 1:48:58 AM
#130:


Solid Snake07 posted...
Nah, its attention whoring. Just like most social media activity. It's not exacly difficult to ignore online communication
Maybe they want to get their preferences out there in the most public way possible because they feel the person/people showing them the attention aren't taking the hint offline.

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__Blight__
12/10/19 1:49:12 AM
#131:


Vol2tex posted...
It just amazes me how many people still write others off (blatantly) simply based on skin color.

I am amazed that you think you hold the ability to force a person to be attractive to something they are not. Are you going to force gays and lesbians to date straight people next? Your arrogance is ****ing astounding.

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Solid Snake07
12/10/19 1:55:37 AM
#132:


ThrillKillFan posted...
Maybe they want to get their preferences out there in the most public way possible because they feel the person/people showing them the attention aren't taking the hint offline.


Bro, it's the equivilant of me going online and blasting out that I'm not interested in fat chicks. It's something I can handle without sending a message to everyone I know that makes me look like an asshole

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apocalyptic_4
12/10/19 1:58:57 AM
#133:


Big yikes for equating dating other skin tones to homosexuality


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Fony
12/10/19 6:08:11 AM
#134:


im not 13 posted...
If her being "not black" is a requirement then I got news for you buddy

It's not about black women, it's about what he actually wants.

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MacDaMurderer
12/10/19 6:31:53 AM
#135:


XXmiznatorXX posted...
No i wouldnt, because Im not attracted to Asians

What makes you not attracted to them tho?

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XXmiznatorXX
12/10/19 7:18:40 AM
#136:


MacDaMurderer posted...
What makes you not attracted to them tho?

Not sure. Cant really explain it. Just never was interested in Asian women physically.

Not saying there arent some attractive ones, but just in my experience 8 times out of 10, I was never attracted sexually. Always have more of a friends vibe. Its simply just preference and thats it.
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Balrog0
12/10/19 10:57:00 AM
#137:


I just think its weird how much of the discourse itt has been some variation of 'only white liberals care about this' when the person who made this topic is a black dude

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StealthRock
12/10/19 11:02:36 AM
#138:


Balrog0 posted...
I just think its weird how much of the discourse itt has been some variation of 'only white liberals care about this' when the person who made this topic is a black dude
Lots of black people parrot white liberal topics

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Vol2tex
12/10/19 11:18:46 AM
#139:


I think what some people consider to be "preference" as opposed to "racist" depends upon which group is being excluded.

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ThrillKillFan
12/10/19 12:03:25 PM
#140:


Solid Snake07 posted...
Bro, it's the equivilant of me going online and blasting out that I'm not interested in fat chicks. It's something I can handle without sending a message to everyone I know that makes me look like an asshole
Some people don't take the hint though unless you come out and bluntly state it in a way that is very public. There have been cases of people getting murdered by somebody whose advances they spurned privately but who refused to take no for an answer.

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ThrillKillFan
12/10/19 12:06:39 PM
#141:


Vol2tex posted...
I think what some people consider to be "preference" as opposed to "racist" depends upon which group is being excluded.
It's not racist to have preferences UNLESS you use racist terminology (like epithets) when explaining why you wouldn't date people of X or Y group.

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Vol2tex
12/10/19 12:25:08 PM
#142:


ThrillKillFan posted...
It's not racist to have preferences UNLESS you use racist terminology (like epithets) when explaining why you wouldn't date people of X or Y group.

Racism is not always blatant like that, and just because they don't use certain terminology publicly doesn't mean that they don't privately, such as in the Hulk Hogan situation.

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