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Vermander
02/14/20 8:32:55 AM
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AirFresh
02/14/20 8:36:20 AM
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Yeah

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thanosibe
02/14/20 8:38:15 AM
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Matthew 5:27-28
27 You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery.[e] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

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DocDelicious
02/14/20 8:47:30 AM
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Worse, cuddling implies being more than physically attracted to someone. It'd be better if you just banged it out, at least that's attached to a basic human need.

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Artisan1990
02/14/20 8:48:13 AM
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Yeah, that's cheating.
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DoorbellLicker
02/14/20 8:48:50 AM
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Yes
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Vermander
02/14/20 8:49:02 AM
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thanosibe posted...
Matthew 5:27-28
27 You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery.[e] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

I am asking for a friend. His girlfriend has this ex that is friends with her ex, and he found out sometimes they cuddle when she goes to his house, but it is strictly friendship cuddling.


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Artisan1990
02/14/20 8:49:35 AM
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Vermander posted...
I am asking for a friend. His girlfriend has this ex that is friends with her ex, and he found out sometimes they cuddle when she goes to his house, but it is strictly friendship cuddling.

He needs to know asap.
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AirFresh
02/14/20 8:50:06 AM
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Vermander posted...
I am asking for a friend. His girlfriend has this ex that is friends with her ex, and he found out sometimes they cuddle when she goes to his house, but it is strictly friendship cuddling.
Oh dear. Your friend needs to get outta this relationship quick.

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Vermander
02/14/20 8:53:10 AM
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Artisan1990 posted...
He needs to know asap.

Like they confirmed they werent banging or anything but I still found this really weird and I told him I dont think thats normal?

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Imastrongwoman
02/14/20 8:53:38 AM
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100% cheating.
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AirFresh
02/14/20 8:53:56 AM
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Vermander posted...
Like they confirmed they werent banging or anything but I still found this really weird and I told him I dont think thats normal?
So how is it confirmed they weren't banging?

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OpenlyGator
02/14/20 8:54:42 AM
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Most modern women in a relationship would say yes.

Being territorial is not gendered.

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Darker Cheshire
02/14/20 8:55:08 AM
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Depends on individual perspective. There isn't exactly a baseline for this, and the Bible is frankly a terrible one.

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DocDelicious
02/14/20 8:55:31 AM
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AirFresh posted...
So how is it confirmed they weren't banging?

It's not

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SuperExcitebike
02/14/20 8:56:28 AM
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Cuddling is way more intimate that banging

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nevershine
02/14/20 8:56:52 AM
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It most certainly is cheating

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:06:15 AM
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The results in this topic are certainly divided.

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thanosibe
02/14/20 9:06:36 AM
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Vermander posted...
I am asking for a friend. His girlfriend has this ex that is friends with her ex, and he found out sometimes they cuddle when she goes to his house, but it is strictly friendship cuddling.
Yeah, no that's not okay. That's just a very lame excuse to be with someone she is obviously attracted to. And it will probably escalate at some point to something more. She obviously doesn't respect your friend in their relationship. Just my opinion though

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AmericaTheBrave
02/14/20 9:11:09 AM
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Touch
02/14/20 9:11:17 AM
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There's a good chance that if they're friendship cuddling they're prolly friendship banging

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cuttin_in_farm
02/14/20 9:12:06 AM
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Vermander posted...
The results in this topic are certainly divided.

Wtf? No its not lol.

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Sackgurl
02/14/20 9:14:52 AM
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it's up to the individual but if one person isn't okay with it and the other does it anyway, that's definitely cheating.

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Veggeta X
02/14/20 9:15:04 AM
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Vermander
02/14/20 9:19:09 AM
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Sackgurl posted...
it's up to the individual but if one person isn't okay with it and the other does it anyway, that's definitely cheating.

She wasnt telling him about it, he found out through the guy because theyre coworkers. He actually was concerned because he thought it was a little strange.

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ChrisTaka
02/14/20 9:20:05 AM
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Vermander posted...
I am asking for a friend.

I bet

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CyricZ
02/14/20 9:20:45 AM
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*sigh*

It is.

I've been guilty of it.

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Touch
02/14/20 9:21:20 AM
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CyricZ posted...
*sigh*

It is.

