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Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:02:35 PM #1:	I'm so embarrassed, CE is the only place I'm comfortable enough to say this. Basically we had a great time and she invited me up and we were watching a movie but not really cause she was telling me about her life and stuff. This whole time she's been touching my knees and arms and stuff. And I kinda just keep going with it without reciprocating because I am absolutely terrified of intimacy and likely also on the spectrum. So anyway I pretend I need to leave and after she walks me to my car I know she wants me to kiss her but I completely fuck it up and freeze and just hug her bye. Holy shit I wanna jump off a bridge man. Why am I so weird around people I don't know that well? I can be perfectly charming and funny around most people and even on dates but when it comes to something more intimate I fuck it up. I'm so pissed. At least last night she texted me all night after and hopefully we meet up again but I wouldn't be surprised if she dropped me after what I pulled yesterday. --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005392] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>I'm so embarrassed, CE is the only place I'm comfortable enough to say this. Basically we had a great time and she invited me up and we were watching a movie but not really cause she was telling me about her life and stuff. This whole time she's been touching my knees and arms and stuff. And I kinda just keep going with it without reciprocating because I am absolutely terrified of intimacy and likely also on the spectrum. So anyway I pretend I need to leave and after she walks me to my car I know she wants me to kiss her but I completely fuck it up and freeze and just hug her bye. Holy shit I wanna jump off a bridge man. Why am I so weird around people I don't know that well? I can be perfectly charming and funny around most people and even on dates but when it comes to something more intimate I fuck it up. I'm so pissed. At least last night she texted me all night after and hopefully we meet up again but I wouldn't be surprised if she dropped me after what I pulled yesterday. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 08/30/20 2:03:43 PM #2:	Are you an anime protagonist --- the real Irving Rameses https://imgur.com/A7f6F9h <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:944005428] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Are you an anime protagonist </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:05:04 PM #3:	I don't watch animes. Are most of them undiagnosed autistics absolutely horrified of any act of intimacy like I am? --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005452] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>I don't watch animes. Are most of them undiagnosed autistics absolutely horrified of any act of intimacy like I am? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 08/30/20 2:05:56 PM #4:	Yes. >_> --- the real Irving Rameses https://imgur.com/A7f6F9h <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:944005488] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Yes. >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/30/20 2:06:15 PM #5:	it sounds like she's really into you tbqh --- i'm Trent B and i get respect your cash and your jewelry is what i expect <cite>The Trent posted [p:944005501] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>it sounds like she's really into you tbqh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 08/30/20 2:07:07 PM #6:	TC, I used to be like you. Nerdy. Shy. Easily embarrassed and afraid of PDA. But now I have 3 girlfriends, 2 of whom I see regularly as they're local. Wanna know my secrets? --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:944005535] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>TC, I used to be like you. Nerdy. Shy. Easily embarrassed and afraid of PDA. But now I have 3 girlfriends, 2 of whom I see regularly as they're local. Wanna know my secrets? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:08:01 PM #7:	The Trent posted... it sounds like she's really into you tbqh Yes I think she is which makes it even worse because I can't even justify it on anything except my own fuck ups. --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005553] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>it sounds like she's really into you tbqh</quote>Yes I think she is which makes it even worse because I can't even justify it on anything except my own fuck ups. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:08:26 PM #8:	gunplagirl posted... TC, I used to be like you. Nerdy. Shy. Easily embarrassed and afraid of PDA. But now I have 3 girlfriends, 2 of whom I see regularly as they're local. Wanna know my secrets? No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy. --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005573] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>TC, I used to be like you. Nerdy. Shy. Easily embarrassed and afraid of PDA. But now I have 3 girlfriends, 2 of whom I see regularly as they're local. Wanna know my secrets?</quote>No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/30/20 2:09:33 PM #9:	Obstacle2 posted... Yes I think she is which makes it even worse because I can't even justify it on anything except my own fuck ups. i don't know if you're looking for advice or to just whine but if she's this into you already in such a clear manner, i'd lay it out to her and just tell her straight up that you have anxieties but you like her and want to move slowly and for things to work with open communication you're out nothing and i'm guessing would gain quite a bit --- i'm Trent B and i get respect your cash and your jewelry is what i expect <cite>The Trent posted [p:944005620] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>Yes I think she is which makes it even worse because I can't even justify it on anything except my own fuck ups.