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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:03:16 PM #1: |
Its clear that she has liked me for a long time. Im not interested. I make it very clear Im not interested. I told her directly Im not interested. She still wont leave me alone. Im on lunch break now. I just walked by her for the first time and she says, Tell me you love me. Just out the damn blue. Tell me you love me. Please. Just say it. Im done with my internship in 91 days. Can you tell me you love me?
Of course I didnt but that officially creeped me the hell out. --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 03/18/20 7:04:04 PM #2: |
Pics
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Trumpo 03/18/20 7:04:36 PM #3: |
but is she hot
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AloofHermit 03/18/20 7:04:53 PM #4: |
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BlackHorse6969 03/18/20 7:05:09 PM #5: |
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Cleo_II 03/18/20 7:05:10 PM #6: |
Report it to HR. Thats sexual harassment.
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:05:13 PM #7: |
Strider102 posted...
Pics Im not going to do that. Come on. Trumpo posted... but is she hot No --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:05:48 PM #8: |
Cleo_II posted...
Report it to HR. Thats sexual harassment. That would feel really... weird... to do that as a guy --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 03/18/20 7:06:27 PM #9: |
Tell her you love her, then smash.
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:07:03 PM #10: |
Strider102 posted...
Tell her you love her, then smash. Im not sticking my dick in potentially crazy --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 03/18/20 7:08:11 PM #11: |
No pics.
No smash. Why am I still here? --- Last Cloudia ID: 188850453 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 03/18/20 7:08:16 PM #12: |
known2FAIL posted...
That would feel really... weird... to do that as a guyQuit being sexist and then go to HR about it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guerrilla Soldier 03/18/20 7:08:31 PM #13: |
Cleo_II posted...
Report it to HR. Thats sexual harassment. --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:08:48 PM #14: |
Tenlaar posted...
Quit being sexist and then go to HR about it. Sexist... against my sex? --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 03/18/20 7:09:34 PM #15: |
known2FAIL posted...
That would feel really... weird... to do that as a guyWhy? No one should have to tolerate unwanted sexual advances at their job. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:11:57 PM #16: |
Cleo_II posted...
Why? No one should have to tolerate unwanted sexual advances at their job. Yea... she is a nice girl though and she should be gone, hopefully, in 90 days since her internship will be up. Maybe Ill try to ride this out. I dont know. I might just go ahead and go to HR --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 03/18/20 7:12:18 PM #17: |
known2FAIL posted...
Sexist... against my sex?Yes, you are perpetuating toxic masculinity and sexist behaviors with the attitude that it's weird for men to take the proper steps when somebody is inappropriate towards them in the workplace. I'm guessing when you say it would feel "weird" what you're really saying is that it would make you feel like less of a man somehow. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LookANinja 03/18/20 7:12:23 PM #19: |
known2FAIL posted...
Sexist... against my sex?Don't promote double standards. Sexual harassment is sexual harassment regardless of the gender. If you were doing it to her or someone else you probably would have gotten fired already. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zikten 03/18/20 7:14:30 PM #20: |
she might get more desperate as her time runs out. what if on the last day she turns psycho?
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Cleo_II 03/18/20 7:14:47 PM #21: |
known2FAIL posted...
Yea... she is a nice girl though and she should be gone, hopefully, in 90 days since her internship will be up. Maybe Ill try to ride this out. I dont know. I might just go ahead and go to HRYou should make the report. First to get her to stop (hopefully) and also so that its on record should they choose to hire her after she is done with school. Typically, internships are trial runs for the real thing. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:14:56 PM #22: |
LookANinja posted...
Don't promote double standards. Sexual harassment is sexual harassment regardless of the gender. If you were doing it to her or someone else you probably would have gotten fired already. Well yea thats true. That sexism threw me off. I wasnt really thinking about sexism when I said that. I just didnt want to get someone in trouble who just likes me. --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kajagogo 03/18/20 7:15:08 PM #23: |
Cleo_II posted...
