Current Events > Had sex today for the first time. Didn't enjoy it

(+) Yeah! (+)

She was hot and had big boobs which were fun to play with. Lasted longer than I expected to.

But I dunno. With a condom that felt like drawn out and less fun masturbation. I'm sure with experience and the right person it's great, but my desire to do that again is pretty low

Cool, can I fill in for you next time?

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Condoms take all the pleasure out of sex honestly.

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

Also, for the lasting longer part, lay off the masturbation.

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I mean condoms suck but if you're saying this:
Comfy_Pillow posted...

less fun masturbation

Comfy_Pillow posted...

my desire to do that again is pretty low

You might have some other stuff going on

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Drumiester posted...

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

the fuck is this bullshit

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R1masher posted...

Cool, can I fill in for you next time?

I'll tag you in bro

plus she kept biting my lower lip and tugging on it. Which sounds hot but was mad annoying

Drumiester posted...

Condoms take all the pleasure out of sex honestly.

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

Also, for the lasting longer part, lay off the masturbation.

As a a virgin I guess this makes me feel better.

Like what's even the point then? Seems silly.
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Damn, good for you! On one hand, experience counts, on the other hand you had sex

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MrNintendo1213 posted...

As a a virgin I guess this makes me feel better.

Like what's even the point then? Seems silly.

It's sort of true but sort of not. going in raw was an eye opener

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RebelElite791 posted...

the fuck is this bullshit

lol it ain't bullshit. People get themselves off better, men and women. They control their pace, don't have to worry about anyone else, just focus on themselves and doing everything they like. Plus a hand grips far tighter than any vagina does, for men.

Not dissing sex, sex is great. The intimacy, the exploring of each other's body and kinks and pleasures, all great.

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Comfy_Pillow posted...

But I dunno. With a condom that felt like drawn out and less fun masturbation.

I mean, this is kinda true. But there's more to sex than just the sensation in your junk.

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Losing your virginity while wearing a condom sucks. Should've lost it to a girl willing to go raw. Now that's the ticket.

Would've still been awkward because you still don't know what you're doing but condoms make things so much more difficult in that scenario.

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Condoms/Raw is like night/day.

I hate using condoms it takes so much of the feeling out of it. Once you get there I'm sure your mind will change.

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It kinda grows on you though, it's not going to wang bang thank you ma'am always, but it's pretty much the most fun you can have with one or more other people

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when you have sex without condoms your mind will be blown.

any pics of the girl you lost it to?

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Sex can be great but is over rated, honestly i'd rather play a new videogame i end up enjoying than have sex with a 10 out of 10 hottie like Kate Upton

There were a couple of things that made it worse for you though
Comfy_Pillow posted...

With a condom

Problem number 1
Comfy_Pillow posted...

plus she kept biting my lower lip and tugging on it. Which sounds hot but was mad annoying

Some people are just bad at sex or sexually incompatible

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Get thinner condoms

Drumiester posted...

Condoms take all the pleasure out of sex honestly.

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So condoms are really that dramatically different eh? Kind of expected it, but I mean I thought it would be better than it was

Comfy_Pillow posted...

So condoms are really that dramatically different eh? Kind of expected it, but I mean I thought it would be better than it was

Condoms basically make it a waste of time

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Pig143 posted...

Sex can be great but is over rated, honestly i'd rather play a new videogame i end up enjoying than have sex with a 10 out of 10 hottie like Kate Upton

Pig143 posted...

Condoms basically make it a waste of time

lmao I hate this board

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In the meantime while youre waiting for a girl who has been tested and is on the pill, buy some Trojan bare skin condoms.

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RebelElite791 posted...

lmao I hate this board

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jon1012 posted...

In the meantime while youre waiting for a girl who has been tested and is on the pill, buy some Trojan bare skin condoms.

The morning after pill exist for any girl who isn't already on birth control
RebelElite791 posted...

lmao I hate this board

Feel free to elaborate

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Do yall not get any psychological pleasure? Is it strictly physical pleasure with people or something?

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cuttin_in_farm posted...

Do yall not get any psychological pleasure? Is it strictly physical pleasure with people or something?

The psychological thought process is that normal sex feels better

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It doesn't count as sex unless you finish inside her without a condom

anything else is just foreplay

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Pig143 posted...

The psychological thought process is that normal sex feels better

Well yea, but surely people can get more out of sex than just phallic stimulation?

Whenever I have to go round 2, my sensation down there is practically gone. But the sounds and effects I have on the girl is where I get my pleasure.

I dunno. Calling condom sex less fun masturbation just seems weird. Was this a ONS or something?

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cuttin_in_farm posted...

Well yea, but surely people can get more out of sex than just phallic stimulation?

Sure but if it doesn't feel good as normal sex it feels more like a defeat than a victory
cuttin_in_farm posted...

