Current Events > My female friends nuked my self confidence

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They keep asking why I'm perpetually single so they wanted to see what kinds of girls I'm swiping on for tinder/bumble

Said I was reaching way out of league. When I asked them to find me girls in my league they just kept showing me fat girls who are clearly bigger than me.

Feels bad man

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Why didn't you just like tease them back? :o

What are friends for

lol

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rather than doing tinder/bumble why don't you ask them to set you up with one of their friends?

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Tell them you have a big PP with tons of cash that'll shut them up. If they don't believe you tell to touch/grab it til it gets hard. Even if 4-5 inches is your max tell them to keep going and that its still growing. 15 mins later mission accomplished.

leagues don't exist

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HylianShield posted...

Tell them you have a big PP with tons of cash that'll shut them up. If they don't believe you tell to touch/grab it til it gets hard. Even if 4-5 inches is your max tell them to keep going and that its still growing. 15 mins later mission accomplished.

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Are you a big fella

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this sounds like something i would do as a joke to my friend
but we both joke around so much that nothing we ever say is serious

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RedJackson posted...

Why didn't you just like tease them back? :o

They weren't teasing :(

AdrianBeterson posted...

rather than doing tinder/bumble why don't you ask them to set you up with one of their friends?

Maybe I could. But they'd probably set me up with a fat chick now that I know they think I'm quasimodo level ugly apparently

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Obviously I don't know them or you, but there is a good chance they are being at least semi objective in a way that is very difficult to be about yourself.

The internet and media in general has grossly broken many peoples ability to see what an average person looks like.

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Blue_Inigo posted...

Are you a big fella

I'm 5'11" and 170lbs.

That's pretty average aint it?

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CasualGuy posted...

I'm 5'11" and 170lbs.

That's pretty average aint it?

Yeah that isn't even that fat, I weigh around that and I'm 5'6, and most people just say I have a beer gut

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Relient_K posted...

Obviously I don't know them or you, but there is a good chance they are being at least semi objective in a way that is very difficult to be about yourself.

The internet and media in general has grossly broken many peoples ability to see what an average person looks like.

I don't disagree but I don't think my expectations are that broken. Women don't have to be stick thin. But I would like her to weigh less than me at least. Unless she's tall and super thicc I suppose

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damn lol

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Dating apps don't work for the average guy, my friend. I think the only way to meet a woman you're attracted to is to go out and meet someone doing something.

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Are you out of shape with bad hair and poor skin?

You are in total control over whether you're attractive or not

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When you want validation but get hit with the "you're ugly" Smh

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CasualGuy posted...

I'm 5'11" and 170lbs.

That's pretty average aint it?

Maybe in the US, but women are also bigger than men in the US, so most men are going to end up with a girl bigger than them due to this weight discrepancy.

Coloradough posted...

Are you out of shape with bad hair and poor skin?

You are in total control over whether you're attractive or not

yes. a haircut, skincare routine, and weight loss can change a persons appearance so much.

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Choco posted...

leagues don't exist

I agree.

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RedJackson posted...

Why didn't you just like tease them back? :o

Because then all of a sudden it's not "friendly teasing" like they claim they were doing to him and he's a massive asshole.

Seriously, don't be friends with the average female.

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Coloradough posted...

Are you out of shape with bad hair and poor skin?

You are in total control over whether you're attractive or not

In good shape, receeding hair but I style it nicely. Poor skin? I guess.

Mostly my ugly face tbqh

How do I control a long face, sunken eyes and a big nose?

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Fat girls are better in bed. It's extremely hot when they plop up ontop and get to work.

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CasualGuy posted...

In good shape, receeding hair but I style it nicely. Poor skin? I guess.

Mostly my ugly face tbqh

I don't think I've ever seen someone who was muscular, had good hair, and good skin and I thought "damn they're not attractive"

Do you have oily skin and thin hair you won't let go of? A little bit of a gut? Time to be honest with yourself

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Dark_SilverX posted...

Fat girls are better in bed. It's extremely hot when they plop up ontop and get to work.

Beards can fix an ugly face pretty often. Unless the face is ugly because of the beard.

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Dark_SilverX posted...