Report it to HR. Thats sexual harassment. --- By Grabthar's Hammer....what a savings. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:16:05 PM #24: |
Zikten posted...
she might get more desperate as her time runs out. what if on the last day she turns psycho? Im legit thinking about taking off that entire week. I have a ton of PTO so I might as well use it --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LookANinja 03/18/20 7:16:54 PM #25: |
known2FAIL posted...
Well yea thats true. That sexism threw me off. I wasnt really thinking about sexism when I said that. I just didnt want to get someone in trouble who just likes me.Brah, i get it. I'm telling you what you SHOULD do, but I can say with 95% certainty that I wouldn't report it either. Sounds like unnecessary drama that i wouldn't want to deal with. Doing the right thing is such a fucking hassle sometimes. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:17:41 PM #26: |
LookANinja posted...
Brah, i get it. I'm telling you what you SHOULD do, but I can say with 95% certainty that I wouldn't report it either. Sounds like unnecessary drama that i wouldn't want to deal with. Doing the right thing is such a fucking hassle sometimes. Thats EXACTLY how I feel right now. I couldnt say it better --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RevivedPacifist 03/18/20 7:20:15 PM #27: |
known2FAIL posted...
Im legit thinking about taking off that entire week. I have a ton of PTO so I might as well use it That's really the main reason you need to alert HR, I had a somewhat similar situation as you and felt weird as a guy reporting it but I decided to just to get it on record. A couple months later she tried to report me saying I sexually harassed her when in reality I turned her down so many times that she finally snapped. Even though you are obviously doing nothing wrong you definitely want to make sure you are the person that makes report to HR first, not her. --- Life is suffering ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:24:10 PM #28: |
RevivedPacifist posted...
That's really the main reason you need to alert HR, I had a somewhat similar situation as you and felt weird as a guy reporting it but I decided to just to get it on record. A couple months later she tried to report me saying I sexually harassed her when in reality I turned her down so many times that she finally snapped. Oh damn I didnt think about that! I dont think she would go that far but I bet you thought the same thing when it happened to you --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 03/18/20 7:27:25 PM #29: |
known2FAIL posted...
I wasnt really thinking about sexism when I said that.I'm genuinely not saying this to be dickish towards you and call you out specifically because it's something that I try to be very conscious about and catch myself on all the time, but that's the insidious thing about casual prejudices like that. Just like most racist people aren't hardcore racists who go to white power rallies but people who just assume that things are the way that they are for a reason and accept casual racism, most people who perpetuate sexist attitudes aren't thinking about it when they do it - they just accept that it's not as bad for a woman to make inappropriate comments to a man at work, that it's harmless when it comes from a woman, that a man should be expected to deal with it without making a fuss. If a woman was asking you for advice on this exact situation with a man at work I have little doubt that you would suggest she report it both because it's wrong for her to have to put up with that at work and in case is escalates further and they try to retaliate against her. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:31:56 PM #30: |
Tenlaar posted...
I'm genuinely not saying this to be dickish towards you and call you out specifically because it's something that I try to be very conscious about and catch myself on all the time, but that's the insidious thing about casual prejudices like that. Just like most racist people aren't hardcore racists who go to white power rallies but people who just assume that things are the way that they are for a reason and accept casual racism, most people who perpetuate sexist attitudes aren't thinking about it when they do it - they just accept that it's not as bad for a woman to make inappropriate comments to a man at work, that it's harmless when it comes from a woman, that a man should be expected to deal with it without making a fuss. I get what you are saying. I was thinking exactly as you described about men just accepting it. --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LookANinja 03/18/20 7:36:05 PM #31: |
RevivedPacifist posted...
That's really the main reason you need to alert HR, I had a somewhat similar situation as you and felt weird as a guy reporting it but I decided to just to get it on record. A couple months later she tried to report me saying I sexually harassed her when in reality I turned her down so many times that she finally snapped.oof. He makes a really really good point. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HBOSS 03/18/20 7:41:37 PM #32: |
once you go crazy
you never go back do it https://youtu.be/-3nh0MvCqSI --- You don't stop playing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop playing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zodd3224 03/18/20 7:42:48 PM #33: |
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known2FAIL 03/18/20 7:55:43 PM #35: |
Zodd3224 posted...