Was this a ONS or something?

Dunno, what does ONS stand for?
cuttin_in_farm posted...

Whenever I have to go round 2, my sensation down there is practically gone. But the sounds and effects I have on the girl is where I get my pleasure.

Not everyone cares about the smae things

You can hear sexual moans from porn, if you're wearing a condom she's likely faking anyway

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Drumiester posted...

Condoms take all the pleasure out of sex honestly.

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

Also, for the lasting longer part, lay off the masturbation.

You obviously haven't been with someone who knows what their doing

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I gotta say of my top ten best nuts, maybe like 2 were from jerking it. Probably one tbh.

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cuttin_in_farm posted...

Do yall not get any psychological pleasure? Is it strictly physical pleasure with people or something?

Eh if you're banging some random chick you have no feelings for, it feels more like mutal masturbation. Having sex with a chick you care about feela great though >_>

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I've never used a condom in my entire life. Well that's not true, I've used them to masterbate before but never during sex.

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I'm cringing hard at this topic. I hope at least some of you are joking because condoms are an essential part of sexual health, unless you're into STDs and unwanted pregnancy or something. Condoms are a must for me. I don't like taking chances.

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SableWolfAngel posted...

I'm cringing hard at this topic. I hope at least some of you are joking because condoms are an essential part of sexual health, unless you're into STDs and unwanted pregnancy or something. Condoms are a must for me. I don't like taking chances.

I was super reckless in my youth and now I'm married. I was lucky, never a pregnancy scare or std.

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Drumiester posted...

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

You've just never had good sex.

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IfGodCouldDie posted...

SableWolfAngel posted...

I'm cringing hard at this topic. I hope at least some of you are joking because condoms are an essential part of sexual health, unless you're into STDs and unwanted pregnancy or something. Condoms are a must for me. I don't like taking chances.

I was super reckless in my youth and now I'm married. I was lucky, never a pregnancy scare or std.

I guess some people here haven't quite grown to that level yet, eh?
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SableWolfAngel posted...

I'm cringing hard at this topic. I hope at least some of you are joking because condoms are an essential part of sexual health, unless you're into STDs and unwanted pregnancy or something. Condoms are a must for me. I don't like taking chances.

Well if you don't sleep around and know your partner in and out the only worry becomes pregnancy to be honest. In HS I only used condoms with my GF maybe 10 times throughout 3 years

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inloveanddeath0 posted...

SableWolfAngel posted...

I'm cringing hard at this topic. I hope at least some of you are joking because condoms are an essential part of sexual health, unless you're into STDs and unwanted pregnancy or something. Condoms are a must for me. I don't like taking chances.

Well if you don't sleep around and know your partner in and out the only worry becomes pregnancy to be honest. In HS I only used condoms with my GF maybe 10 times throughout 3 years

That kind of trust can really help in a monogamous arrangement, but if you're not the kind of person to just stick with one partner then that tactic doesn't always hold up. I'm talking more about the people like that more than anything.
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SableWolfAngel posted...

That kind of trust can really help in a monogamous arrangement, but if you're not the kind of person to just stick with one partner then that tactic doesn't always hold up. I'm talking more about the people like that more than anything.

Ah gotcha

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SableWolfAngel posted...

I guess some people here haven't quite grown to that level yet, eh?

Different people grow up at different rates. I can't judge because I'd be a hypocrite. I can educate my kids and hope they make better decisions in life than I did.

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Drumiester posted...

And masturbation is ALWAYS going to feel better to you because you know how to please yourself best. No partner will ever match that.

I agree, thought this was generally accepted as true.

Also, I ditto what everyone else is saying. Condom sex is a waste, hard for me to even stay up when I'm not feeling much.

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my first time wasn't very good either. I wasn't good. she wasn't either.

second time was with a different person. she was much better, and so was I

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The fucks a condom?

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What condom did you use?

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Pig143 posted...

The morning after pill exist for any girl who isn't already on birth control...

morning after pill is not realistic to use every time you have sex and youre acting like stds dont exist.

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jon1012 posted...

morning after pill is not realistic to use every time you have sex and youre acting like stds dont exist.

You must be much more of a player than me then, it's called plan b for a reason
At that point if it's with the same person over and over she might as well get the shot, go on the pill, or get an iud

As for stds the condom could still break or you could get hit by lightning, just try not to have sex with anyone gross

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Anyone who thinks masturbation is better than sex has not had good sex

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As an aside, there was this girl I dated that was ridiculously tight, so even with a condom the sensation was intense during the act. Never got on birth control so we stayed with the condoms. I doubt I could have lasted 5 strokes with her raw.

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Pig143 posted...

or get an iud

My gf has an IUD and it's glorious! lol. Been having raw sex for almost a year now. And an extra perk for her is no periods!

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