Current Events > I have no idea how to interpret what she said #blogfaqs

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There's this attractive person at college that I've been flirting back and forth with for a while now. The other day, I jokingly suggested I'd pay her for something by giving her my number and she said "no need, I already have it for free". We have mutual friends so I'm assuming that's where she got it from.

Is this a good thing cause she made the effort to get my number, or is this a bad thing cause she hasn't texted me or anything? I'm so confused...
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She doesnt actually have your number yet. She was saying that she knows youre into her and youre gonna give her your number eventually either way.

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If she was into you she probably would have texted you even to say hi. Seems like friendship to me if she already has your number.

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Ving_Rhames posted...

She doesnt actually have your number yet. She was saying that she knows youre into her and youre gonna give her your number eventually either way.

That's a possibility, but in that case that was poorly phrased

Austin_Era_II posted...

If she was into you she probably would have texted you even to say hi. Seems like friendship to me if she already has your number.

In that case she's really quite flirty/touchy-feely lol
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She wants to add you to her male harem.

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Jabodie posted...

She wants to add you to her male harem.

nice
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Some women can be touchy and flirty types. Doesn't mean she wants you. I've seen married people flirt with each other (nothing extreme) doesn't mean they wanna destroy their marriage and bang each other <_<

If you're into her and want something more just ask her out. Worse case she says no and move on otherwise just enjoy the friendship ride lol.

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Austin_Era_II posted...

If you're into her and want something more just ask her out. Worse case she says no and move on otherwise just enjoy the friendship ride lol.

On the real, this. Young people in college waste a lot of time playing games for no reason. If she's actually interested, 90% chance she's waiting for you to take a hint and make a move. And if you don't, she'll eventually get with another guy that does make a move even if she's into you.

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Jabodie posted...

Austin_Era_II posted...

If you're into her and want something more just ask her out. Worse case she says no and move on otherwise just enjoy the friendship ride lol.

On the real, this. Young people in college waste a lot of time playing games for no reason. If she's actually interested, 90% chance she's waiting for you to take a hint and make a move. And if you don't, she'll eventually get with another guy that does make a move even if she's into you.

Dammit, why can't women make the first move?

Thanks for the heads up, I guess I have no choice lol
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jalawa_aloo posted...

Dammit, why can't women make the first move?

Thanks for the heads up, I guess I have no choice lol

I feel you bro, I feel you. But I've seen that situation happen one too many times lol.

I think as you get older women become more forward, though.

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Jabodie posted...

I think as you get older women become more forward, though.

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Asking someone out is kinda nerve-wracking tbh
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You ever see certain guys and wonder how they got a certain girl? Cause they asked.

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This is true. I'm just the kind of guy to worry about doing something before I get the chance to do it. I overthink a lot
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That's part of why chads pull well. She says no? Well I'll try that chick over there, maybe she'll be down.

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Jabodie posted...

That's part of why chads pull well. She says no? Well I'll try that chick over there, maybe she'll be down.

Lol

I get that dating is (to an extent) a numbers game, but I couldn't ask someone out just for the sake of having asked them out. I prefer to have some sort of attraction
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jalawa_aloo posted...

I get that dating is (to an extent) a numbers game, but I couldn't ask someone out just for the sake of having asked them out. I prefer to have some sort of attraction

Think of it as an exercise

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onedarksoul posted...

jalawa_aloo posted...

I get that dating is (to an extent) a numbers game, but I couldn't ask someone out just for the sake of having asked them out. I prefer to have some sort of attraction

Think of it as an exercise

If all goes well with the person I mentioned itt, then I won't need to!
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Godspeed!

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Thanks!

I'll have to wait a while though, I won't see her until Tuesday probably
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