</quote> i don't know if you're looking for advice or to just whine but if she's this into you already in such a clear manner, i'd lay it out to her and just tell her straight up that you have anxieties but you like her and want to move slowly and for things to work with open communication you're out nothing and i'm guessing would gain quite a bit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 08/30/20 2:09:43 PM #10:	Obstacle2 posted... No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy. Bold claim from the guy who wussed out of a sure thing --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:944005624] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy.</quote>Bold claim from the guy who wussed out of a sure thing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KiwiTerraRizing 08/30/20 2:09:51 PM #11:	Well done TC, she just wanted to get you naked and laugh at you. --- Trucking Legend Don Schneider! <cite>KiwiTerraRizing posted [p:944005628] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Well done TC, she just wanted to get you naked and laugh at you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lolife67 08/30/20 2:11:12 PM #12:	Obstacle2 posted... No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy. You're posting about blowing a date on a gaming site. You are definitely nerdy, at the very least. <cite>lolife67 posted [p:944005675] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>No, I'm neither nerdy nor shy.</quote>You're posting about blowing a date on a gaming site. You are definitely nerdy, at the very least. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:12:14 PM #13:	The Trent posted... i don't know if you're looking for advice or to just whine but if she's this into you already in such a clear manner, i'd lay it out to her and just tell her straight up that you have anxieties but you like her and want to move slowly and for things to work with open communication you're out nothing and i'm guessing would gain quite a bit Maybe I should just come clean at the beginning of the next date and kiss her then? gunplagirl posted... Bold claim from the guy who wussed out of a sure thing Yeah I admit I'm a total wuss and have intimacy issues but that doesn't mean I'm nerdy or shy lol KiwiTerraRizing posted... Well done TC, she just wanted to get you naked and laugh at you. Facts. --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005703] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>i don't know if you're looking for advice or to just whine but if she's this into you already in such a clear manner, i'd lay it out to her and just tell her straight up that you have anxieties but you like her and want to move slowly and for things to work with open communication you're out nothing and i'm guessing would gain quite a bit</quote>Maybe I should just come clean at the beginning of the next date and kiss her then? gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>Bold claim from the guy who wussed out of a sure thing</quote>Yeah I admit I'm a total wuss and have intimacy issues but that doesn't mean I'm nerdy or shy lol KiwiTerraRizing posted... </cite> <quote>Well done TC, she just wanted to get you naked and laugh at you.</quote>Facts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:12:53 PM #14:	lolife67 posted... You're posting about blowing a date on a gaming site. You are definitely nerdy, at the very least. I don't even game any more. I'm only on CE because if I shared this with my irl friends they'd call me an idiot and make fun of me --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005721] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>lolife67 posted... </cite> <quote>You're posting about blowing a date on a gaming site. You are definitely nerdy, at the very least.</quote>I don't even game any more. I'm only on CE because if I shared this with my irl friends they'd call me an idiot and make fun of me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/30/20 2:13:08 PM #15:	sure whatever just give her something to work with and don't be so uptight about it --- i'm Trent B and i get respect your cash and your jewelry is what i expect <cite>The Trent posted [p:944005733] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>sure whatever just give her something to work with and don't be so uptight about it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta 08/30/20 2:13:09 PM #16:	Calm down, she likes you lol. Don't think too much of it --- https://imgur.com/tvKkIcw https://imgur.com/Kywn3Qc https://imgur.com/Cybsdf1 http://h-7.abload.de/img/messi02-rm-ucl3ngb.gif <cite>ssj3vegeta posted [p:944005734] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Calm down, she likes you lol. Don't think too much of it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:14:08 PM #17:	I'm dead ass thinking of Ending this and starting over with someone else --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944005762] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>I'm dead ass thinking of Ending this and starting over with someone else </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 08/30/20 2:17:39 PM #18:	I tend to be a bit shy and reserved when I'm with someone I really like, too. Even if it's clear as day they're into me, I used to be TERRIFIED to make a move. But I got to the point where now, I'd rather just go for it and hope it works out. If you're wrong and she's not into it, then at least you know where you stand. Hang out with her again! If the vibe is right, just go for a kiss. Don't be worried about perception. If she agrees to hang out again, she probably sensed you were just nervous about things. Girls sometimes like guys that aren't super forward instantly. Taking your time is ok. