Current Events > Men need to stop being picky and start dating single mothers

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It's too common for men to believe that they're worth much more than a woman who can handle raising a kid herself.

Nah

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No one should be forced to date anyone.

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Becoming a serious part of a child's life is not something that should be taken lightly.

Im currently dating a mother of two. Im a single father of two

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I don't like kids. Even more so one that I have no paternal connection to

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My girlfriend's son and I get along great.

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Big pass my dude
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Nah not gonna do that. Hell I couldn't even get a single mom anyway. That's how little game/everything I have.

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I've dated my fair share of single mothers. As a man in his 30s, it's kind of unavoidable.

I don't think whether a woman has kids or not is the deciding factor on whether I decide to stay with them.

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The older you get, the more likely you are of marrying a single mother and raising her kids.

So, let's say you're a 30-35 year old single man, you're not gonna be in contention to get a young girl fresh out of high school or college who has no baggage.

You'll be getting a girl in your age bracket who has been around the block a few times and is about the same age as you are or older.

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JustMyOpinion posted...

Nah. I'm not raising someone else's kid.

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Sing-a-long

I GOT MARRIED TO THE WHORE NEXT DOOR...

How does the rest of that song go? I forgot.

if i were a single dad myself, i wouldnt mind...

Every boy deserves to have a father even if that father isn't his biological one and single mothers are always on the lookout for a good man.

Being without a father is almost always detrimental to a boy's life.

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Fuck no. I learn from my mistakes. Women need to be a lot more picky about who they reproduce with.

But women are picky. :/
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garan posted...

Fuck no. I learn from my mistakes. Women need to be a lot more picky about who they reproduce with.

Is that really fair to young mothers though? I don't think it is.

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It's up to man to wear protection in most instances since not as many women as you think take birth control pills.

The pill causes weight gain in most women and in some rare cases blood clots and possible death.

Wii_Shaker posted...

Is that really fair to young mothers though? I don't think it is.

Life isn't fair. Is it fair to ask guys to clean up the messes that other men leave behind?

What if you don't even want kids of your own? Is that a decent reason to not want to date them? I don't look down on them or anything. Eh, they wouldn't want me anyway though.

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I thought this topic was going to be about tinder memes

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women need to stop being picky and start dating single neets

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I like kids, and want to have them. I'd be fine dating a single mother as long as she'd be open to possibly having another.

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BlackHorse6969 posted...

women need to stop being picky and start dating single neets

Women want men with a job and aspirations. Neets offer literally nothing and often have limited experience with women making them terrible lovers.

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Nah, I'll pass. You date them for us, TC.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

Women want men with a job and aspirations. Neets offer literally nothing and often have limited experience with women making them terrible lovers.

so exactly like a single mother

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BlackHorse6969 posted...

so exactly like a single mother

Single mothers are great lovers, obviously.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

Single mothers are great lovers, obviously.

Such great lovers that their baby daddy left

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Id say most guys with options should be way more picky about who they date tbh.


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Single mothers deserve homeless men with no money.

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Dont worry about single mothers , chads taking care of them

Or you could not get involved with women and enjoy being single.

Being a single father, I know what it feels like to be a hot single, childless, chick

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Saxon posted...

So, let's say you're a 30-35 year old single man, you're not gonna be in contention to get a young girl fresh out of high school or college who has no baggage.

Wrong.

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ThePrinceFish posted...

Such great lovers that their baby daddy left

Shot fired.

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Only if you don't have to get involved with the child or deal with the father.

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ThePrinceFish posted...

Such great lovers that their baby daddy left

Kinda fucked up even if true.

Men need to stop knocking up these women and protect their wealth, if you want a family then pick a woman worth being in a relationship with, it's wrong to leave children without a father in their lives, many communities have suffered because a man is not there to teach the children how to conduct themselves in life.

Many broken(fatherless) homes have created a lot of criminals because the children join a gang to get that "father figure" in their lives and act out because the mother can't provide the structure and discipline needed a lot of times.

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Saxon posted...

Sing-a-long

I GOT MARRIED TO THE WHORE NEXT DOOR...

How does the rest of that song go? I forgot.

Saxon is a joke account for shore for shore

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An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2020 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of who are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

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Oh look all it's this "copy/paste" bullshit again.

cymbaline posted...

An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2020 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of who are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

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I did it. Never again.

Wii_Shaker posted...

Women want men with a job and aspirations.

Most men with jobs and aspirations aren't interested in rescuing single mothers.

Offworlder1 posted...

Oh look all it's this "copy/paste" bullshit again.

You can tell how fake it is based on the names-- Aiden, Braiden, & Caiden, LMFAO-- but the truth is that women are just as often (if not more so) entitled & selfish compared to men.

JustMyOpinion posted...

Nah. I'm not raising someone else's kid.

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It's one of the lamest bullshit "copy/paste" gimmicks, no self respecting man with a good job or career would be ok with that shit let alone be with a woman that has 3 different "baby daddies" for each child.

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Only if she doesn't spend time with her Ex or treat him like he's family. I'M her family now muahaha (and the kids of course)

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No one should be dating a single mother unless they're 100% cool with it. That's just not fair to the kid.

So I don't really agree with the bite the bullet sentiment here.

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