Fat girls are better in bed. It's extremely hot when they plop up ontop and get to work.

I don't like any girl that can plop

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Darmik posted...

Beards can fix an ugly face pretty often. Unless the face is ugly because of the beard.

I still can't grow a beard that's not patchy and that doesn't look like pubes.

Coloradough posted...

I don't think I've ever seen someone who was muscular, had good hair, and good skin and I thought "damn they're not attractive

Wat.

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Coloradough posted...

Are you out of shape with bad hair and poor skin?

You are in total control over whether you're attractive or not

Man, this guy needs to just get in shape and work on his hair and skin! Then he'll be a 10/10 easy, total chick magnet megachad.

Not a great post, guy. Not everyone is born with good geometry. It is in fact possible to just be ugly.

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CasualGuy posted...

In good shape, receeding hair but I style it nicely. Poor skin? I guess.

Mostly my ugly face tbqh

How do I control a long face, sunken eyes and a big nose?

makeup, some guys use foundation

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Crazyman93 posted...

Because then all of a sudden it's not "friendly teasing" like they claim they were doing to him and he's a massive asshole.

Seriously, don't be friends with the average female.

just call them dirty cheeseheads

u cheesehead

It is worth noting that most girls are only ever going to be friends with men they find unattractive, so of course they think you can't get an attractive girl.

If you are ugly then wear a mask, put in some beautiful lookin contacts and wear a snapback hat.

GentlemanGamer posted...

You will be soaken wet. No need for the swimming pool.

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CasualGuy posted...

In good shape, receeding hair but I style it nicely. Poor skin? I guess.

Mostly my ugly face tbqh

How do I control a long face, sunken eyes and a big nose?

An uppercut to shorten the face, and right hook to flatten the nose. Not sure about the eyes though, maybe glasses?

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Chicken_Butt posted...

Man, this guy needs to just get in shape and work on his hair and skin! Then he'll be a 10/10 easy, total chick magnet megachad.

Not a great post, guy. Not everyone is born with good geometry. It is in fact possible to just be ugly.

This isn't me. He looks better than me though face wise.

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CasualGuy posted...

This isn't me. He looks better than me though face wise.

Never said it was you bruh, it was just some example I pulled from google searching "ugly guy"

Anyway, don't worry too much about looks. I've seen some Shrek looking mofos with smokeshows. Just relax, be yourself, keep your options open, let rejection roll off your shoulder. Don't be afraid to ask out multiple girls, and don't be afraid of getting turned down. Most guys who struggle to date aren't actually playing the dating game, they're just watching it and swiping on dating apps. If that works for you, great. If it doesn't, you gotta do it the old fashioned way. Don't let yourself get caught up on any one girl, and don't let rejection cool you off. Just keep at it.

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CE needs to understand that there is no universal look that women are attracted to. I've had women who I considered far out of my league find me attractive (I fucked up with them but hey I was younger and dumber). Even chubby dudes get love.

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Chicken_Butt posted...

Man, this guy needs to just get in shape and work on his hair and skin! Then he'll be a 10/10 easy, total chick magnet megachad.

Not a great post, guy. Not everyone is born with good geometry. It is in fact possible to just be ugly.

I literally cant even count the amount of levels this post is stupid on

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Could you at least try? I want to see some effort here.

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Let me rephrase, I cant even count the amount of levels this poster is stupid on.

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I mean, alright, but I still want you to try. If it's not at least ten I'm going to be pretty disappointed in you. Counting to ten isn't that hard. I still have to write the numbers on my fingers to remember them all, but even I can count to ten.

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Read this

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iax1vi/question_for_women_how_often_do_you_see_a_man/

Don't let her get you down.

You need better friends.

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Choco posted...

leagues don't exist

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When it comes to women, you set your own limits. If you want better women, you will have to do some work though. There's no getting around that.

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for some people, dating is like climbing a ladder. you have to work at the bottom, gain experience, and work yourself to the top, in order to date the hotties

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ColdOne666 posted...

You need better friends.

Seriously this though.

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onedarksoul posted...

When it comes to women, you set your own limits. If you want better women, you will have to do some work though. There's no getting around that.

The issue is I think the work I've done should be enough to not have to date girls bigger than me


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