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:944005890] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>I tend to be a bit shy and reserved when I'm with someone I really like, too. Even if it's clear as day they're into me, I used to be TERRIFIED to make a move. But I got to the point where now, I'd rather just go for it and hope it works out. If you're wrong and she's not into it, then at least you know where you stand. Hang out with her again! If the vibe is right, just go for a kiss. Don't be worried about perception. If she agrees to hang out again, she probably sensed you were just nervous about things. Girls sometimes like guys that aren't super forward instantly. Taking your time is ok. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/30/20 2:18:45 PM #19:	#Swag crew now and forever either i've been heartily trolled or you have to take this out of your sig --- i'm Trent B and i get respect your cash and your jewelry is what i expect <cite>The Trent posted [p:944005929] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>#Swag crew now and forever either i've been heartily trolled or you have to take this out of your sig </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lolife67 08/30/20 2:19:22 PM #20:	Obstacle2 posted... I don't even game any more. I'm only on CE because if I shared this with my irl friends they'd call me an idiot and make fun of me That doesn't refute my statement at all. <cite>lolife67 posted [p:944005950] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't even game any more. I'm only on CE because if I shared this with my irl friends they'd call me an idiot and make fun of me</quote>That doesn't refute my statement at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:20:55 PM #21:	The Trent posted... #Swag crew now and forever either i've been heartily trolled or you have to take this out of lou your sig Why? Do you even know what it is MFBKBass5 posted... I tend to be a bit shy and reserved when I'm with someone I really like, too. Even if it's clear as day they're into me, I used to be TERRIFIED to make a move. But I got to the point where now, I'd rather just go for it and hope it works out. If you're wrong and she's not into it, then at least you know where you stand. Hang out with her again! If the vibe is right, just go for a kiss. Don't be worried about perception. If she agrees to hang out again, she probably sensed you were just nervous about things. Girls sometimes like guys that aren't super forward instantly. Taking your time is ok. This is good advice, thanks. I'm just paranoid about her losing interest / respect for me --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944006007] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>#Swag crew now and forever either i've been heartily trolled or you have to take this out of lou your sig</quote>Why? Do you even know what it is MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>I tend to be a bit shy and reserved when I'm with someone I really like, too. Even if it's clear as day they're into me, I used to be TERRIFIED to make a move. But I got to the point where now, I'd rather just go for it and hope it works out. If you're wrong and she's not into it, then at least you know where you stand. Hang out with her again! If the vibe is right, just go for a kiss. Don't be worried about perception. If she agrees to hang out again, she probably sensed you were just nervous about things. Girls sometimes like guys that aren't super forward instantly. Taking your time is ok.</quote>This is good advice, thanks. I'm just paranoid about her losing interest / respect for me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:21:53 PM #22:	lolife67 posted... That doesn't refute my statement at all. I'm a nerd about some things I guess? So is everyone though. If you mean a incel type nerd then I'm not that but if you mean I'm not a frat bro then sure i'm a nerd --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944006030] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>lolife67 posted... </cite> <quote>That doesn't refute my statement at all.</quote>I'm a nerd about some things I guess? So is everyone though. If you mean a incel type nerd then I'm not that but if you mean I'm not a frat bro then sure i'm a nerd </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CommonStar 08/30/20 2:23:55 PM #23:	Don't be too hard on yourself. She seems very into you. I would just ask her to take it slow until you're more comfortable. You don't have to do things right away, and it's probably way better if you guys just work your way up to it. It's not a big deal just communicate. <cite>CommonStar posted [p:944006104] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Don't be too hard on yourself. She seems very into you. I would just ask her to take it slow until you're more comfortable. You don't have to do things right away, and it's probably way better if you guys just work your way up to it. It's not a big deal just communicate. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 08/30/20 2:25:52 PM #24:	Obstacle2 posted... I'm dead ass thinking of Ending this and starting over with someone else Don't do it. Well, maybe you'll have to. My secret to my success with women is simple, a 4 step plan that you should be able to follow along with but ask if any step confuses you or you want more clarification. T - test the waters. Don't just see how you get along, but also pique her interest by asking questions like "if you were a bee, would you be more interested in brightly colored flowers or large, blooming ones?" I - interests. Ask her if there's any series or hobbies she's into that might surprise others to find out she's into. Use questions like that to help find out what her real interests are, not just the surface level ones. You want to show you're trying to see the real her. T - tactical set up. If you can't pull the trigger and go for a kiss, then at least be aware when she's showing interest and set things up to naturally progress towards it. It's cheesy feeling but comparing palm sizes then slipping in that her hands are so soft and cute, then cross fingers with hers as you hold hands, then feel free to giggle, and make a goofy smile as you say she's so pretty. Notice her earrings, ask if you can see them clearer and if she's feeling it she'll move her hair and expose her ear. Reach out and place your hand around her cheek with the palm of your hand cupping the earring if it's a dangling one. Lean in and well, look into her eyes and see if she's leaning in towards you. S - seal the deal. Tell her you're a trans bimbo hucow and that she really makes your motor hum. Oh, or kiss her, I guess. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:944006163] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>I'm dead ass thinking of Ending this and starting over with someone else</quote>Don't do it. Well, maybe you'll have to. My secret to my success with women is simple, a 4 step plan that you should be able to follow along with but ask if any step confuses you or you want more clarification. T - test the waters. Don't just see how you get along, but also pique her interest by asking questions like "if you were a bee, would you be more interested in brightly colored flowers or large, blooming ones?" I - interests. Ask her if there's any series or hobbies she's into that might surprise others to find out she's into. Use questions like that to help find out what her real interests are, not just the surface level ones. You want to show you're trying to see the real her. T - tactical set up. If you can't pull the trigger and go for a kiss, then at least be aware when she's showing interest and set things up to naturally progress towards it. It's cheesy feeling but comparing palm sizes then slipping in that her hands are so soft and cute, then cross fingers with hers as you hold hands, then feel free to giggle, and make a goofy smile as you say she's so pretty. Notice her earrings, ask if you can see them clearer and if she's feeling it she'll move her hair and expose her ear. Reach out and place your hand around her cheek with the palm of your hand cupping the earring if it's a dangling one. Lean in and well, look into her eyes and see if she's leaning in towards you. S - seal the deal. Tell her you're a trans bimbo hucow and that she really makes your motor hum. Oh, or kiss her, I guess. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lolife67 08/30/20 2:26:29 PM #25:	Obstacle2 posted... I'm a nerd about some things I guess? So is everyone though. If you mean a incel type nerd then I'm not that but if you mean I'm not a frat bro then sure i'm a nerd The latter. <cite>lolife67 posted [p:944006175] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>I'm a nerd about some things I guess? So is everyone though. If you mean a incel type nerd then I'm not that but if you mean I'm not a frat bro then sure i'm a nerd</quote>The latter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:28:41 PM #26:	CommonStar posted... Don't be too hard on yourself. She seems very into you. I would just ask her to take it slow until you're more comfortable. You don't have to do things right away, and it's probably way better if you guys just work your way up to it. It's not a big deal just communicate. Yeah I gotta be honest with her I think. If she goes running then she's not for me anyway. Thanks bro --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944006243] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>CommonStar posted... </cite> <quote>Don't be too hard on yourself. She seems very into you. I would just ask her to take it slow until you're more comfortable. You don't have to do things right away, and it's probably way better if you guys just work your way up to it. It's not a big deal just communicate.</quote>Yeah I gotta be honest with her I think. If she goes running then she's not for me anyway. Thanks bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 08/30/20 2:35:53 PM #27:	I typed that helpful stuff out on mobile, and tc ignored it? --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:944006445] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>I typed that helpful stuff out on mobile, and tc ignored it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CommonStar 08/30/20 2:42:25 PM #28:	Obstacle2 posted... Yeah I gotta be honest with her I think. If she goes running then she's not for me anyway. Thanks bro Also if you're into her, be sure to reassure that you are. <cite>CommonStar posted [p:944006615] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>Obstacle2 posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah I gotta be honest with her I think. If she goes running then she's not for me anyway. Thanks bro</quote>Also if you're into her, be sure to reassure that you are. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/30/20 2:43:32 PM #29:	CommonStar posted... Also if you're into her, be sure to reassure that you are. Yeah that's true. Cheers fam --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:944006647] in Boys, I wu... [t:78943216]...</cite> <quote>CommonStar posted... </cite> <quote>Also if you're into her, be sure to reassure that you are.</quote>Yeah that's true. Cheers fam </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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