I'd be turned on personally Maybe early on but this has been going on for many months. The more I learn about her.. the less I like. She just seems creepier and creepier. She is an intern but she is interning for a higher position than my own. She would kinda be my boss in a way once she finishes school. She has all this debt now and a while back she indirectly told me she would pay for me to go back to school if I was with her which was very creepy since I didnt know her for that long at the time. --- I don't know why I'm playing Destiny 2... but I am... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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dj1200 03/18/20 7:58:26 PM #36: |
pics
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teepan95 03/19/20 2:14:20 AM #37: |
Make the right choice, buddy
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Ivany2008 03/19/20 2:20:20 AM #38: |
Had that happen recently. One girl at work whose 17 kept hitting on me. I kept tolding her that I would under no circumstances ever go out with her, since I'm literally double her age and to knock it off before someone got the wrong idea. I don't mind chatting, since we work in close proximity, that's fine, but nothing more than that.
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bobaban 03/19/20 2:31:49 AM #39: |
Ivany2008 posted...
Had that happen recently. One girl at work whose 17 kept hitting on me. I kept tolding her that I would under no circumstances ever go out with her, since I'm literally double her age and to knock it off before someone got the wrong idea. I don't mind chatting, since we work in close proximity, that's fine, but nothing more than that. Nice; I had 2 20 somethings wanting to have a 3 some but I was like nope lol ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ivany2008 03/19/20 2:38:36 AM #40: |
bobaban posted...
Nice; I had 2 20 somethings wanting to have a 3 some but I was like nope lol I might have another one that's interested in me, don't know her age, but know that she's at least 18. But it kind of feels weird since I'm kind of a loner. I've been on dates and the like but it was just bad experiences through and through. And I'm 34 now, trying to focus on myself and getting my life back in order(this virus doesn't help since college is shut down for the semester other than online). ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zack_Attackv1 03/19/20 2:39:04 AM #41: |
I require photographic evidence in order to make a proper assessment of the situation.
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The-19th-Sparta 03/19/20 2:57:06 AM #42: |
Zack_Attackv1 posted...
I require photographic evidence in order to make a proper assessment of the situation. So you can say something stupid like "Weeeeew!" or "*coughing fit of laughter*"? Shut the fuck up Zack. --- Haurchefant is the worst thing to happen to Final Fantasy XIV: A Heavensrealm Stormbringers ... Copied to Clipboard!
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evil_zombie11 03/19/20 3:03:13 AM #43: |
Aka every anime
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ffmasterjose 03/19/20 3:06:43 AM #44: |
The-19th-Sparta posted...
So you can say something stupid like "Weeeeew!" or "*coughing fit of laughter*"? Shut the fuck up Zack. Fucking roasted. --- Submit your bracket for the GameFAQs Game of the Decade contest!: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/features/gotd_entry ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys Monster 03/19/20 3:09:55 AM #45: |
Is she fat and ugly?
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Delirious_Beard 03/19/20 3:13:02 AM #46: |
The-19th-Sparta posted...
So you can say something stupid like "Weeeeew!" or "*coughing fit of laughter*"? Shut the fuck up Zack. based --- https://imgur.com/HUHxlFl You act like I don't know my own way home ... Copied to Clipboard!
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coolpal23 03/19/20 3:14:38 AM #47: |
The-19th-Sparta posted...
So you can say something stupid like "Weeeeew!" or "*coughing fit of laughter*"? Shut the fuck up Zack.hah --- MSI B360-A PRO|EVGA 8Gb Gtx 1070| DDR4 2400 16Gb G.skill| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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StarReaper13 03/19/20 3:19:33 AM #48: |
If this was happening to a friend of yours, but the genders are swapped but everything else is the exact same, you should do whatever you'd tell them to do if they were asking for help.
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Crazyman93 03/19/20 3:48:29 AM #50: |
known2FAIL posted...
she is a nice girl though and she should be gone, hopefully, in 90 days since her internship will be up. Maybe Ill try to ride this out. And then she finds out where you live. Take this down early --- let's lubricate friction material! ~nickels, Cars & Trucks ... Copied to Clipboard!
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