I've been guilty of it.
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SaccharineSmile
02/14/20 9:23:00 AM
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No its not

I mean who makes up these rules about what is considering cheating or not?

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CyricZ
02/14/20 9:25:22 AM
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Yeah that's me. Someone who got himself a "best friend" who wanted more and before I realized it, I was in too deep and I had to hurt them to break it off.

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:25:48 AM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
No its not

I mean who makes up these rules about what is considering cheating or not?

I think its a weird line. Like I definitely have platonic female friends that would lay on opposite sides of the couch as me under the same blanket to get cozy.


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joe40001
02/14/20 9:28:57 AM
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SuperExcitebike posted...
Cuddling is way more intimate that banging

This seems super weird to me.

Why is everybody so cavalier about banging?

Cuddling is letting yourself be emotionally vulnerable with somebody so that's a big deal and needs to be taken seriously.

Banging can just give stds or create a baby, so it's no big deal.

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:29:29 AM
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dolomedes posted...
that's the issue.

generally if partners discuss issues like this - generally early on in the relationship. boundaries, people, set some!

He told her he would he not hang with her ex, but given they were close friends for several years would not ask her to do that. She also lives a block away so its easy after work to just go and hang out.


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CyricZ
02/14/20 9:32:40 AM
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I really don't think there's value in trying to "rank" the types of cheating.

In every case, the key factor is that there was intimacy behind the partner's back.

I never had sex with my former best friend. Never kissed her on the lips.

What we were doing was still cheating.

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thanosibe
02/14/20 9:33:34 AM
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dolomedes posted...
that's the issue.

generally if partners discuss issues like this - generally early on in the relationship. boundaries, people, set some!
Yup. There's lots of things that can be deal breakers or things that people just are not emotionally comfortable with. My wife and I discussed a lot before getting married, and still do to this day as our relationship grows.

Because if you are hiding something from your SO, then it's likely you know they aren't going to be okay with what you are doing.

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Teenman
02/14/20 9:35:10 AM
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Your friend is an idiot. This girl has no problem hiding things from him. This wont be a successful relationship.

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:37:58 AM
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Teenman posted...
Your friend is an idiot. This girl has no problem hiding things from him. This wont be a successful relationship.

They actually dated last year and she outright cheated with her ex. (Like slept with him.) but never admitted it, and denied it even after a third party pointed it out. However during this time she did dump him because she was still in love with her ex.

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Lorenzo_2003
02/14/20 9:38:04 AM
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Vermander posted...
He told her he would he not hang with her ex, but given they were close friends for several years would not ask her to do that. She also lives a block away so its easy after work to just go and hang out.


It sounds like hes Ok with his girl and her ex fucking. Either that or hes so far up feminisms ass that he wont put his foot down and tell her its unacceptable.

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thanosibe
02/14/20 9:39:44 AM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
It sounds like hes Ok with his girl and her ex fucking. Either that or hes so far up feminisms ass that he wont put his foot down and tell her its unacceptable.
I'd venture to say he's "allowing" this out of fear of having no girlfriend than he is being with a woman that doesn't respect their relationship. At least that's the way it comes off from what TC is sharing.

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:41:08 AM
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thanosibe posted...
I'd venture to say he's "allowing" this out of fear of having no girlfriend than he is being with a woman that doesn't respect their relationship. At least that's the way it comes off from what TC is sharing.

I mean they have a date tonight, and he is banging her so...


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ZevLoveDOOM
02/14/20 9:42:48 AM
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its a type of displaying affection so i guess it could be viewed as cheating...
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thronedfire2
02/14/20 9:44:36 AM
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Vermander posted...
I mean they have a date tonight, and he is banging her so...

and shell probably be thinking about her ex the whole time

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thanosibe
02/14/20 9:45:22 AM
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Vermander posted...
I mean they have a date tonight, and he is banging her so...
I meant more that he is "okay" with her relationship with her ex because he's more afraid of being lonely than ending the relationship with her even if he knows in his heart she's hurting him. Loneliness sucks and he maybe more afraid of that, than her escalating the relationship with her ex, while using him as a backup. Which is really sad.

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DoubleDare
02/14/20 9:47:30 AM
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It's only cheating if she finds out.

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Vermander
02/14/20 9:47:52 AM
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thronedfire2 posted...
and shell probably be thinking about her ex the whole time

I mean their relationship is new so youd think she would be excited.

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