Current Events > Confirm/Deny you are a forever alone

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I check off all the wrong kinds of boxes

anxious
often depressed
short
receding hairline with a massive baldspot
scrawny (I did use to work out a lot when I was younger but I only got toned and didn't put on much muscle mass)
very asymmetrical face with a crooked ass nose
never been on a single date
30 yo virgin
live home with my parents
asperger

For whatever reason I tend to rub women the wrong way cause my experience is women are disinterested in me or irritated by me. Whether I try to flirt or just have a platonic conversation I naturally annoy them. Not trying to it's just an innate effect I seem to have.

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deny, i can get a girl or guy

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Eliza-Schuyler posted...

deny, i can get a girl or guy

Same. Strong deny.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

Same. Strong deny.

im honestly just waiting for the right person

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Nobody is forever alone, he just kind of sulks there listening to Dipset

but you my guy, yer 30 years young and still got a whole life to try something - you are not doomed, you got a long list of possibilities and options to find out what works and what doesn't all completely custom to you

RedJackson posted...

Nobody is forever alone, he just kind of sulks there listening to Dipset

but you my guy, yer 30 years young and still got a whole life to try something - you are not doomed, you got a long list of possibilities and options to find out what works and what doesn't all completely custom to you

you say that you are talking to somebody with extremely poor social skills and next to zero practical life skills.

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GS4Life posted...

you say that you are talking to somebody with extremely poor social skills and next to zero practical life skills.

but theres someone for everyone

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Eliza-Schuyler posted...

but theres someone for everyone

nah don't think so I didn't buy that bs at 18 don't buy it at 30

only girl that ever felt right for me got hitched with a marine chad
I'm a janitor womp

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GS4Life posted...

nah don't think so I didn't buy that bs at 18 don't buy it at 30

you havent found anyone yet. everyone has someone. but sometimes it takes a lifetime to find them.

only girl that ever felt right for me got hitched with a marine chad
I'm a janitor womp

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C, I've stopped trying and I actually feel happier now that I just don't care anymore.
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GS4Life posted...

anxious
often depressed
short
receding hairline with a massive baldspot
scrawny
very asymmetrical face with a crooked ass nose
live home with my parents

why you gotta call me out like that bro.

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Out of choice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8w6khbl-uXw
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Confirm. I don't see myself ever managing to find anyone in my lifetime. It's pointless to try any more. I was planning on giving one final push to try and land a date this summer, then Corona shut that down pretty fast.

Just seems like there's too many hurdles for me to overcome. Thinking on how old I am, it doesn't feel like I've got enough time left.

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D, I've had multiple relationships some good and some bad. Now I'm happily engaged and living with my fiancee.

I'm also out of work, below average attractiveness, overweight, a dad, have aspergers, frequently depressed, general anxiety disorder, prone to psychotic episodes, physically unwell also.

My point is don't write yourself off just because of illness or disorders or how you look. There's still hope, but don't worry about things like having an asymmetrical face or focus too hard on getting laid or whatever you're aiming for. Work on being as comfortable and happy with yourself as you can.

Women or whoever you're into come in so many varieties and there's not just one strict set of things they look for in a guy. Stay away from any incel communities even if it sounds tempting, that way of thinking is toxic and will result in you being forever alone.

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Side note on top of that one girl I was batshit crazy for getting married another girl I use to like just got married too

Jealousy aside I feel awful for them, having to get married in the Covid-19 era with all these restrictions on how many people can attend and what not sucks they deserve better

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GS4Life posted...

Side note on top of that one girl I was batshit crazy for getting married another girl I use to like just got married too

Jealousy aside I feel awful for them, having to get married in the Covid-19 era with all these restrictions on how many people can attend and what not sucks they deserve better

That sucks man. These things happen for a reason though.

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Im happily married so no, but honestly I dunno how I hooked my wife and dont think I could do it again if I ever found myself single again. I could get dates but my personality seems to friend zone me pretty quick. Lots of females really like me but not LIKE like me, lol.

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The amount of foreveralones is growing, not shrinking.
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GallisOTK posted...

C, I've stopped trying and I actually feel happier now that I just don't care anymore.

That's pretty much me too. I was engaged once, but having seen how she's turned out in the years since we split up, I dodged an enormous bullet.

I'm happier being single.

I mean I got laid a lot as a kid but I feel like I'll never get married

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50/50 poll wise
Sigh well I'm not the only incompetent one
What really was soul crushing was starting to fall for a girl in HS, only to literally have her dangled right in front of me during college, end up really caring about her but fall short in hooking up with her (like seemingly everything else I try to do in life).
About a dozen or so failures later is when I finally gave up but there's that one that will never stop stinging.

Ah well there's always porn and strippers once this Covid thing is over with m I rite?


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