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God_Of_Entirety
04/01/20 9:26:11 PM
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does it?


mre and more links come out proving that type of punishment as a child create trauma which either stay dormant or manifest in violent act. it is for this reason I believe all parents should have ott ake classes to udnerstand child psych. it would help end the cycle of mental health disorders in family wordwide..

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God_Of_Entirety
04/01/20 9:27:50 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
It teaches kids that violence will get people to stop behaviors you dont like.
and to hide their behaviors from their parents, creating a second identity if you will

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God_Of_Entirety
04/01/20 9:28:10 PM
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no daddy leading

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Trickfinger
04/01/20 10:03:04 PM
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Bump

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rodu_jr
04/01/20 10:03:59 PM
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tide pod kids probably were not spanked
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Trickfinger
04/02/20 8:37:39 PM
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lilORANG
04/02/20 8:48:14 PM
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If done correctly. But there are better ways tbh.
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Trickfinger
04/02/20 9:19:08 PM
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lilORANG posted...
If done correctly.
how is it done correctly?

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008Zulu
04/02/20 9:21:02 PM
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It's called pain compliance. Do something wrong, feel pain, brain associates doing wrong and pain, you stop doing wrong.

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lilORANG
04/02/20 9:22:29 PM
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Trickfinger posted...

how is it done correctly?

Immediately after the bad act. Wait too long and a dumb young kid won't even associate the spank with the bad act.
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MarqueeSeries
04/02/20 9:23:11 PM
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008Zulu posted...
It's called pain compliance. Do something wrong, feel pain, brain associates doing wrong and pain, you stop doing wrong.

No, it just makes you try to hide your wrongdoings

It doesnt actually teach you that what you did was wrong
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averagejoel
04/02/20 9:23:37 PM
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lilORANG posted...
Immediately after the bad act. Wait too long and a dumb young kid won't even associate the spank with the bad act.
it is physical abuse

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lilORANG
04/02/20 9:36:56 PM
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averagejoel posted...

it is physical abuse

That wasn't the question
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masticatingman
04/02/20 9:39:12 PM
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Teaching right from wrong is a continual process.

And it's one that plenty of adults don't have that great of a concept of, if you wanna go there.

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Trickfinger
04/02/20 9:40:48 PM
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008Zulu posted...
It's called pain compliance. Do something wrong, feel pain, brain associates doing wrong and pain, you stop doing wrong.
sounds like great parenting.

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TreyFlowers
04/02/20 9:40:52 PM
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MarqueeSeries posted...
No, it just makes you try to hide your wrongdoings

It doesnt actually teach you that what you did was wrong

Maybe if you're a dumbass kid

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Wewillrocku
04/02/20 9:44:39 PM
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https://www.apa.org/monitor/2012/04/spanking

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DepreceV2
04/02/20 9:46:08 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
It teaches kids that violence will get people to stop behaviors you dont like.

That isnt true for the majority

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008Zulu
04/03/20 1:36:07 AM
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Trickfinger posted...
sounds like great parenting.
Yes, because a 20 minute speech, where the kid is guaranteed to zone out after 2 minutes, on the virtues of behaving, followed by 10 minutes on the time-out step is sure to make them never to throw the basketball in the house again.

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MuayThai85
04/03/20 1:39:10 AM
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God_Of_Entirety posted...
and to hide their behaviors from their parents, creating a second identity if you will

My brother and I got spanked. The worst would be a belt across the hands but we were never beaten.

We never hid anything from our paralents or had a "second identity". There is a very big difference between using corporal punishment to discipline your child (like a slap on the butt or hand) and beating your kid.

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Wii_Shaker
04/03/20 1:41:52 AM
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Spanking alone doesn't solve anything. Unless the parent has structure in the first place the child will not learn from any form of discipline.

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CommunismFTW
04/03/20 1:43:33 AM
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008Zulu posted...
It's called pain compliance. Do something wrong, feel pain, brain associates doing wrong and pain, you stop doing wrong.

yeah but wrong here is imagined by parents who want to physically cause pain to their kids and not have the brain cells to rub together to talk to them about it instead

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EffectAndCause
04/03/20 1:45:50 AM
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I use a 3 strike system that works like a charm.

1. Tell them to stop doing the thing.
2. Yell at them to stop doing the thing.
3. Spank them.

Very soon it never reaches strike 3 and barely ever reaches strike 2 because the fear of strike 3 is enough to deter the bad behavior, plus by then they KNOW theyre misbehaving and still choosing to do it, so they know exactly why it is happening.
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FL81
04/03/20 1:51:34 AM
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Yeah, it teaches them to avoid getting caught.

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Noraneko_Vel
04/03/20 1:53:41 AM
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There need to be the right punishments for the right thing. If you spank at every mistake, you're a shitty parent and it will not be effective. You need to punish light mistakes lightly (words), make sure the kid deserved it when you do and give it punishments related to their mistakes. Spanking would come in for very bad things so that the kid will learn to fear it and understand that it did a very bad thing.

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Trickfinger
04/03/20 1:53:48 AM
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FL81 posted...
Yeah, it teaches them to avoid getting caught.

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TheMikh
04/03/20 1:54:38 AM
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FL81 posted...
Yeah, it teaches them to avoid getting caught.
this, precisely

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Trickfinger
04/03/20 1:54:56 AM
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Who posted
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Trickfinger
04/03/20 10:32:43 PM
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Bump
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averagejoel
04/03/20 11:19:59 PM
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lilORANG posted...
That wasn't the question
then it was a flawed question to begin with

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Maze_
04/03/20 11:21:27 PM
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Yeah spanking doesn't teach morality it just teaches kids that should avoid getting caught.

It encourages dishonesty and cruelty.

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Trickfinger
04/03/20 11:31:42 PM
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Maze_ posted...
Yeah spanking doesn't teach morality it just teaches kids that should avoid getting caught.

It encourages dishonesty and cruelty.


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Trickfinger
04/03/20 11:32:51 PM
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58 votes so far

yeah, you are

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Trickfinger
04/03/20 11:33:48 PM
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dumb

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