Current Events > Is it scummy to join grindr to meet trans women?

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CasualGuy
08/11/20 11:44:55 PM
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Not like for a fetish thing, but just to meet women?

Dudes are getting super mad that I put "no men" in my bio

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Wii_Shaker
08/12/20 12:00:33 AM
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No. I don't think so.

They made the account and most trans girls are pretty up front about being trans and what they are looking for.

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RavingShark
08/12/20 12:06:11 AM
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no.

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DarkRoast
08/12/20 12:11:19 AM
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No, actually that's one of the reasons why Trans-women use it. Because the men they'll find on Grindr understand.

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MrMallard
08/12/20 12:12:13 AM
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I mean, if they're on there...

If dudes are getting mad, try swapping out "no men" for "trans only". They might feel targeted by the former, and while dudes might still feel upset at being left out, the latter states exactly what demographic you're looking for.

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DarkRoast
08/12/20 12:14:06 AM
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They literally are on Grindr for a good time like everyone else. Actively looking for them to hook up with is kinda the point.

I dated a trans girl back in college. She was great but our personalities didn't click.

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CasualGuy
08/12/20 12:15:04 AM
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Also this app is trash

Most people write something dumb as their name, don't have any pics (or only 1) and expect people to respond to them?

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MrMallard
08/12/20 12:16:45 AM
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CasualGuy posted...
Also this app is trash

Most people write something dumb as their name, don't have any pics (or only 1) and expect people to respond to them?

I would assume that people don't put so much effort into their profile because "any hole's a goal". Doesn't matter what someone looks like if they're down to plow.

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TheOtherMike
08/12/20 12:20:44 AM
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I see the occasional profile that says they're only looking for transwomen, and I see plenty of transwomen on grindr. Just block anyone who gives you shit for it. You aren't doing anything wrong using the app as intended. Maybe list "trans" in your tribes and change "no dudes" to "I'm only interested in transwomen."
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DarkRoast
08/12/20 8:19:51 AM
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ArianaGrandSlam posted...
But then youll get accused of being a chaser

It's Grindr

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KINDERFELD
08/12/20 8:25:29 AM
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CasualGuy posted...
Not like for a fetish thing, but just to meet women?

Dudes are getting super mad that I put "no men" in my bio

I call bullshit on that.

Guys do not care that you're into trans at all on grindr as you make up a tiny percentage of the the LGBTQ population.

What upsets us is that most guys into trans think they're straight when they truly are bisexual.

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Wetterdew
08/12/20 8:34:18 AM
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CasualGuy posted...
Also this app is trash

Most people write something dumb as their name, don't have any pics (or only 1) and expect people to respond to them?
I have a crappy picture up on purpose because I mostly use the app to window shop and if I see somebody I'm interested in, I just PM them some good pictures of me. I don't really like receiving a bunch of PMs unsolicited from people.

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SmidgeIsntBack
08/12/20 8:55:32 AM
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KINDERFELD posted...
What upsets us is that most guys into trans think they're straight when they truly are bisexual.

fellas is it gay to be into women

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KINDERFELD
08/12/20 9:01:45 AM
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SmidgeIsntBack posted...
fellas is it gay to be into women

They are attached to men who have had operations to have their bodies reflect how they feel mentally.

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DarkRoast
08/12/20 9:27:32 AM
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KINDERFELD posted...
They are attached to men who have had operations to have their bodies reflect how they feel mentally.

Is someone with Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome male or female

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KINDERFELD
08/12/20 10:02:58 AM
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DarkRoast posted...
Is someone with Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome male or female

I don't see how that relates to a biological born male or female, who, through surgery and hormone treatment, assume the gender that they believe they truly are.

But hey, whatever mental gymnastics you have to do to justify why you do what you do or to avoid accepting your sexuality, is your burden.

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